Discuss: issues with your parents

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

my mama is too fukkin calculating.
she see's the bullshyt coming at the door
and that has rubbed off on me bigtime.

*swoops through mama's crib with a broad*

me: hey mama how is your day going
mama: dont butter me up....your plate is on the stove
me: mama this is lisa.
lisa: ive heard so much about you
mama: make him wear protection he's worldly
me: where is pops?
mama: his policy is paid up so who cares.
me:
lisa: your home is beaufitul
mama: leaving it to my grandchild if he gives me one.
lisa:
mama: nice meeting you lisa......son,kitchen
me: come on wit it.
mama: she's a dig bat......my grandbabies would be slow.
me:

Lmao just from this interaction alone, I think I love your mom

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

my mama is too fukkin calculating.
she see's the bullshyt coming at the door
and that has rubbed off on me bigtime.

*swoops through mama's crib with a broad*

me: hey mama how is your day going
mama: dont butter me up....your plate is on the stove
me: mama this is lisa.
lisa: ive heard so much about you
mama: make him wear protection he's worldly
me: where is pops?
mama: his policy is paid up so who cares.
me:
lisa: your home is beaufitul
mama: leaving it to my grandchild if he gives me one.
lisa:
mama: nice meeting you lisa......son,kitchen
me: come on wit it.
mama: she's a dig bat......my grandbabies would be slow.
me:

Soooo much ether

 

[Pier7]

My mother is a woman who thinks she can't live without a man, whether they be pedophiles or rapists. She's a conniving, compulsive, liar. She's a disappointment. She's a joke of a parent. I try to have minimal contact with her but leave it up to her to reach out anyways.
.

Once went out with a women who had a similar background to you. Mom always had these random nikkas in and out her home. She never confessed anything to me about sexual abuse, but if you read in between the lines you can could piece together the story.

Mothers who put their daughters in harms way just so they wont be lonely are fukking sick. You strong that you are even talking to this bytch (no offense)

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

You will probably be the one she calls on in a major life event to make decisions

You're the heart of the coli. You're very considerate and I hope the universe rewards you for your kindness. I would cook for you anytime. I'd make you something to match your personality.

It'd be light and colorful. Something everyone could appreciate too. Grilled Sea bass with a lemon butter sauce would be my main dish. Salad would be: red quinoa, roasted coconut, sliced almonds, cilantro, and orange slices. Dessert would have to be one of my parfaits that includes: pom seeds, strawberries, blue berries, Greek yogurt, and granola tossed with brown sugar. or homemade vanilla ice cream, brownies, chocolate sauce.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Lmao just from this interaction alone, I think I love your mom

she's a very calm woman who rarely
raises her voice and is second only to
my uncle who has no filter whatsoever.
1st time i found out her rank in the family
was when my aunt who is the wild child
came over to talk to her because she said something
disrespectful to my grandmother....
my mama told her to go apologize,
my aunt started using her outside voice in the
crib and was about to leave and my mama says in
a quite rumble......
bytch if you raise your ass a inch off that couch while i'm talking.
my aunt didnt say shyt just weeped and listened.
granny got her apology and i was shook.

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

she's a very calm woman who rarely
raises her voice and is second only to
my uncle who has no filter whatsoever.
1st time i found out her rank in the family
was when my aunt who is the wild child
came over to talk to her because she said something
disrespectful to my grandmother....
my mama told her to go apologize,
my aunt started using her outside voice in the
crib and was about to leave and my mama says in
a quite rumble......
bytch if you raise your ass a inch off that couch while i'm talking.
my aunt didnt say shyt just weeped and listened.
granny got her apology and i was shook.

Lmaoo my God.. would it be fukked up to say I want her as a mother?

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

You're the heart of the coli. You're very considerate and I hope the universe rewards you for your kindness. I would cook for you anytime. I'd make you something to match your personality.

It'd be light and colorful. Something everyone could appreciate too. Grilled Sea bass with a lemon butter sauce would be my main dish. Salad would be: red quinoa, roasted coconut, sliced almonds, cilantro, and orange slices. Dessert would have to be one of my parfaits that includes: pom seeds, strawberries, blue berries, Greek yogurt, and granola tossed with brown sugar. or homemade vanilla ice cream, brownies, chocolate sauce.

