Do y’all tell girls you’re dating that you’re seeing other women?

[JA_Carter]

I’ve narrowed my roster down to 3 women (looking for a wife) and over the past week they’ve all asked me numerous times whether I’m seeing other women. One in particular asks me damn near every day.

I lie and say no, but what do y’all do? I never ask women whether they’re seeing other guys because im confident in myself and already assume any girl I talk to already has a roster.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

I don't lie. Straight shooter. If she ask she's gonna hear the truth. If she don't want to she can not ask. But truthfully I'm a serial monogamist. I don't juggle.

I don't ask. In my head I'm always the shyt no matter who might be competing

 

[Hoodoo Child]

I don't tell them up front because it's none of their business, but if they ask? Yeah. I'm single & dating, until I decide I wanna get married.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

The assumption should always be there’s other people until y’all clearly and mutually decide to be exclusive

 

[Neuromancer]

If asked always disclose.

 

[neph27]

There's nothing that can benefit you long term from lying. Just be honest and if they back out, well you weren't being that serious anyways.

 

[god shamgod]

I always keep options until I meet a real one.

If you meet a real one, then fukk the other chicks they get cut off

But if I’m just smashing & have multiple options then I tell ‘em which makes them go harder for you if they like you. I’m building up a roster of 3-4 rn may the best one win

 

[The BasedFather]

When I had a roster I’d say no. None of their business. When we made it official I’d drop the other chicks.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

When I had a roster I’d say no. None of their business. When we made it official I’d drop the other chicks.

 

[315]

I date one at a time . Don't have the patience or energy for more than one of these goofballs

 

[getmoney310cpt]

I don’t give titles so I tell them what they wanna hear that’s how you get bytches buying you shyt

Why you letting her know she just another when she not your bytch just keep it cool, that’s me tho lol

 

[JA_Carter]

When I had a roster I’d say no. None of their business. When we made it official I’d drop the other chicks.

Exactly what I plan to do

 

[WaveGang]

Dudes that say yes prob not getting p*ssy like that

Your don’t owe her nothing

Read the room though

 

[Reptile]

When I had a roster I’d say no. None of their business. When we made it official I’d drop the other chicks.

This. The only time they need to know is if your planning in getting into committed relationship with one and cant see yourself sleeping with one woman. But you need to make that clear to her then. That surreptitious shyt is lame and cowardly.

 

[Scaaar]

I don't lie. Straight shooter. If she ask she's gonna hear the truth. If she don't want to she can not ask. But truthfully I'm a serial monogamist. I don't juggle.

I don't ask. In my head I'm always the shyt no matter who might be competing

Preaching breh!! Always be straight up. If she asks just tell her the truth. Assume everyone is entertaining others or has orbiters until you're mutually exclusive. Over time that 3 will whittle to 1. But you gotta make that decision. Its whoever aligns the most with what you're trying to achieve and is loving, willing, and supportive. If you see that in one of them lock her down right now breh