Twenny Twoo......HUNNA
I picked up this book, the way of the Superior Man by David Deida. Great read. Kinda lays out all the attraction dynamics in an easy to read format. Coupled with The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, one may do damage, if ye knows how to play his cards right (and experience). Both of these books have great insight on this topic.
Alot of people are missing love in their life. They miss receiving and also giving it too. The more you are open and are able to allow that flow of love, platonically, brotherly, fatherly, etc the more you become a source of it for other people, and they will on their own time and ability, reciprocate it. Or not. Its about controlling yourself and allowing the FLOW.
This dynamic is what leads to emotional infidelity. Even though she may be in a relationship, her emotions are as free as the wind. If she sees some dude at work, freely giving the happiness to whomever is there, she's going to gravitate towards that source. Attraction, polarity, charge, gravitas. She isn't getting that at home, so her emptiness will seek to be fulfilled elsewhere. It's only natural, like water filling a cup.
Someone else already said this in here: Attack the emotions, the psyche and the physical will follow.