Guys who worked at places she frequented. I like grocery stores ect. I guess they were acquainted. I told her it might be her energy. Also she's in Atlanta, if that makes a diff.
Didn't realize women had droughts.
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You mean the men were probably gay? Is she cute?
We know what that means. 
dora_da_destroyer
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i agree with most of this except it always being by choice, sometimes it is, other times, the woman wants to have sex but isn't finding someone to fit the bill. like for me to have just casual sex, the dude has to be fine as shyt - then i won't care what else he does or doesn't offer, because i'm fine with the sex. it's been a long time since i found a guy that madeShe's telling the truth. One of my friends says shes went 6 years without sex(after the birth of her youngest daughter), another friend said, she's had periods of 2 years and 4 years without sex, during singledom. One of my friends it's been three years since she's had sex. The funny thing is she's a sex consultant and intimacy coach on the side--despite being celibate for as long as she has. She masturbates everyday with the toys she sells and has an orgasm everyday. I'm actually going to her sextoy party this weekend. Look she says she can make herself orgasm in 3 minutes, so she doesn't necessarily miss sex, she misses the intimacy of it, but it isn't dire since she masturbates everyday.
I've had droughts as well. And I'll say for all of us it's by choice. I used to be on that "I'm not having sex without being in a relationship with a man I care about" so when I wasn't in relationships, I wasn't fukking. What made this suck, is that the reason I wasn't in relationships was because I wasn't ready to be in one during that time period-- so even though I wanted sex, I didn't want a relationship, so I had to stick by my values.It's actually more common than yall think for women to go through by choice droughts. It isn't as huge of a deal for us, as yall think, because a lot of times sex isn't our hugest priority.
just from looks so the smashing random men hasn't been an option, so if i'm not dating someone...then i'm stuck with no sex. and i have a high sex drive, believe if i found someone that made me lust after him, i'd smash early, but if i don't find that, then i'm in a drought
Nah, but they may have more options. Yeah she's cute. She gets approached alot, just not by guys she likes I guess.
i agree with most of this except it always being by choice, sometimes it is, other times, the woman wants to have sex but isn't finding someone to fit the bill. like for me to have just casual sex, the dude has to be fine as shyt - then i won't care what else he does or doesn't offer, because i'm fine with the sex. it's been a long time since i found a guy that made
This is some real shyt too. Very accurate. I'm the same way. Although typically if I'm abstaining from sex for a long period of time, it's usually by choice--like I'm just trying to focus on my goals and not get distracted by good dikk. On the other hand, some of my shorter periods of abstaining is due to the reason bolded. And I know it's the same with my friends too. We were talking about this the other day. Like on some damn I want some dikk--but not from any of these men here
or I'm talking to this guy but I'm really not interested in fukking him, he's just not doing it for me, type of shyt. 
We all have high sex drives, so we all be like "damn, if only I met just one breh that made me want to drop them panties, they would be dropped"
lol, but all jokes aside, i feel you. I think a lot of us that go through these periods without sex, it's a mix of not meeting men we want to have sex with, or focusing on other things and just wanting to focus on us without the distractions. I also feel like a lot of women aren't as attracted to the average man, as man are attracted to the average woman. Personally, I can admit that as a bisexual female, I find more women attractive than I do for men. I don't find most men attractive. I've accepted that about myself--so that means that for me, in order for me to want to have sex, on average physical looks alone will never be enough to have me wanting to fukk a man on sight. But nowadays, I feel like for me and my friends most of us are in our early thirties/late twenties, so our libidos are high, so ain't none of us interested in long term droughts. Most of us were able to do these in the past, we're not on it now. 
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Youseenmywork
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Youseenmywork
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The older you get you’ll realize women have MANY more options than men in fact it’s a men that will treat her like a “QUEEN” and with respect and dignity....but it anit WHO she want ....
Women can have sex whenever they want. Droughts are choices for them.
I guess you can say the same with men, but they just have to be willing to lower their standards
I guess you can say the same with men, but they just have to be willing to lower their standards
Then it just sounds like she choose her drought.
Who said men need to constantly have sex?
The majority of your sex's actions.
Youseenmywork
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I would go as far as this if women went threw the shyt men went threw plenty of women would be ready to commit that 
. It many times men go months with out female attention. Some self inflicted due to work or just getting ones life together and sometime just some time away. Men are going with not getting attention but I feel like men are better at self reflection as well. If a man dosent take accountability and responsibility that his ass. In this society today it like it dosent matter if a women does or dosent.
To any man ask the next beautiful women how long can she go without male attention? Listen to the answer you get it will say a lot about that particular women
. It many times men go months with out female attention. Some self inflicted due to work or just getting ones life together and sometime just some time away. Men are going with not getting attention but I feel like men are better at self reflection as well. If a man dosent take accountability and responsibility that his ass. In this society today it like it dosent matter if a women does or dosent. To any man ask the next beautiful women how long can she go without male attention? Listen to the answer you get it will say a lot about that particular women
Youseenmywork
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Huh ?
The majority of your sex's actions
She is lying it's likely by choice. I know single mother of 2 with the same story. but has dudes trying to hit all the time but her problem she is one of those people that seemed to want marriage before she opens her legs again. I'm willing to bet she let some of them dudes hit.
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