Barring actual abuse from said mama, I can't say I've seen it eitherI've never met a black person who didn't like their own mama
Deep down I think I hate my mom, anyone else feel this way?
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you should talk to your mom. Let her know how you're feeling. You learn on the job as a parent and sometimes you don't make good decisions. If you got answers to some of the questions you have it may put you at peace. No need to walk around feeling some type of way about your mom.
cyndaquil
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Barring actual abuse from said mama, I can't say I've seen it either
remove yourself from his scrotum
she just a woman bruh she tried her best after 18 its up to you
everyone sees their parents faults when they get older
i seen a dude hate his single mom cuz he said she was a hoe especially single moms kids gon grow up and be angry
but as i sad man up her job is done regardless
everyone sees their parents faults when they get older
i seen a dude hate his single mom cuz he said she was a hoe especially single moms kids gon grow up and be angry
but as i sad man up her job is done regardless
Big Boda
My Family Are Not Immigrants.
On one side Hell nawl you not supposed to hate your mom.
On the Other side some moms poison their children mentally and emotionally. "You aint shyt and aint never gonna be shyt just like your daddy". Some parents sabotage their children when they get in those teen years and start getting girlfriends and boyfriends.
The best thing to do is to be grateful you are able to see or touch your parents and get out on your own away from them if the relationship aint good.
If your parent(s) did you really wrong then build success for yourself like a business or great career. People switch up when you're doing good.
Find a wifey get married up, have a beautiful baby having learned from your parents mistakes.
On the Other side some moms poison their children mentally and emotionally. "You aint shyt and aint never gonna be shyt just like your daddy". Some parents sabotage their children when they get in those teen years and start getting girlfriends and boyfriends.
The best thing to do is to be grateful you are able to see or touch your parents and get out on your own away from them if the relationship aint good.
If your parent(s) did you really wrong then build success for yourself like a business or great career. People switch up when you're doing good.
Find a wifey get married up, have a beautiful baby having learned from your parents mistakes.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
That shyt hurts cuh, when you find out yo mom deprived you of a father and if she was a ho too
I can see how somedudes end up hating women
Hate the person that birthed you, clothed you, fed you and raised you brehs
Get this trash out of here
Hate is a strong word, but I understand where they're coming from. I feel like im not as successful as i'd like to be because my mother made (and continue to make) shytty decisions....
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
http://www.thecoli.com/posts/12326786/
This article says exactly that. I don't agree with the whole thing, but it makes some interesting points.
agnosticlady
AL loves da kids : )
Please seek therapy if you feel that you must before going crazy. I grew up around mostly black people in Miami, so I can speak on what I saw. There are black women who have made the wrong choices in men and were left single with a child/children after the man leaves knowingly fully well that the man was not worthy of being a father. Being a single parent in general is stressful, but considering that women can be emotional some women took their anger out on their child. I've been on the train and bus and seen mothers cuss their kids out over little to nothing. I've seen mothers call their sons bytch, or say things like "You're just like your father. He ain't shyt" , "You stupid muthaf-cker" and etc. It affects the daughters too. I've seen some mothers take mistreat the child because they are not getting along with the father. A month ago I was dropping off my little niece at pre-school and a mother was criticizing her daughter for doing something wrong. She was saying something like, "Your stupid black ass....". Sometimes the woman may be the negative dominant role in the family. Those type of things cripple a child into adulthood.
If you feel like it's best to cut off your mother then let her go, or keep little to minimal contact with her. It hurts because a mother is supposed to love and nurture. From what I have seen mothers are "perfect" and can do absolutely "no wrong". If this was about one hating their terrible father then people wouldn't see anything wrong with it. Mothers can be terrible people. I have a good mother, but I have seen mothers do some evil shyt.
If you feel like it's best to cut off your mother then let her go, or keep little to minimal contact with her. It hurts because a mother is supposed to love and nurture. From what I have seen mothers are "perfect" and can do absolutely "no wrong". If this was about one hating their terrible father then people wouldn't see anything wrong with it. Mothers can be terrible people. I have a good mother, but I have seen mothers do some evil shyt.
cyndaquil
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cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
nikka what
Quit being mad on a Sunday evening and give thanks to the LAWD above for giving you a mother that carried your ungrateful ass this far
