Didn't realize women had droughts.

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She's telling the truth. One of my friends says shes went 6 years without sex(after the birth of her youngest daughter), another friend said, she's had periods of 2 years and 4 years without sex, during singledom. One of my friends it's been three years since she's had sex. The funny thing is she's a sex consultant and intimacy coach on the side--despite being celibate for as long as she has. She masturbates everyday with the toys she sells and has an orgasm everyday. I'm actually going to her sextoy party this weekend. Look she says she can make herself orgasm in 3 minutes, so she doesn't necessarily miss sex, she misses the intimacy of it, but it isn't dire since she masturbates everyday.

I've had droughts as well. And I'll say for all of us it's by choice. I used to be on that "I'm not having sex without being in a relationship with a man I care about" so when I wasn't in relationships, I wasn't fukking. What made this suck, is that the reason I wasn't in relationships was because I wasn't ready to be in one during that time period-- so even though I wanted sex, I didn't want a relationship, so I had to stick by my values. :yeshrug: It's actually more common than yall think for women to go through by choice droughts. It isn't as huge of a deal for us, as yall think, because a lot of times sex isn't our hugest priority.
are you on a drought now? :lupe:
 

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The reason why women can bare with it so easily is because they willingly choose to do this and it’s easier for them to turn down sex since they can get it so easily.......

Please don’t fall for this “We don’t need it as much as y’all do” nonsense :unimpressed:.......Humans are human and sex is a carnal desire. The bullshyt people spout here is insanity........

I agree with the bolded. But, I know a few women that have lower sex drives and really don't care to do it all that much. Can't rule out the fact that there are actually women that really don't want it or need it as much. But I will say amongst me and my friends, we all have higher libidos and we crave sex just as much as men do, the difference I guess is that abstaining doesn't really affect us the same as it does for yall. Like we can abstain and not masturbate during our period of abstaining and be okay. Or we can minimally masturbate during our periods of abstaining, for months at a time and be okay. We can abstain and not be willing to fukk someone that is a 3 or 4, or 5 just to get some. We can abstain and focus on everything, with dikk being the last priority, for a long while without it making us feel some type of way. But I do agree that sex is a natural carnal desire for the average person, man and woman. But we have to be real and admit that women aren't as thirsty for it, and overall probably have lower sex drives than the average sexual male.
 

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We're all very open with each other, with no judgement, trust me, the shyt they tell me--there's no real reason for them to lie concerning this, especially considering when they have their hoe moments they put that out there too, and we laugh about it kim. Unless a woman has very critical friends, or doesn't want her friends to know who she is, then typically women will be very open with close friends, especially about sex, and we all are grown and secure in ourselves enough to do what the fukk we want, judgement or not. shyt just in the last week, a couple have admitted to one night stands--there's no reason to lie about their past. Then again, we are all in late twenties/early thirties, grown women...

I feel like some of yall are convinced that all women are one way, when in reality it's the women you may associate with that are leading that double life bullshyt. I'm blunt, and like attracts like--my friends are too. When I say that we've all had periods where we've abstained from sex, there's no lies being told. It is what it is. Believe it if you want to, or not. :yeshrug:


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I was talking to a friend of mine and she was saying she felt like she couldn't give it away for like a year after her break up. I didn't realize women had droughts like that. She not ugly either and no I ain't posting pics. shyt had me like:ohhh: . The coli told me women had mad nikkas on standby for when they wanted dikk.
They only have droughts if they're lazy (i.e. no social interaction at all).
A woman sitting on a park bench for too long will be offered dikk of some kind.
We're not men. We don't need to constantly have sex. Sex is only a priority for women when they want it to be.
Women have similar sex drives to men.
 

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men seem to think that just because there is thirsty dude out there who will fukk anyone who asks, that we operate the same. if you're not meeting a man who immediately inspires lust or who you'd be interested in dating/something serious with, a lot of women aint fukking...off top i can name multiple friends, including myself, who have gone a year without sex, i have one friend who hasn't had sex since she got pregnant with her son...he's 3.5, so that's ~4 years. i won't say it's fully by choice because women would like to have sex, but not so desperate for it that they will eliminate standards/attraction to get it
 
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