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NO-BadAzz

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Y’all are around a bunch of sorry ass “couples” if your take is no “young” woman isn’t sticking around to take care of her husband


Could you read my post, and understand what I said, he used an example of a sick person, down and out NO INCOME.

I don't know too many folks who get sick and their income stops, most folks have PTO, sick leave etc, and most folks are not sick that long but if that's the case, I'm wrong, let's go with that notion. No woman or should I say, the majority of women under 35 will NOT pay 100% of the bills for a year or longer and take care of their husband/bf and do it with a smile in 2024

If I'm wrong, then why are the women NOW aren't rushing to pay bills when the man is in his right mind? Why are women looking for men to help pay their bills?? 50/50 to most women is a joke? But you're telling me and other brehs that these women wanna do 100/0 with a grown man? lol

Really

Why are most women looking for a man who makes 6 figures when in fact most women only make 50k or below?

Really Dora
 

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Any Black woman who thinks like this is beyond lost.

I've not met too many in person. They all seem to be online.

I used to see the same thing too but lotta dudes don't realize the chicks they laying up with be on these forums, watching these YouTubes, and retweeting/liking this content from Burner accounts.
 

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but I ain't giving my skeet skeet skeet for free Pay me million dolla
 

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Idk what's going on itt, but even without a job, I helped my man through a very rough patch. I got the food budget down from a few hundred dollars/ wk to under $100/ wk. If I had been working, I would have done more, but his savings held us down.
I commend you for sticking it out but you're an outlier, your anecdotal experience doesn't change the facts. Most women are gone when they have to carry a man/financial load for any extended period of time. They're not built that way. The number 1 reason for divorce is financial reasons and women are filing almost 80 percent of the time
 

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You not getting it.. I just said sick

if you got laid off, you gon really trust a minimum wage partner to foot some bills of a partner who makes significantly more money than them?

lets say you corporate making great money, you foot the bills because you decided to wife a Walmart worker

lets say Mortgage is 2500.00
Car note 650.00
her bucket car note cost bout 260.00 she should be paying this herself but...
car insurance 300.00
Daycare 500.00 per week

Cable
gas
groceries
etc

you lose your job, wtf is this chick gonna cover until you back on your feet in lets say 2 months and a half?

"hey babe, I need you to cover .......... until I get back right

Somebody answer this? How much do they make an hour anyway??


I got it, sick doesn't mean you being laid off, I was speaking of the man being 'sick' and still having a job, that's why I said PTO/sick leave etc.

In your example, this means YOU as the man has NO income coming in, nor ANY SAVINGS, so these bills fall on the 2 women in your example

The Wal-Mart chick can't afford the Bills, so that's stress coming, plus she has to take care of you, You have NO MONEY COMING IN, THAT"S STRESS ON HER BECASUE SHE IS NOT USE TO NOT HAVING

The cooperate chick CAN pick up the slack, but my pushback to that is, SHE WILL NOT DO THIS FOR A LONG TIME.
YOUR EXAMPLE OF BEING SICK, YOU ARE NOT BRINGING IN ANY INCOME, BEING OUT SICK THIS LONG MEANS YOU HAVE 0 PTO/SICK LEAVE TO BRING IN ANY MONEY, PLUS YOU ARE SUCKING OUT MONEY/ENERGY BECAUSE SHE HAS TO TAKE CARE OF YOU AND SPEND 100% OF HER MONEY NOW.

ALL OF HER MONEY IS BEING SPENT, SHE IS NOT USE TO SPENDING THE WHOLE 100% OF HER MONEY, THIS WILL BRING ON STRESS. The stress will creep in.

Women are not wired to take care of a man for that long, a man with means should I say.
 
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Could you read my post, and understand what I said, he used an example of a sick person, down and out NO INCOME.

I don't know too many folks who get sick and their income stops, most folks have PTO, sick leave etc, and most folks are not sick that long but if that's the case, I'm wrong, let's go with that notion. No woman or should I say, the majority of women under 35 will NOT pay 100% of the bills for a year or longer and take care of their husband/bf and do it with a smile in 2024

If I'm wrong, then why are the women NOW aren't rushing to pay bills when the man is in his right mind? Why are women looking for men to help pay their bills?? 50/50 to most women is a joke? But you're telling me and other brehs that these women wanna do 100/0 with a grown man? lol

Really

Why are most women looking for a man who makes 6 figures when in fact most women only make 50k or below?

Really Dora
Most folks don’t - no in America. You are of the small privileged crowd to have a job with sick leave and paid disability to cover a multi month - year long sickness. I suggest you read up on the topic of paid leave in this country


What women spout on the internet and what’s reality are two different things. Most women pay plenty of bills, the US is not compatible with a single income unless you’re making $200k+ in “cheap” places and 400-500k+ in HCOL areas - census figures let us know that’s not true


Most people date and marry without their socioeconomic bracket, so Walmart cashier X can holler all she wants about wanting a six figure man, but unless she finds a six figure trade dude, she’s likely dating maintenance guy Y who makes within 10k of her


Lastly, many married women would gladly cover bills while dealing with an ill husband. You think most married women are going to walk away from their husband because he has cancer and now she gotta pay most the mortgage? :dahell:


Y’all either dealing with low quality people or you get too many talking points from Twitter and think that’s what’s really going on behind closed doors
 

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I commend you for sticking it out but you're an outlier, your anecdotal experience doesn't change the facts. Most women are gone when they have to carry a man/financial load for any extended period of time. They're not built that way. The number 1 reason for divorce is financial reasons.

Give a %
Women under 35, how many women are paying ALL of the BILLS for a man who is sick for 9-2 years, Their whole check is being used,
What's your take on this situation?

Will she be sticking around like @dora and breh Deezy say that she is?
 

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Could you read my post, and understand what I said, he used an example of a sick person, down and out NO INCOME.

I don't know too many folks who get sick and their income stops, most folks have PTO, sick leave etc, and most folks are not sick that long but if that's the case, I'm wrong, let's go with that notion. No woman or should I say, the majority of women under 35 will NOT pay 100% of the bills for a year or longer and take care of their husband/bf and do it with a smile in 2024

If I'm wrong, then why are the women NOW aren't rushing to pay bills when the man is in his right mind? Why are women looking for men to help pay their bills?? 50/50 to most women is a joke? But you're telling me and other brehs that these women wanna do 100/0 with a grown man? lol

Really

Why are most women looking for a man who makes 6 figures when in fact most women only make 50k or below?

Really Dora
see, yall nyggas of this era are being raised off social media. Y'all attracted to thots who talk all that dumb shyt. Yall date off apps cuz your social skills are trash.

and I haven't dated a woman under 100,000 in god knows when. My ex wife was around 180,000 girl I date now is over 100,00 ( I dont know her exact salary) home, Mercedes, vacations, shops.. doesnt ask for a dime from me.

When me and my ex wife divorced. She didnt ask for shyt because she HAD money. granted we live in an area where salaries are higher than most of the US...


You think lil Ms Walmart gon let a nygga just leave and she go back and live with her Grandma?

if y'all learn to do shyt organically by first getting a good career. Finding a woman with a good career and building with a non dating app woman, you wouldnt let this social media nonsense cloud your vision.
 

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