Can't answer for the breh, but for me ME2 should've been the "Starfield" of it's time. I should've been on a random planet Maco'ing shyt up and...I don't know just exploring new shyt, meeting/playing new species.
It got recognition for being great in a completely other way which is fine, but I agree there was no ambition in the way it got there. It's the precursor to a lot of "cinematic" games now. But if you told 26 year old me that's what the series would be after playing the first...then naw, I'm not excited I'm annoyed