Dr. Umar blames Professional Black Men for abandoning the black community

[F*ckthemkids]

Bro, come on now @ the bolded The world will never be some safe little bubble where no one has anything to say. Try not to fall on the sword at every comment.

What is the truth purposed for tho? 'Woe is us' takes don't garner respect, if anything they get the opposite. Malcolm for example, told the truth.

I'm not the one falling on every word, because I don't judge people for shyt like that. I love and respect black people no matter where they come from, and don't segregate myself from them because their beliefs don't align with my own.

 

[Gritsngravy]

If people ready to be honest. A sizeable portion of this has less to do with racism, but actually greed, envy/jealousy.. Racism planted the seed of self hate, I will admit that. If you hate yourself, then you have no problem hurting someone who looks like you. And black people with self hate get really mad when someone who looks like them love themselves. If a black person hates them self, and comes around a black person who loves them selves, then the hateful person attempts to transfer that hateful energy to the other black person.. Hence the term "misery loves company".. But that takes meekness and a humble spirit to tackle.. The problems we have are very deep..

Well it takes thousands of years for cultures to change, slavery wasn’t that long ago, not to mention Jim Crow drug wars etc., but I think we have to be patient with are people, doesn’t mean to let people treat you wrong but understand most folks won’t “get it” and might not never “get it” or at least it’s going to take time to “get it”
But I’m not sure if that’s a good reason to separate, but if that’s the best option then we should separate

 

[Still Benefited]

fukk outta here. I'm so tired of this.

Professional black men aren't fukking obligated nor owe anyone shyt. Just cos I grew up on the same street as you, I owe you something? If I worked hard and you chose to be a wasteman, how is that my problem? If you personally helped me out in life at one point, fine. Even then, if you're gonna drag me down I'm not fukking with you. You got a brain, hands and feet just like me.

This "you forgot where you came from" stance is just dusty nikka bullshyt.

Build with those who genuinely wanna build with you. fukk the rest.

This is why I love thecoli. It gives you a glimpe into the brainchild of the boule syndicate,and the wanna be boule. Which is essentially 85-90% of black people in this country.


They will be in the next thread talking about "the community this,the community that". But as soon as you mention anything about sacrifice to black people. Suddenly it becomes "Bu bu but I worked my ass off for the European to get where I am,nikkas never gave me shyt"



But we tried to tell you ,your people aint your people. So I essentially agree with them,but Im on the opposite side. Dont think twice about leaving black people in this country. Thinking you cant leave unless the majority decide they wanna leave. Stay behind and you or your future offspring will be assimilated#LetTheDeadBuryTheDead

 

[Gritsngravy]

Well it takes thousands of years for cultures to change, slavery wasn’t that long ago, not to mention Jim Crow drug wars etc., but I think we have to be patient with are people, doesn’t mean to let people treat you wrong but understand most folks won’t “get it” and might not never “get it” or at least it’s going to take time to “get it”
But I’m not sure if that’s a good reason to separate, but if that’s the best option then we should separate

Actually the way the economy and the country is set up, separating might be the only option

 

[Who Not How]

This is why I love thecoli. It gives you a glimpe into the brainchild of the boule syndicate,and the wanna be boule. Which is essentially 85-90% of black people in this country.


They will be in the next thread talking about "the community this,the community that". But as soon as you mention anything about sacrifice to black people. Suddenly it becomes "Bu bu but I worked my ass off for the European to get where I am,nikkas never gave me shyt"



But we tried to tell you ,your people aint your people. So I essentially agree with them,but Im on the opposite side. Dont think twice about leaving black people in this country. Thinking you cant leave unless the majority decide they wanna leave. Stay behind and you or your future offspring will be assimilated#LetTheDeadBuryTheDead

Negropeans just want a seat at the table man, they won't be happy until the average AA looks like Drake and Megan Markle since they'd rather date and live with White Americans than Africans....the mixing will increase with Gen Z. What country you looking at relocating to?

 

[Tryna Makit]

How are the square nikkas (the ones who are not out committing violent crimes, being deadbeat dads, etc) to blame for the conditions of the "community"?

This shyt is odd. Folks love blaming everyone but the actual people at fault.

Your whole post why I'm laughing... because it's the "square nikkas" who give this nikka they ear, oh and they "donations"
Besides the memes making fun of this fake militant and the breakfast club...I don't see this dude...... except on the coli, where he is damn near revered by the masses

To answer your question... there's no reason he should be blaming squares...but he is ain't he?
It's because he full of shyt breh
And real ones know it




You know why Umar hate on thugs and hood nikkas?
Because he can't reach us...we don't hear that nikka...at all
Because we know he some fukkin
Big fukkin

To quote the god Jay -Z

"And y'all buy the shyt, caught up in the hype
'cause a nikka wear a kufi, it don't mean that he bright!
Cause you don't understand him, it don't mean that he nice
It just means you don't understand all the bullshyt that he writes
Is it oochie Wally Wally? Or is it one mic? "


Again..."real nikkas " "hood nikkas" "street nikkas" "thug nikkas " whatever you wanna call us don't usually fukk with him.....and there's a reason why.....

