Ever dated a guy who friends hit on u behind his back?

[Marti]

If so, how did you deal with the situation?

Its a difference between complimenting your homeboys girl and just out right flirting with her.

 

[Black White Sox Hat]

I catch y'all it's fist of fury,bytch.

 

[Poitier]

honest answers ladies

 

[YoungCoolSwag921]

shyt happens all the times, its about how u respond to it as a female

 

[Sly Cooper]

I've never shared a story in The Salon
my bad this might be a little long, not the best at condensing

So my best friend asked me to come stop by a party she was throwing (post-midterms celebration)

my boyfriend (ex ) was working so I go solo, but I text him to come thru after work if he wasn't too tired
I swing by, about to have fun; I don't drink so if you catch me at a party, all I need is some food and good music and I'm diddy boppin

lol so everybody's chillin, dancing, regular kickback
After a while I go and sit at the kitchen island to catch up with some friends when I kinda hear my name and feel someone squeeze my waist and a tug on my hair

bf still had another hour at work so I was like ok maybe that's my friend (ride or die since 6th grade, practically my sister), and she's the touchy feely type

in my head I'm like alright she's gonna get hit with the pedigree if she don't stop playing lol jk jk

so I turn around...and it was my bf's friend and he got the face

I slide out my seat and was looking at him like

I punked out just brushed it off, told myself he was probably a little gone or something, and just kept my distance from then on
A random guy I can handle, just tell him I'm taken, back up but this was different, and I didn't really know how to address it

Looking back, I should've just pulled him to the side and let him know it's principalities to this dammit, you gotta cool out

edit: I made so many typos in here wth

 

[The Mad Titan]

I've never shared a story in The Salon
my bad this might be a little long, not the best at condensing

So my best friend asked to me come stop by a party she was throwing (post-midterms celebration)

my boyfriend (ex ) was working so I go solo, but I text him to come thru after work if he wasn't too tired
I swing by, about to have fun; I don't drink so if you catch me at a party, all I need is some food and good music and I'm diddy boppin

lol so everybody's chillin, dancing, regular kickback
After a while I go and sit at the kitchen island to catch up with some friends when I kinda hear my name and feel someone squeeze my waist and a tug on my hair

bf still had another hour at work so I was like ok maybe that's my friend (ride or die since 6th grade, practically my sister), and she's the touchy feely type

in my head I'm like alright she's gonna get hit with the pedigree if she don't stop playing lol jk jk

so I turn around...and it was my bf's friend and he got the face

I slid out my seat and was looking at him like

I punked out just brushed it off, told myself he was probably a little gone or something, and just kept my distance from then on
A random guy I can handle, just tell him I'm taken, back up but this was different, and I did't really know how to address it

Looking back, I should've just pulled him to the side and let him know it's principalities to this dammit, you gotta cool out

*looks at avi* I can see why




That liquor had your ex bf's friend ready to risk it all.

"Girl he aint doing you right away let me"

 

[BrokePhiBroke]

Yes.

 

[The5thLetter]

One of ex's friends was drunk and blurted out at a house party in front of everyone that he shoulda been w/ me cuz he knew me 1st. We were both there so I sat in silence and let my bf handle it. The friend would also tell me slick shyt when my bf would leave the room to get me mad. I'd shut it down on the spot then tell my bf so he knew his friend wasn't loyal

Another of my ex's (we were done at the time but still cool since we knew each other since single digits) had a bff who got my # out of his phone and was textin me. He said he asked for my # to congratulate me cuz I had just moved into my 1st place, but I later found out that was a lie. I was on the phone w/ my ex tellin him abt the move at the same time, so I thought that's why the friend was textin me (they were at my ex's house). the friend asks if he could come over and I show him around. I thought that was weird so I ask my ex if he knew abt this and he said he didn't know his friend was textin me, and his friend prob didn't know me n my ex were on the phone. He hung up and handled the situation, and I had stopped textin n blocked dude.

 

[L. Murphy]

Feel like this is a regular occurance, basically try to deflect it and play it off, unless he's cute lol jk

 

[Marti]

I've never shared a story in The Salon
my bad this might be a little long, not the best at condensing

So my best friend asked me to come stop by a party she was throwing (post-midterms celebration)

my boyfriend (ex ) was working so I go solo, but I text him to come thru after work if he wasn't too tired
I swing by, about to have fun; I don't drink so if you catch me at a party, all I need is some food and good music and I'm diddy boppin

lol so everybody's chillin, dancing, regular kickback
After a while I go and sit at the kitchen island to catch up with some friends when I kinda hear my name and feel someone squeeze my waist and a tug on my hair

bf still had another hour at work so I was like ok maybe that's my friend (ride or die since 6th grade, practically my sister), and she's the touchy feely type

in my head I'm like alright she's gonna get hit with the pedigree if she don't stop playing lol jk jk

so I turn around...and it was my bf's friend and he got the face

I slid out my seat and was looking at him like

I punked out just brushed it off, told myself he was probably a little gone or something, and just kept my distance from then on
A random guy I can handle, just tell him I'm taken, back up but this was different, and I did't really know how to address it

Looking back, I should've just pulled him to the side and let him know it's principalities to this dammit, you gotta cool out

That nikka violated

It wouldve been hard for me to brush that off.
This guy ive been dating on and off introduced me to his friends. I kicked it with them for an hour or so and the minute my guy left to use the bathroom, his friend whispered to me that i was "thick and sexy as hell " in my ear. The other friend acting like he didnt witness this shyt happen. I want to tell him so bad but this has been his best friend since they were kids. Ive only known him for a year.

This nikka introduced me to them as his girl and his friend had the audacity to pull that shyt

 

[Marti]

One of ex's friends was drunk and blurted out at a house party in front of everyone that he shoulda been w/ me cuz he knew me 1st. We were both there so I sat in silence and let my bf handle it. The friend would also tell me slick shyt when my bf would leave the room to get me mad. I'd shut it down on the spot then tell my bf so he knew his friend wasn't loyal

Another of my ex's (we were done at the time but still cool since we knew each other since single digits) had a bff who got my # out of his phone and was textin me. He said he asked for my # to congratulate me cuz I had just moved into my 1st place, but I later found out that was a lie. I was on the phone w/ my ex tellin him abt the move at the same time, so I thought that's why the friend was textin me (they were at my ex's house). the friend asks if he could come over and I show him around. I thought that was weird so I ask my ex if he knew abt this and he said he didn't know his friend was textin me, and his friend prob didn't know me n my ex were on the phone. He hung up and handled the situation, and I had stopped textin n blocked dude.

at both occurences.

nikkas aint loyal to they homies out here no more

 

[Marti]

I catch y'all it's fist of fury,bytch.

Im not a dirt bag

honest answers ladies

I dont do shyt to people that can be done to me.

U might not believe me but not all women are unloyal hoes.

shyt happens all the times, its about how u respond to it as a female

I pulled away and waited at the door for my guy.

 

[The5thLetter]

at both occurences.

nikkas aint loyal to they homies out here no more

Not at all smh. How you do that to your day 1? over p*ssy you most likely won't get. And if u do, u had to dirty mack to get it. Filth

 

[L. Murphy]

Has anyone actually followed through and done something w said friend of bf?

 

[Marti]

Not at all smh. How you do that to your day 1? over p*ssy you most likely won't get. And if u do, u had to dirty mack to get it. Filth

This is what was going thru my head when it happened

Like nikka u know im not some random thot, u know your friend is with me so why pull it???