If you hand things to people that didn’t earn it, they will never appreciate itYeah I have noticed that there is a culture of I struggled so you must struggle too, and what you have to go through isn't as bad as what I went through (often times this is cap of the highest order) so shut up.
There is no real empathy to speak of or a sense of pushing to make things easier for the next generation, it's always just presumed the next generation magically has it easier even though you have done next to nothing to make it that way. That's why things are getting progressively worse in this country instead of progressively better.
She’s also a decent looking White Female so she has a gigantic head start over any minority male or female. She squandered her lead and now wants to have a pity party