Folks keep acting like it's a fantasy that certain archetypes that get more attention in our community than others. You even have women admitting to it but yet we're still supposed to act like it's made up.
A lot of black women aren't checking for that corporate, square type of dude.
Yes, some do, but a lot aren't. They want that Russ, Will Smith, Michael B Jordan before the fame type of dude to fall back on AFTER they been tossed up in the thug blender and you can see that they STILL don't want those type of men but have to settle.
Jada still openly fiends for 2pac.
Ciara is twerking in booty shorts, singing about being an independent woman and pulls away from Russ when he tried to kiss her.
Michael B Jordan couldn't lock Lori Harvey down.
Even 2pac said he was ignored and was considered too nice and then he comes out and makes the thug pivot.