It’s really not considering she’s smashed broke nikkas who didn’t put any of this effort. Amari didn’t fall from the sky
This redpill shyt really got you brothers in a realm you can't see that you're in.
If you have to look at every interaction through the lens of "what has she done with other nikkas" something is completely wrong at some level. Either you shouldn't be dealing with her or you should seek therapy. the two options are not mutually exclusive.