Do a lot of men suffer from ephebophilia? - Ladies Chime In

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:mjpls: who told you this? Nah but yeah I do read that a lot but I can't relate to it. I think women hit their prime physically in their mid 20s, it also depends on how well they take care of themselves. But I also feel like a woman's body is most attractive after bearing a couple children because she gets thicker.. hopefully in all the right places :whew:.

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Probably 25..... and then there is a gradual decline afterwards..... sisters can look great even in their 50s/60s...... but if you show me a bad 40 year old, I can easily show you a 25 year old that crushes her physically
but isn't that obvious. 25 year old men look better than 40-50 year old men too, especially non-celebs. consequently, you'll find more attractive 25 years old men/women than you will 40 yr old men and women- the pool becomes smaller as people age. most people are average looking, and most people are really average at an older age. younger is always better looks wise, but saying a woman looks better at 20 than she does at 25 is silly, or that somehow reproductive value is better at 19 than at 28 is laughable.
 

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All I know is as a young woman..men old enough to be your father finding you sexually appealing is a dirty ass feeling. Like I legit want to hide myself and my body I feel ashamed.
I have a pretty young looking face and body which was exaggerated when I was younger. when I was a teenager, I looked a good 3-4 years younger than what I was and I was hit on by much older men (40+) all the time. it was eye opening. there are a lot of creeps out there. you think the stories you hear are about rare people in rare circumstances, but they're not. It's disturbing.
 

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Probably 25..... and then there is a gradual decline afterwards..... sisters can look great even in their 50s/60s...... but if you show me a bad 40 year old, I can easily show you a 25 year old that crushes her physically
Challenge - show me someone who's crushing Nicole Murphy, Pilar Sanders, Angela Bassett, Janet Jackson, AJ Johnson, Jada Pinket, Toni Braxton? To be fair you can pick celebrities.
 

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Ephebophilia is barely a thing. Most men are attracted to developed and attractive females no matter the age. Men rarely will obsess over an attractive 17yo and disregard an attractive 27yo. India Westbrook would have gotten smashed by men because she was sexy and developed, not because she was 17.
This. Nature is nature it's not about the age. Society's advancements just amped up the acceptable age. Nobody's gonna go "she turned 20 :scust:" Unless they seriously have an illness.
 
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I have a pretty young looking face and body which was exaggerated when I was younger. when I was a teenager, I looked a good 3-4 years younger than what I was and I was hit on by much older men (40+) all the time. it was eye opening. there are a lot of creeps out there. you think the stories you hear are about rare people in rare circumstances, but they're not. It's disturbing.

I can't front I didn't use to think it was that bad. Well depending on the area, sketchy shyt happens in sketchy places. But after listening to my sister and some of her friends, I was like wow, from nikkas damn near trying to get in the car with them at the gas station, trying to get them to sit on they lap at a young age, to 50 year old men talking about eating they p*ssy while they walk home from school. shyt is legit a trip. shyt my homie was riding with me to Arby's while this young chick was fixing our order, maybe 18-20 this nikka 32 on some
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I'm like damn breh calm the fukk down. lol
 
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Challenge - show me someone who's crushing Nicole Murphy, Pilar Sanders, Angela Bassett, Janet Jackson, AJ Johnson, Jada Pinket, Toni Braxton? To be fair you can pick celebrities.


These are anomalies...... Nicole Murphy(Surgery/Kept Woman) Jada Pinkett(Surgery) Toni Braxton(Surgery) Janet Jackson(Surgery) even Angela Basset probably gets botox and facelifts..... These ladies are using a cheat code to still look youthful.... they look great, don't get it twisted, but you can be on instagram for 15 minutes and find 5 badder 20 something year olds
 

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but isn't that obvious. 25 year old men look better than 40-50 year old men too, especially non-celebs. consequently, you'll find more attractive 25 years old men/women than you will 40 yr old men and women- the pool becomes smaller as people age. most people are average looking, and most people are really average at an older age. younger is always better looks wise, but saying a woman looks better at 20 than she does at 25 is silly, or that somehow reproductive value is better at 19 than at 28 is laughable.
I think it's the opposite with men though. Most women would probably admit that men like Denzel, Idris, Clooney, etc all look better middle aged than when they were younger.
 
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I can't front I didn't use to think it was that bad. Well depending on the area, sketchy shyt happens in sketchy places. But after listening to my sister and some of her friends, I was like wow, from nikkas damn near trying to get in the car with them at the gas station, trying to get them to sit on they lap at a young age, to 50 year old men talking about eating they p*ssy while they walk home from school. shyt is legit a trip. shyt my homie was riding with me to Arby's while this young chick was fixing our order, maybe 18-20 this nikka 32 on some
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I'm like damn breh calm the fukk down. lol

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thanks I really put some thought into it.

seriously though, It's obvious men prefer younger women, the younger the better. I think it's odd when they're obsessed with age like some of the guys on here are. Like it's fine to have a preference but it's a completely different thing to be obsessed with it. Like I remember @spinoza saying he had a 19 year old gf and he wanted "so badly" to have sex with her before she turned 20. I thought that was odd and a bit creepy.

but I can't say that or I'll be called bitter, even though I'm young.lol

aint nobody care about what you think. foh.
 
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