In before insecure nikkas call this a humble brag thread.
I'm that "friend". Several people have hinted at, or flat out told me they don't invite me places when they girl around or at a function where ain't enough women for everyone to eat comfortably. Admittedly, there was a time in my life where knowing this was an ego boost and made me feel like dat nikka but at 31 that shyt is frustrating. nikkas will invite me over to smoke, talk shyt amongst the fellas, or if they need life advice but will almost NEVER invite me over if it's bytches around. That shyt ain't cool bruh cuz I always set women out, like if you can bag em, eat breh wtf?
Someone I wouldn't say I'm close enough with to call a friend, but we run in the same circles and cool with each other birthday was yesterday. Apparently, he invited people over to celebrate but ain't nobody really show up. nikka start posting emotional shyt on FB "I swear I hate my birthday, why am I even alive" then the next post was him with a bottle talkin bout "fukk it imma drink this by myself I don't need no help" just downright pathetic shyt. So I hit my homie who is also friends with this nikka and that's when he told me about him inviting people over. Neither one of these nikkas told me beforehand but come to find out he had his sister and female cousins come through and he ain't want me trying to talk to em
that's why yo bytch ass had to celebrate by yourself, ol lame ahh nikka
Also last night, I just had a conversation with my favorite supervisor from my first job ever. Cool ass older black lady that used to put on "Mista Don't Play" when it was time to close the shop. We reminiscing about the old days and I'm telling her about a co-worker I was feenin to smash but never got the chance. This was the conversation:
But then this had me thinking back, like damn they was really hating on me, every time even a decent looking woman would get in my line they would make me go do the dishes, kinda shyt is that??
All this shyt was on my mind last night, I thought it would be gone in the morning yet here I am pondering my life choices and how I came to be who I am.. like I'm a solid friend I give great advice and real easy to talk to, I listen, and am brutally honest to a fault... Especially when talking about myself and my negative qualities. I wanna be a better person and honestly I've made real strides to be throughout the years, but I don't think my nikkas be seeing that shyt frfr.
tl;dr y'all ain't gotta read all that shyt I just be using thecoli as my journal sometimes. But the question is do y'all have homies that y'all don't bring around females, or are you that homie lol. Share stories
P.S. where that nikka @skeetsinternal at, I'm almost certain we share similar woes
I'm that "friend". Several people have hinted at, or flat out told me they don't invite me places when they girl around or at a function where ain't enough women for everyone to eat comfortably. Admittedly, there was a time in my life where knowing this was an ego boost and made me feel like dat nikka but at 31 that shyt is frustrating. nikkas will invite me over to smoke, talk shyt amongst the fellas, or if they need life advice but will almost NEVER invite me over if it's bytches around. That shyt ain't cool bruh cuz I always set women out, like if you can bag em, eat breh wtf?
Someone I wouldn't say I'm close enough with to call a friend, but we run in the same circles and cool with each other birthday was yesterday. Apparently, he invited people over to celebrate but ain't nobody really show up. nikka start posting emotional shyt on FB "I swear I hate my birthday, why am I even alive" then the next post was him with a bottle talkin bout "fukk it imma drink this by myself I don't need no help" just downright pathetic shyt. So I hit my homie who is also friends with this nikka and that's when he told me about him inviting people over. Neither one of these nikkas told me beforehand but come to find out he had his sister and female cousins come through and he ain't want me trying to talk to em
that's why yo bytch ass had to celebrate by yourself, ol lame ahh nikkaAlso last night, I just had a conversation with my favorite supervisor from my first job ever. Cool ass older black lady that used to put on "Mista Don't Play" when it was time to close the shop. We reminiscing about the old days and I'm telling her about a co-worker I was feenin to smash but never got the chance. This was the conversation:
But then this had me thinking back, like damn they was really hating on me, every time even a decent looking woman would get in my line they would make me go do the dishes, kinda shyt is that??
All this shyt was on my mind last night, I thought it would be gone in the morning yet here I am pondering my life choices and how I came to be who I am.. like I'm a solid friend I give great advice and real easy to talk to, I listen, and am brutally honest to a fault... Especially when talking about myself and my negative qualities. I wanna be a better person and honestly I've made real strides to be throughout the years, but I don't think my nikkas be seeing that shyt frfr.
tl;dr y'all ain't gotta read all that shyt I just be using thecoli as my journal sometimes. But the question is do y'all have homies that y'all don't bring around females, or are you that homie lol. Share stories
P.S. where that nikka @skeetsinternal at, I'm almost certain we share similar woes
i kid you not, my boy said this EXACT SAME shyt last week when I was tryna get at his baby momma's sister at his daughter's birthday party. I didn't see the issue, still don't, but maybe that's the problem..
. i aint gonna get at u but ima get at u. wtf u doin bro? 
out of all the complaints I've heard throughout the years, it was NEVER that I made women I was speaking to uncomfortable. The other guy who said it can be awkward when things don't go the way the girl wants it to go after we get together is a valid point I didn't really think about before, but this here is nonsense.