KillerB88
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What she said is the same thing folks getting mad at KS for. No one really wants to deal with someone else's kids if they have options.
What was wrong with what she said? She was being honest. COVID opened her eyes to the actual situation, a woman is only going to put her kids before herself not someone else's. Instead of staying and being a toxic step mother, she fixed the situation by leaving.
Her actual quote, per Heavy.com
Williams joins the RHONY cast as the only cast member without kids, but she hopes that isn’t a permanent thing. “I just turned 37 and I’m at a place in my life [where] I’m on the cusp of what does family look like for me? How do I define that?” Williams told Essence last October.
She continued saying, “In CO-VID [times], if I’ve learned nothing else, I’ve learned that family is the single most important thing in the world, and it’s gonna be the most important thing in my world going forward. That’s new for me. Viewers are gonna get to ride that journey with me as I go back to see where family is for me and what it is for me historically, and I start moving forward to creating a family of my own. That’s gonna be exciting. It’s a little scary to kind of go there, but I know it’s necessary for me to become the full woman that I want to be.”
The media mogul had to come to the difficult decision to breakup with her then fiancé, because he, “didn’t want a new baby.”
She elaborated on “The Wendy Williams Show” explaining, “I’ll tell you what happened, he actually did not quarantine with me. He has three children, two of which are young adults. And he chose to quarantine in New Jersey with his semi-adult children. And for me—listen I’m not a parent yet. I get that they’re number one. But I need to be number one. And I wasn’t number one so I needed to move on.”
wait she was married to a white dude first??? This is the first time I'm hearing this.So she’s now divorced (From a white guy) and has now broken off her engagement.
That’s definitely a red flag
Meh does that mean they’re in high school still? If they’re still in high school i dont blame himBut Eboni just said the kids are damn near adults
Yes but dealing with semi-adult children isn’t the same as dealing with little kids. COVID exposed a lot of cracks in people’s relationships so I give her props for leaving. Of course she should have been smarter about the situation but better late than sorry.She had plenty of time to reach that conclusion tho. She was with that man for years and engaged to him. What did she expect? That comes with the territory dating someone with kids. shyt, had she married him then his kids are apart of the family. So I guess he supposed to shack up with her and leave his kids out to dry?
It's not so much what she said, it's how she comes off. Folks really should date people in similar situations. If she decides that she wants to date a dude with kids then understand that the kids come with the package. Ditto with the ladies too because if the roles were reversed she'd do the same thing he did. He had his kids before he met her so that's where is loyalty should lie.
She knew all of this from jump and still proceeded with the relationship.
She’s over 40, habitually single, and a lawyer. Probably a fukking headcase to deal with.
Surprised nobody wife'd her. Something must be afoot with her.