Because some of them, like her, have a shyt personality. Everything we've seen of her and many similar to her, more or less confirms this. Top flight men have all kinds of women, including those similar to her, that they encounter. Those with a decent personality or present a level of benefit to the top flight guy will win out over women like her. If these top flight men are truly slim pickings, then that is an even greater incentive for women like her to better understand what these men want, if she truly wants one. If she is not willing to do any of that, then she should settle.
There are many high-earning black women who can find high-earning black men. In fact, this is common given how often they are around each other via proximity in school coming up, their careers, or in the social circles they inhabit. However, all of that means little if one doesn't understand how things are and how the game is. All too often I see black women not understanding this and missing out then wondering how things went south or looking to try other things (dating out) as a quick fix while overlooking how these things don't really fix their problems and at times, may increase it.
Completely agree.
That’s why it was easier for Black women of a certain caliber before KS blew up the spot
But it’s all good.
The truth is, you’re totally right. As a lady, you’re supposed to comport yourself in such a way that you attract “top flight” men (which means you’re going to attract pretty much everyone). This isn’t hard to grasp if you’re raised that way as a young woman.
The trick is to be able to spot out a man who was actually raised to be a gentleman —it’s not all about money. Plenty of men with money who are no good and/or uncultured.
They solely see it as competing for a man, but the truth is, if you’re a “top flight” kinda gal- those men are competing for you as well. Everyone has to compete and they don’t get that.
(I only use her as an example because she’s so visible:
All the guys made a big deal about Lori because she’s beautiful right? So they were all competing for her. BUT guess what- she stays on top of her looks, etc because she knows the guys who may like her will jump to Kendall Jenner, Justine Skye, etc. They’re jumping to cute girls regardless of race. So the girls on that level stay on top of their looks so they can scoop a top dude regardless of race as well)
If you don’t want to compete then, yea- it is what it is.
Just like the men who don’t want to compete. You see the women they are with