Thank you very very much. You're extremely gifted and you'll have the unconditional love you deserve. Your talent is amazing and your vision is revolutionary. You're passionate about helping people improve their lives and their health. I look forward to to seeing more of your work.

 

[Cat piss martini]

Lmaoo my God.. would it be fukked up to say I want her as a mother?

Everybody loves her which is why
I cant have broads around her foreal.
they will dead ass try to get permission
to drop by to talk to her and bullshyt.

broad: so i got your mama a gift for her birthday
me: how do you know it's her birthday
broad: your sisters facebook.
me: the fukk
broad: I just wanna drop it off.
me: she dont like people just dropping by
broad: i'm walking up to the door now
me: fukk is wrong with you.
*phone rings*
mama: why is one of your harlots at my door love
me: she got you a gift......i tried to stop her.
mama: you dont say.
me: please dont let her chill mama
mama: maybe she'll help me pick these greens
me: mama waiiiiiiiit.
*click*
me: fukk!

 

[TheNig]

Sub...

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

Everybody loves her which is why
I cant have broads around her foreal.
they will dead ass try to get permission
to drop by to talk to her and bullshyt.

broad: so i got your mama a gift for her birthday
me: how do you know it's her birthday
broad: your sisters facebook.
me: the fukk
broad: I just wanna drop it off.
me: she dont like people just dropping by
broad: i'm walking up to the door now
me: fukk is wrong with you.
*phone rings*
mama: why is one of your harlots at my door love
me: she got you a gift......i tried to stop her.
mama: you dont say.
me: please dont let her chill mama
mama: maybe she'll help me pick these greens
me: mama waiiiiiiiit.
*click*
me: fukk!

 

[Cat piss martini]

 

[GoGetMyDamnBelt_]

I'm not exaggerating when I say I think I love yo moms lol

 

[Cat piss martini]

I'm not exaggerating when I say I think I love yo moms lol

Trust me I believe you 100%
she's something else...

 

[GoPro]

This exactly how I feel.

I always thought I hated my mom but I now know I just dislike her as a person. The only kind of respect I have for her is for birthing me. I don't love her nor do I hate her.

Since I was 4 I been sexually abused. Molested by my cousin, she was 16. It went on till I was about 6. She use to do this sick shyt too where she had me and my older brother touch on eachother. He was 5 to my 4. We never spoke about it. We were scared of my cousin.

It picked back up from 8 on up by multiple men who somehow or way knew my mother. Those times, I told my mom but nothing was ever done. That's when I developed depression disorder. When I was 9 this one man, married man at that, that she was sleeping with was touching me. But it was different from the others. Unlike the others, he was doing it inside my clothes. Fingering, rubbing my developing breasts, kissing me on the mouth, walking in on me when i take my baths. Told my mom, she told me whenever he comes around to go to my room or don't wear short things around the house. I don't know if my mom said anything to him or not but one night he took it a step further.. lost my virginity to him at 9. This time, instead of telling my mom, I told his wife. He disappeared after that.

I was 12, her baby daddy touched me and she kicked me out and sent me to my grandmother until I was 14 where she moved to Orlando. I had no choice but to go. I've dealt with sexually abuse, plenty of physical and verbal. When it comes to communication, I shut down. If someone is worth it, I try.

I've had a nasty grudge against her. I moved out her place at 16 when i graduated HS. From then till now, she calls me almost everyday and ends the phone calls with "I love you." You know how awkward it is when I can't say it back?

My mother is a woman who thinks she can't live without a man, whether they be pedophiles or rapists. She's a conniving, compulsive, liar. She's a disappointment. She's a joke of a parent. I try to have minimal contact with her but leave it up to her to reach out anyways.

Worst part of it all, she in denial. That depression disorder didn't go away. Now I'm on pills for anxiety and my doctor want to try antidepressants next. I thought it would help if I just air out the years worth of tension with my mom and discuss it. She told me, "let go and let God." She totally dismissed everything I said, everything I opened up to her about. That shyt crushed me.

I'll never have a stable, healthy relationship with my mom. I've now come to accept that.

Damn. I wanna go hug my momma in comparison.

 

[CinnaSlim]

My mom has trust/control/anxiety issues. She worries so much, she feels she has control things and people because she thinks she knows best.


My dad has abandonment issues and is horrible with money and responsibility in general. He's a disabled vet who never takes a break because he's always doing stuff for other people who take advantage of him.

Both my parents are having money problems. Im in no position to help.