cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
I will thoughDon’t give none of these stupid bytches your sperm
On her forehead
Then disappear like Santa
I will thoughDon’t give none of these stupid bytches your sperm
25k difference at that level ain’t a reason to not be with a man LOL 75/100, 125/100 isn’t even something to talk about.Because, fool. The dynamics aren't the same.
An Asian man or White man doesn't live the experience of a Black man in the corporate world. Sure there are some exceptions (thankfully I'm one), but I fully recognize it ain't fair for us across the board.
So a black woman, who should also understand that things aren't as fair for her as they are for a white woman, but still a little more fair bc a black woman is less threatening than black men.
So if a black woman makes 100k and a man makes 75k, she needs to understand that man is likely capable of making much more than that. So don't look down on him.
But fine, go ahead and dump him bc he's not "on your level", but you are gambling with your future, and you may never find all the good things that man would do for you, in someone else
Also, in my work, i see white women everyday making substantially more money than their husbands.
I'll add to this. Many young women are stupid and eat up the entertainment industry lies. "I don't need no man" etc. So they'll waste their 20s leaving good guys with lots of potential on read then get mad later on when those guys aren't available anymore. She left breh who was in med school or getting his MBA on read cuz he was "broke" at the time then they'll come up later when he got a high status job salty cuz he don't want them then. LOL the time to lock breh down was before he was up NOT AFTERThis!!!
Women aren’t realistic with themselves and the caliber of man within their threshold and the caliber that is outside their threshold.
The average looking woman with a few extra pounds, decent enough job, kids out of wedlock, marginal education outside of high school and average and below credit thinks she deserves the top 5 percent of men.
Meanwhile the average breh getting left on read and ignored. Women better start having more realistic expectations and better discernment before they curve themselves into a lifetime of single and lonely.
kind of.
when you hear/see black women complain about the lack of black men out there...
this is kind of what they're hinting at.
brothas are either in the street...
or they're making excuses (the Coli).
If you dont fall in either camp youll see black women are actually VERY easy to deal with.
When black women like her say "single mother by choice", understand everyone is watching. Not just other races but politicians looking to make cuts because they feel welfare, childcare credits, and Section 8 is abused. Unlike Eboni, the average black woman does not make 100k+ and won't be able to show off their 13-year old son on FB/IG in the latest Jordans and Gucci belt like they're a purse.
We've already see this with several laws and SC rulings this year. If you have the "Better off alone" mentality you are giving the men who got you pregnant an out and relinquishing their ability to be called a deadbeat. You also can't be mad about BM that date out or also choose to stay single without kids - Thats going to be a big thing in the coming years - If we don't end up having kids that does not mean we become stepdaddy daycare by default.
@℃ertifed mentioned that she wants black men to have the power of white men which is correct. However even if we did they wouldn't want us to have a Code of Conduct for the women the same way every other race/culture does. We're supposed to be cracking whips in the Macroeconomy but its a free-for-all for the women, but they'll submit because they respect us
Excellent observationMain character syndrome
Stop raising black kids in single parent homes. They’re not pets they are people
The thing is, black men still overcoming these obstacles.
I see it myself.
These women assume when you are black man and not flashy. That you have no money.
It's only when I have a conversation with them do they realize this negro got some sense and bread.
Compare that to the benefit of the doubt a cac male would receive
Now that's a consequence of buying into social media narratives
Seems perfectly reasonable to methe pickings aren't slim.
Alot of brehs with no kids out here just want to do their job, come home to chill/play video games, work on hobbies, be at peace.
Meanwhile, most women are passing those guys up and looking for someone who likely doesn't exist.
"Lord, send me someone over 6 ft tall, 6 figure job, 0 kids, never married, who'll deal with my crazy moodiness when I give him the silent treatment, always wanna spend time with me, has no other women in his phone from day 1, be fine when I don't want to have sex, do everything I expect him to, and be adventurous ."