 

[Still Benefited]

I do agree with this. Matriarchy talk is crazy to me. All women follow men who are leaders…strong, confident, and secure. But men have to learn how to be in charge from other men. It’s not just about screaming “I’m a man and in charge!!!” A lot of men have mommy issues from childhood and a lot of men and women grow up seeing women doing everything and think that it’s normal.

And a lot of “baby daddies” aren’t criminals and thugs. A lot are average, working men. There is a class of Black people in between criminals and professionals. That “in-between” class is honestly where a lot of fukkery occurs. Professional people got real shyt going on and hood people just trying to make it.

Very much needed post,on thecoli we often act like there is no middle ground. When most exist and operate within the median.

And yes,far too often I see women take the lead within relationships. Maybe its because its been normalized through single mother homes. But I cringe when Im out,and see black women with black men. And you see the black woman is the one speaking,asking questions,getting the details. While the man just hangs back looking at his phone or stairing at the cieling. Might not seem like a big deal to some,but it doesnt seem right to me.

 

[MoshpitMazi]

I hate how in 2023 we’re still acting like black communities only exist in the hood

Fucc building up the hood. Build up black suburbs and working class areas.

The hood can NOT be saved.

Hoods are working class neighborhoods breh… Stop with the bougie talk nikka.

 

[BrothaZay]

Hoods are working class neighborhoods breh… Stop with the bougie talk nikka.

Depends on who you ask

 

[Still Benefited]

Negropeans just want a seat at the table man, they won't be happy until the average AA looks like Drake and Megan Markle since they'd rather date and live with White Americans than Africans....the mixing will increase with Gen Z. What country you looking at relocating to?

Belize,Nigeria,Ghana top my list but I truly dont know. My timeline is 2028,no telling how many places Passport Boys may make unsafe and unbearable. I considered places where there are alot of american black male expats like the DR. But passport boys are proof that just because they left the country,doesnt mean they are like minded black men.


Not to mention I could easily be reassimilated by 2028. And be on here telling people to vote Herschell Walker or Warnock for president. While bragging about how Im getting to the bag.#TrustNoOne.


Message to the youth,dont throw the baby out with the bath water. Like MLK said,I might not make it with you to see the promised land. But it doesnt change the fact you need to leave the country

 

[Spence]

I did a 13 year bid in the hood, fk outta here

 

[F*ckthemkids]

Belize,Nigeria,Ghana top my list but I truly dont know. My timeline is 2028,no telling how many places Passport Boys may make unsafe and unbearable. I considered places where there are alot of american black male expats like the DR. But passport boys are proof that just because they left the country,doesnt mean they are like minded black men.


Not to mention I could easily be reassimilated by 2028. And be on here telling people to vote Herschell Walker or Warnock for president. While bragging about how Im getting to the bag.#TrustNoOne.


Message to the youth,dont throw the baby out with the bath water. Like MLK said,I might not make it with you to see the promised land. But it doesnt change the fact you need to leave the country

#pawgset 2028

 

[DaRealness]

This is why I love thecoli. It gives you a glimpe into the brainchild of the boule syndicate,and the wanna be boule. Which is essentially 85-90% of black people in this country.


They will be in the next thread talking about "the community this,the community that". But as soon as you mention anything about sacrifice to black people. Suddenly it becomes "Bu bu but I worked my ass off for the European to get where I am,nikkas never gave me shyt"



But we tried to tell you ,your people aint your people. So I essentially agree with them,but Im on the opposite side. Dont think twice about leaving black people in this country. Thinking you cant leave unless the majority decide they wanna leave. Stay behind and you or your future offspring will be assimilated#LetTheDeadBuryTheDead

If that's what you got from my post cool

 

[saturn7]

Remember up to about the 80s the hierarchy

It was
Professional hard working black man— black men working in manufacturing plants, auto industry at Chrysler and ford, etc and other positions

Follow by
Black women, black kid and the communities was good, yards had grass, and the community was where black families would look out for each other and beat the other kids asses

Now its
Black Women
Black kids
Thedrugdealers/ballers/athletes/entertainer
Gays/lesbians
Dogs
And professional black men last

And you see how the neighborhoods are today in that order.. or should I say out of order

Everyday I look up I see professional black men try to help young boys, but these young boys rather here info from ex cons /gang members etc etc

Our own women even if they are your co workers look at u as a lame and they shacking up with a ex con .. I see it plenty of times and they at work complaining about the nikka not working

Professional black men always take accountability for our actions right or wrong, but everyone else n the community throw blame

Hell I would say the modern hierarchy is..

Black Women
Gays/lesbians/Trans
Hood nikkas/Thedrugdealers/Ballers/athletes/entertainer
CIS Hetero non street Black men
Black kids last

 

[Jazzy B.]

The WORKING black man really is the most DESPISED MAN on this Earth