Wowww....you're actually blaming him.
@King Khufu Don't listen to this shyt. He's a reason why white people feel sanctioned to do what they do. He's one of those..."if only he didn't wear a hoodie" people. Nothing about the environment will dictate white people's reactions.
Not even close.
Black men have to analyze & understand the settings we're in
at all times, in ways that women don't have to.
Don't trivialize Trayvon Martin's death to insult me. This is the 21st century USA, and that young man should have been free to walk from point A to point B without piece of shyt failure at life gz following him around ,calling cops on him, confronting him and killing him.
Young men should be free to walk from point A to point B in 2018, but if you don't think Black men had conversations with their Black sons about reality following TM's murder, sis, you are mistaken.
I take younger relatives to local libraries once in a while....and I've reacted to people being inappropriately loud in that setting and I speak to them directly. With a straight face, they look surprised that I'm reacting to their inappropriate behavior. Grown men sometimes.
What I said to OP, who himself detailed being loud AF, was that if it's a setting where speaking loudly in inappropriate...do not be shocked when others react.
NOW, the way
she reacted, her tone and choice of words surprised me as I'm sure it shocked OP.