Do This If You Want More Black Women to Wear their Real Hair

[Easy-E]

Great idea.

 

[Spoonz]

That's one thing I respect about the white race. White men are like " you want me to make a certain amount a year to be with you, you gotta be in shape and look good" and white women, for the most part, comply. Same way the women go "you want me to stay in shape and look good, you gotta make a certain amount a year to be with me" and white men, for the most part, comply.

But when you get to the black race it's totally different. Black women act like successful black men shouldn't have standards on how he wants his woman to look and get offended. Black men act like beautiful, in shape black women also can't have demands of wanting a man who makes a certain amount. It's like the black race is against a certain "give and take" rule.

you're wrong. the average white woman in america weighs 160 which is overweight. And white men are having just as many issues with their women too they just never specify white women when they complain. They're the ones starting mgtow and men's rights. plus you know damn well white men be having sloppy wives they're bytchmade just as much

 

[sakano]

Here is the author with relaxed hair:

 

[sakano]

Great idea.

Let me know how it goes...

And how many libraries
Thanks

 

[Klyk21]

you're wrong. the average white woman in america weighs 160 which is overweight. And white men are having just as many issues with their women too they just never specify white women when they complain. They're the ones starting mgtow and men's rights. plus you know damn well white men be having sloppy wives they're bytchmade just as much

nikka you talking about pound for pound (individually) we talking about about something that IS a part of their white culture. Come on now...

 

[Ain't That Something]

Here is the author with relaxed hair:

What the ass look like though

 

[Arishok]

you're wrong. the average white woman in america weighs 160 which is overweight. And white men are having just as many issues with their women too they just never specify white women when they complain. They're the ones starting mgtow and men's rights. plus you know damn well white men be having sloppy wives they're bytchmade just as much

Well I don't know much about the white race, just going on what I observe as an outsider looking in.

 

[swimmingpools]

If dudes want weave to be gone there actually gonna have to do something offline.
Refuse to date or fukk weave wearers, tell them to their face how much it looks stupid, etc.
if their getting 0 play and see natural chicks get all the male attention then they're most likely gonna stop.
But of course these guys just wanna make youtube videos and comments complaining about it.
And stay quiet as fukk in the outside world. Which shows me they don't really care. they just want to bytch.

Exactly what I said in another thread about weaves. A lot of bm will talk all this shyt about weaves, but will still date women with them at the end of the day. Which is one of the many reasons why weaves are here to stay. Why change when youre still getting play?

 

[Jone2three45]

Dropping science is cool, but folks are going to turn this into a debate. I supprt what OP it's trying to do though

 

[Jone2three45]

Exactly what I said in another thread about weaves. A lot of bm will talk all this shyt about weaves, but will still date women with them at the end of the day. Which is one of the many reasons why weaves are here to stay. Why change when youre still getting play?

It's hard to find a black woman that's not dependent on wearing weave and not stuck in their ways, old or young. So putting up a fight can seem pointless. Let them be stuck in the shadows of glamour.

 

[sakano]

Let me know if you have any questions whatsoever about doing this.

Before spring of next year, I'd like to get 5 more libraries to add The Science of Black Hair to its collection.

 

[swimmingpools]

If any of you are interested, here is a link to the book. You can preview it on Google Books:

http://books.google.com/books?id=WQAZAgAAQBAJ&printsec=frontcover&dq=science of black hair&hl=en&sa=X&ei=zdatUvuVNIXXrgHgj4DgAw&ved=0CEoQ6AEwAA#v=onepage&q=science of black hair&f=false

And, here's the author:

She's black, but she's wearing an Indian dress in the photo above.

She is very pretty and super smart. I recognize her from her relaxed hair blog years ago. I had no idea she was the author..good for her.

 

[sakano]

She is very pretty and super smart. I recognize her from her relaxed hair blog years ago. I had no idea she was the author..good for her.

In that photo, her hair is natural.

But she used it to wear it relaxed. She likes to switch up her look

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Why are white people always brought into discussions about us?

 

[Mountain]

Brothers often complain about sisters wearing fake hair. Given the lack of trustworthy information on caring for black hair, many sisters resort to weave only out of frustration and desperation. Granted, there is a wonderful website called The Long Hair Care Forum, but navigating it can be overwhelming and tricky.

Luckily, two years ago, a beautiful sister named Audrey Davis-Sivasothy wrote "The Science of Black Hair."

That book provides a wealth of information on caring for Afro-textured hair. Indeed, it delves into the science of our hair (ie--its molecular structure, how perms work, scalp function, importance of pH, protein-moisture balance, etc).

Rather than griping about sisters wearing weaves, how about asking a library near you to purchase "The Science of Black Hair." If you are in college or know someone who is, perhaps you could get the university library to add the book to its collection. Libraries are very, very amenable to purchase requests. Alternatively, you could just buy the book yourself and donate it to the library. So far, I've gotten 3 local libraries to add it to their collections--it's a lot easier than you think.

My larger point is that we (black people) must be encouraging and compassionate toward one another--not fault-finding and critical. I know how difficult that can be at first, but it's ultimately the best way to build up our communities.

You got a dl link to the full book? If you have pls send it my way, i want my sister to read this.