Do you agree with this father using corporal punishment to stop his daughter from having sex?

[Maxine Shaw]

When you were 12, you had a 19 year old boyfriend?

11.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

You did if you claiming they fukking between class.

No it’s not physically impossible to be late.

But a kid being late enough to class to have sex should and does raise red flags in which the adults in their life find out what they are doing.


Yes and no, as in the example above your kid keeps getting detentions for being late to class, then you as a parent need to figure out what the fukk they are doing in between classes.


Kids are influenced by everything, kids are guided by their parents.

Active parents are in tune to their kids influences, and monitor/guide them accordingly.

Your kids IG got nothing but big booty bytches then you need to talk to them about it and monitor what the fukk they are doing.


No. They don’t raise your child. That’s BS

I did what? Make an assumption. Them fukking between classes wasn't an assumption it was an example of something that ACTUALLY happened like I told you.

Again your making assumptions by talking shyt about detentions. No one got detentions, we would roll up 10 minutes into a class after lunchtime and ain't nothing happened but at most the teacher shouting, kids just found that funny half the time. Parents will never know that ever happened.

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

11.

Hope you recovered from that

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

She clearly wasn't beaten enough. Sad

There is no way that girl in the video wasn't beaten like this before, and her while life. Her looking to a boy for validation and attention shows she is being neglected at home. Her parents probably give more attention to punishments, than attention for positive things.

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

There is no way that girl in the video wasn't beaten like this before, and her while life. Her looking to a boy for validation and attention shows she is being neglected at home. Her parents probably give more attention to punishments, than attention for positive things.

Possibly. That still doesn't excuse fukking at 12.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I did what? Make an assumption. Them fukking between classes wasn't an assumption it was an example of something that ACTUALLY happened like I told you.

Anything is possible, doesn’t mean anything is probable.

I say, monitor your kids activities and they don’t have time for sex and you say “nah they just fukk in the bathroom between classes” as if this is a common occurrence or something.

Again your making assumptions by talking shyt about detentions. No one got detentions, we would roll up 10 minutes into a class after lunchtime and ain't nothing happened but at most the teaching shouting, kids just found that funny half the time.

Then the teachers in your school were not doing their job.

My original post said that for a kid to have the time and space for sex, adult neglect is a requirement.

If y’all rolling up a whole 10 minutes late to class and the teachers don’t find out where the hell you were or what you were doing. That’s neglect.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

This was the perfect opportunity to properly educate her about sex, and he wasted it. 12 is wayyyyyy too young and I would have been PISSED, but you want to be the person your kid talks to when they have questions. Asking her is she’s a hoe or wants to be a hoe is terrible parenting, point blank. No parent should speak to their child that way. Especially a father towards his daughter. He beat her like a damn slave. And then he recorded and uploaded it. She’s never going to come to him ever, about anything after this.

I can almost guarantee that this father probably never even spoken to his daughter about sex and relationships. A lot of problems can be avoided if you actually TALK to your child. Talk to them. Ask them questions. Listen to what they say (without flying off the handle). Communicate.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

And furthermore I was molested at 6 years old and nobody gave a fucc. My MoMA never told me she loved me never showed affection never gave me praise for my good grades all thru school my daddy didn't come around cuz he hated my MoMA so no beating me wasn't gone teach me shyt it made shyt much much worse. Parents need to get to the root of y they child fucc'n so young and take a look at theyself.

Damn. Reading this hurts. I'm sorry for what you had to go through, respect you the most for sharing your experiences and your story, ma-ma...

 

[Crude]

The video wont load for me, but like another poster said azz whippings really don't stop stuff like this.

The girl will do nothing but start resenting the father after a time and be right back on that bullshyt again later on at some point.

Good parenting doesn't necessarily prevent a child from being promiscious either. Talking to your child and forming a good relationship helps though.

I can't tell you how many preacher's daughters, teacher's daughters, community leader's daughters, etc that were basically cum buckets when I was coming up. The situation is more complex than just trying to beat it out of them as well.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I don't know how good of a parent this dude is so I'm not going to assume the worst but a lot of parents who resort to beating their kids are lazy.

I wonder how much effort dude put in to teach his daughter about having morals. I can understand a man not wanting his daughter to become a hoe but starting at 12 is a terrible look.

 

[Maxine Shaw]

Hope you recovered from that

Thank you. I would say I have. Took a long time, though - I STAYED fukking older dudes. What my old man was trying to accomplish w/these Joe Jackson beatdowns could've easily been done with hugs and loving words.

Being an educator, I've warned many black parents against this kind of discipline for this exact reason. What I went through was worth it if it keeps other girls (and their parents) off the path my family went down. I know my old man meant well, but his love could've had me killed. He was *literally* creating the problem he was trying to solve. And no amount of "he meant well" can undo the kind of trauma I experienced as a young girl seeking positive male affection.

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[Anerdyblackguy]

My dad beat on me like this when I was her age. It did wonders for my head game, much to the delight of my 19-year-old boyfriend.

This is very disturbing.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Anything is possible, doesn’t mean anything is probable.

I say, monitor your kids activities and they don’t have time for sex and you say “nah they just fukk in the bathroom between classes” as if this is a common occurrence or something.


Then the teachers in your school were not doing their job.

My original post said that for a kid to have the time and space for sex, adult neglect is a requirement.

If y’all rolling up a whole 10 minutes late to class and the teachers don’t find out where the hell you were or what you were doing. That’s neglect.

I never said it was a common occurrence, neither neither does it have to be, I just stated it happens by giving one example and it proves that simply monitoring your kids isn't enough because you cannot always monitor your kids.

The fukking in the bathroom is just ONE story. Some Year 8 girl in my school, which is 12-13 in england, got caught giving head to three man in the toilets, again that was during a lesson.

The teachers might not have been doing their job but this thread is not about teachers, it is about parents. We are talking about parents not teachers. You said a parent must always monitor their child well how could the parent monitor them in those situations.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Thank you. I would say I have. Took a long time, though - I STAYED fukking older dudes. What my old man was trying to accomplish w/these Joe Jackdon beatdowns could've easily been done with hugs and loving words.

Being an educator, I've warned many black parents against this kind of discipline for this exact reason. What I went through was worth it if it keeps other girls (and their parents) off the path my family went down. I know my old man meant well, but his love could've had me killed. He was *literally* creating the problem he was trying to solve. And no amount of "he went well" can undo the kind of trauma I experienced as a young girl seeking positive male affection.

This Is bullshyt female talk, you didn't fukk around cause you dad beat you, you fukked around cause you was a young hoe and it doesn't matter of your dad beat you or sat you down and spoke to you, you was still gonna be out there fukking nikkas. But these female is gonna try tell you 'she was seeking positive male affection' typical female deflecting responsibility

 

[twan83]

Not just sex. The way you get kids to do the right thing is to keep them occupied with positive things to do.

With kids unsupervised free time=fukkery.

If they are fukking at school then the adults are not monitoring them properly

Breh I'm sorry that's not true even kids with positive stuff around them can go astray.
All it takes is kids at school or neighborhood to influence them.
Ur not gonna keep kids at school from influencing that child either.
Even if ur situation is good it doesnt apply to all I've seen and known people who went thru it.
Done all the right the things and kid ended up still not being shyt and its very unfortunate.
Its naive to think just cuz u raise ur kid or kids right and keep things positive that they cant end up being a certain way
All u can do is do ur best and hope things turn out right that they learned from u as a parent and not go astray or if they do they come back to there senses