Did I Cross The Line? My Wife Is Trippin

[Sharp]

I've been married for 2 years and my daughter from my previous relationship is 13. Me and her mother have been separated since my daughter was 3, but we've been cordial and have even become friends. I have no kids with my wife yet.

It was my daughters mothers birthday she's single and of course the mother of my child. I'm a married man. It was my daughters mother (aka baby mama) birthday and i wanted to do something really nice for her. So I bought her a bracelet, perfume, and a Saks 5th avenue gift card.

My wife is pissed and angry. I didn't explain the gifts in advance when she asked me what did i get her she flipped out on me and isn't speaking to me. Did i cross the line?




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[Diondon]

Outside of supporting your kid, cut that chick off. you buying her gifts for? Would you like if your wife bought her ex-nikka some rims?

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

A simple card would have sufficed.

He's not obligated to buy gifts for her just because that his "baby momma". He should have ran that past his wife first...I'm sure he wouldn't want her buying cologne and shyt for her baby daddy if the shoe was on the other foot.

 

[The ADD]

 

[skeetsinternal]

 

[Azul]

Whoever that is, he done fukked up. Now his wife is going to wonder whether they are creeping

 

[MikelArteta]

Get married twice brehs

 

[The ADD]

Trick on your baby mama brehs

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Man, she's like family at this point. Has she ever started drama with you and you new wife tho ?

What you shoulda did was take your daughter along with you and let her pick out the gifts and said it was from both of you to soften the blow to your wife's ego

 

[CrimsonTider]

You should have told your wife first

Communication is the key here

You and your wife both have a legitimate gripe

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Bruh...it send the message that you're trying to smash on the low.

Remember, she has more at stake than you do. She has to trust that you like her more than your ex-wife/baby-mom/etc.

I doubt she'd have cared if you had told her before hand.

 

[☑︎#VoteDemocrat]

Man, she's like family at this point. Has she ever started drama with you and you new wife tho ?

What you shoulda did was take your daughter along with you and let her pick out the gifts and said it was from both of you to soften the blow to your wife's ego

but you still should tell your new wife.

 

[marcuz]

perfume was the nail in the coffin :shame:

 

[twan83]

honestly i wouldn't have bought my baby momma anything even if were on good terms

but if you feel the need too should of discussed it with the wife first and see what she thinks is appropriate as a gift