Any Black woman who thinks like this is beyond lost.The Black Man is not seen as a Man, he is a non gendered beast. The issue with these convos is Black Men assume they are seen as humans thus the confusion on 'damn why can a non black man be normal and get love but a black man has to be perfect", it's because Black Men are not humans through the lens of society and even their own "so called" black women.
I've not met too many in person. They all seem to be online.