I gotta admit that I kinda agree with you on this one. A certain segment in our community likes the thrill of the so-called bad boy (who himself isn't bad, but confused).
And it's having serious ramifications on our Community....
I feel so sorry for the two young black boys of that 39 year old I dated...
She basically set them up for failure.....
With her bad choices...
Didn't give me no play when we was teenagers cause she was too busy chasing dope boys and boosters
And decided to breed with them
And now both sons hate Thier pops
And lord knows as a potential stepdaddy I tried to be a positive influence to turn Thier lives around...
But it's hard to that when she allowed them to smoke weed in the house .,constantly babied them by giving them money and letting them stay with her as adults while they commited crimes....
But like Denzel said IT STARTS AT HOME...
I learned that when I went to the family reunion and got to meet her mama and pops...
The mama was on some Madea shyt.... talking shyt and went to church but had a side dude....60 years old with a side dude
The pops was a weed smoking WEAK AZZ MAN who let his woman and all the women of the family boss him around..
Right then and there I was like
And when we returned home I made my exit plan...
Now she is SINGLE again with two kids in the system
And Y'ALL wanna blame Uncle Sam
You people will NEVER make it life