Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Clingy women are terrible. Run brehs. Had a girl sending me 200 texts a day. She ended up being completely nuts and immature.
Do you value clingy women over independent women?
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This one is a hard question...
I think it depends on the type a man you are, ya feel me? If you like your privacy, havin' ya own time, value a lot the time ya spend with ya homies or on ya hobbies, then its best you get yaself an idependent woman... As she'll prolly appreaciate those things herself...
Now if you more of a dominant, spendin' time with yo bytch is better than bein' alone or with ya peoples type (like me) then its best you get ya self someone more needy of attention, so get yalsef a clingy bytch....
I personally like my bytch sendin' me a hunned texts a day cause it makes me feel important, and at my age and Im not really lookin' foward to bullshyttin' with my mans like that... I rather spend time with my ho cause I enjoy it more... still I need a moment of my own from time to time, which is workin' for me cause she still lives with her parents and I live by myself.
I think it depends on the type a man you are, ya feel me? If you like your privacy, havin' ya own time, value a lot the time ya spend with ya homies or on ya hobbies, then its best you get yaself an idependent woman... As she'll prolly appreaciate those things herself...
Now if you more of a dominant, spendin' time with yo bytch is better than bein' alone or with ya peoples type (like me) then its best you get ya self someone more needy of attention, so get yalsef a clingy bytch....
I personally like my bytch sendin' me a hunned texts a day cause it makes me feel important, and at my age and Im not really lookin' foward to bullshyttin' with my mans like that... I rather spend time with my ho cause I enjoy it more... still I need a moment of my own from time to time, which is workin' for me cause she still lives with her parents and I live by myself.
Ze Pequeno
All Star
Truest sounds like one of them "my girl is my best friend azz nikkas"
ol "dont use that controller,dude..thats my girl's fav controller ass nikkas"
LOL
nineteeneightysix
Banned
I have a very unrealistic fear of being a simp/sharing that girl, and it makes me very insecure when it comes to romantic relationships...
I prefer either a clingy girl or a known slut, with moderate girls there are just too many games...
I have my best relationships with clingy girls, but there are different kinds of clingy girls...
The only women I consider "independent" are promiscuous women a.k.a. sluts, because these women don't really need you, when they want the D they will call, if they don't then you know they gettin it from someone else, and you are free to get yours elsewhere too...
Moderate Women who claim to be "independent" are the worst...Everything is a game of drama with them, they want their space, and then, they don't want their space, you are either to forward or too timid, they want you to make love to them but at the same time they want you to f+ck...
Basically, you can never please these women, because they are stuck between fantasy and reality...They claim to be "independent" but it's a game...They just want a man they can fit into that perfect little illusion of a "great relationship" they have created for themselves....
These women are the majority of good looking and/or well-off women on POF
I can sniff these women from a mile away...Basically, any woman who tells me, she is "independent" and also that she is "feeling me", if I take her on a date and we have a great time, but she refuses to f+ck on the first date, then I know I have to stay away from her...
If you are independent and you are attracted to somebody, you will f+ck them, the only reason to not f+ck on the first date, is if we are waiting for STI test results, and we want to make sure we are both disease free...
That's the ONLY excuse I can accept.
Action Jackson
Can I live
Balance but if its one or the other I'll go with a clingy chic both suck but them independent chics are too much of a fukkin headache.
What value is there in a clingy woman?
You can tell by this thread which posters haven't had much relationship experience with women and have a hard time attracting women
They think CLINGY= you are her 1st and only priority and since she only cares about being with you above all other things she will be more loyal and not leave
They think independent = got a lot going on and does stuff without you, so she will always have dudes "better" then them trying to get at her.
Truth is,
CLINGY= doesn't want to do anything but, be under you. If you going over your homeboy house... She wants to come.
If you're tired and want to kick back and relax..... She wants to be under you.
You want to just run to the mall right quick.... She coming to.
She wants to text and and talk on the phone..... All the damn time
She don't have any friends to go see the new Tyler Perry movie with because she has replaced everyone in her life with you..... So now you're being dragged to go see the movie
Independent women
Her own friends
Her own hobbies
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
You can tell by this thread which posters haven't had much relationship experience with women and have a hard time attracting women
They think CLINGY= you are her 1st and only priority and since she only cares about being with you above all other things she will be more loyal and not leave
They think independent = got a lot going on and does stuff without you, so she will always have dudes "better" then them trying to get at her.
Truth is,
CLINGY= doesn't want to do anything but, be under you. If you going over your homeboy house... She wants to come.
If you're tired and want to kick back and relax..... She wants to be under you.
You want to just run to the mall right quick.... She coming to.
She wants to text and and talk on the phone..... All the damn time
She don't have any friends to go see the new Tyler Perry movie with because she has replaced everyone in her life with you..... So now you're being dragged to go see the movie
Independent women
Her own friends
Her own hobbies
Cosign breh. Clingy just means you don't have a life and wants a nikka like me to be your main source of entertainment. Not gonna happen. I'd rather be single and beat off to porn than have a clingy ass broad.
I Been there before, it just becomes a drain on you.
threads liike this should have the definition of the aforementioned words so that posters can choose. Everyone has their own ideas of what the word means.
cause it isnt fair to to give clingy such a bad connotation and independent one, the argument becomes lopsided. The word independent should've bee replaced with "Stray".
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I trained Sheng Long and Shonuff
Just because some of these nikkas are retarded and using the word out of context doesn't change what the word means:
Unless someone is your siamese twin, ain't nothing good about a clingy person.
Not always but i've had me a few road kills while traveling.
But none of them was while i was seriously seeing anyone tho. Heck one of the chicks i dated was in another country. We had a project in CostaRica between jan2010 and Nov2011. During that time i spent the equivalent of 8 months there tho not all at once (Would spend about 3-4 weeks at a time). I started dating a girl there and we were together for over a year. Few times id come home and shed come here to ATL to see me too. But there were stretches where we wouldnt see each other for weeks. And I do NOT talk on the phone.
Same goes for women ive dated here during other times. Last year i had projects in London, Paris, and Warsaw. While I was away the girl i was seeing at the time hardly heard from me.
no difference in my opinion.. they both the same regardless of what u think
Her: Where you going?
Him: TO THE BATHROOM bytch, DAMN!!!
LMAO I had a homegirl be like that with her boyfriend. I felt sorry for him.