When I step back and think about it, I agree somewhat. Let me explain…
While I don’t think black men are SOLEY at fault for it, we contribute to it in a major way. I am not absolving the women, but they shape themselves after what gets the attention/gaze
Women are looking for an edge, a comparative advantage, a competitive and financial advantage. Many, if not most, believe that they can manipulate men through the weaknesses of his reproductive system. And as a result, they will do anything to maximize that advantage. What they don't realize is two things.
First that many men find that sort of thing ridiculous, if not repulsive.
Second that even if they managed to gather that attention, that attention is not worth much.
So even more guys want to break their backs. Putting it on a dude rarely secures the bag.
In LSA terms, the lite brites, 'lattos, and exoticals get the "same black men". The same men that are cheap, that abuse them, that cheat on them.
Incidentally, they're all chasing the same type of NFL and NBA baller/ rapper/ singer/ actor, but no one should ever point that out... Even when dude ain't rich and famous, it's the pretty boys, jocks, and cats with a good rap and nothing else.
They all want the guy with options, but don't want him to exercise them..
And guys that don't fit the mold, that will PAWG or be a passport bro - guys that they never wanted - they gotta take shots at him too.
So I understand what you're saying, that women have fake eyelashes, hair, nails, breasts, butts, heels, tight clothing and etc to attract men to attract men. That men are attracted by these things.
But this is all about her trading her looks for wealth, status, and good behavior from a small percentage of men.
She's playing a stupid game to get a stupid prize.
I have zero sympathy for guys that marry single mother strippers. I have zero sympathy for chicks chasing celebs or getting pregnant by bums.
Umar, on the other hand, is totally okay with that. I've seen him in person go off on unnatural hair, but then backpedal when a female brought up blind highlights.