Dear Nice Guy, She Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But She is Now

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This is not a gender specific issue. There are guys who pass up "nice girls" for sexy "bad bytches" all the time. Then after being shytted on enough times, they see the light and pick a nice girl to wife. Some of you guys always try to make women the culprit of all things bad.


You got it wrong we pass over the nice girl because 9/10 the badbytch looks better...................

For men it about looks.......................
 

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she doesn't deserve a good guy, she's made her bed and she should lie in it.

she should settle for a nice batch of adopted kittens and write Zane style books based around her being slutted out by bad boys.

:manny:

She still looks pretty good, she'll find a nice guy.
 

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@kevm3 @Mr. Somebody @bdizzle

What y'all have to say about this :lupe:

It's common sense, but a lot of these women want to be deluded by neo-feminism, aka it's ok to be sex positive, aka two steps from hiv positive, meaning she can give that thang up to everybody and then some white knight sucka will come and rescue them, aka 'ladies you can have it all'. A lot of women are finding out real quick that when they hit their 30s with out of wedlock kids and there are a lot of young, sexy women getting the attention that they used to get, that they have no bargaining chip to get a man to commit to them.

Relationships and marriage require commitment and work. There's zero reason for any man who stayed on his grind to wife up some broad who passed up on them in her prime and decided to ho it up, and now she's got 30 kids by dudes who ain't nowhere to be found and a mountain of debt. It's like going into the NBA in your prime and signing yearly contracts, jumping from team to team, and now that you are 30 and about to fall out of the league because your skills are diminished, you try to hit a team up for a long-term, max deal. The average person would say that is idiotic and not realistic, but somehow this logic escapes feminists and their cosigners. Funny thing is I never see these male feminists married up with one of these females that ho'd it up that they are always defending. You listen to them and they talk about how they ain't ready for commitment. They want to keep these females with that feminist, 'sex-positive' mentality so they can have easy access to that thang. If they were really down with the stuff they were spouting, there would be very few single mothers, because these male feminists would rush in to wife them up and pay for another man's child.

If you want that long-term marriage and commitment as a woman, you better get at a dude while he's on the rise. If you ain't checking for a man when he's in his 20s and ready to do the long-term commitment thing, then don't expect him to be checking for you in his 30s when that hard work paid off and your looks start falling off.

Women can be deluded if they want to and listen to the lies their male simpathizers are spouting to them.. But if you want to know the real... in the mind of a man, hoes are to play with, not to stay with. You want commitment, you better be commit worthy and get a long-term man in your prime.
 
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let me explain a little something to you. What the writer of the article is doing is running game. Women of this mind that like the bad guy don't ever really get sick of the bad guy. Isn't it funny how these women 'discover' they want that nice guy right around their 30s?They just start getting old, wrinkles start forming and the players that were knocking them down are looking at the newer, younger models. She also probably has a ton of student loan and credit card debt lingering around. She may or may not have a kid or two in tow, but if she has kids, obviously the father isn't around.

Since her original attention supply from the 'top notch' dudes in her mind is drying up and she hasn't checked off 'get married' and 'have kids' on her list and she sees a lot of her homegirls getting married, she decides she needs to do that too. She realizes that those bad boys won't ever stick around, so now she's looking for a 'nice guy provider' to hit those check-marks off and help pay her bills off. Still, her attraction to the bad boy never wanes and she is never really that attracted to the nice guy. She'll just marry Sammy the sucker, get a couple of kids from him, get him financially locked in and then mess with bad boys on the side or take Sammy for the shirt off of his back and then be a 'single cougar' who is still chasing these bad boys.

From a man's perspective, if you hear a woman has a history of 'bad boy chasing', it'd behoove you to steer clear because you are just a pit-stop/resthaven, and there's a very high probability she will do a smash and grab before ending up with the bad boy again. That's why I tell dudes over and over, if you have a decent woman that likes the stability thing and knows how to respect a relationship, don't lose her, especially not over no 'baddd ho'. Hoes come a dime a dozen, but in this day and age, a woman that you can have a real relationship with who isn't ready to jet as soon as she's bored? Very hard to find.
 

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let me explain a little something to you. What the writer of the article is doing is running game. Women of this mind that like the bad guy don't ever really get sick of the bad guy. Isn't it funny how these women 'discover' they want that nice guy right around their 30s?They just start getting old, wrinkles start forming and the players that were knocking them down are looking at the newer, younger models. She also probably has a ton of student loan and credit card debt lingering around. She may or may not have a kid or two in tow, but if she has kids, obviously the father isn't around.

Since her original attention supply from the 'top notch' dudes in her mind is drying up and she hasn't checked off 'get married' and 'have kids' on her list and she sees a lot of her homegirls getting married, she decides she needs to do that too. She realizes that those bad boys won't ever stick around, so now she's looking for a 'nice guy provider' to hit those check-marks off and help pay her bills off. Still, her attraction to the bad boy never wanes and she is never really that attracted to the nice guy. She'll just marry Sammy the sucker, get a couple of kids from him, get him financially locked in and then mess with bad boys on the side or take Sammy for the shirt off of his back and then be a 'single cougar' who is still chasing these bad boys.

From a man's perspective, if you hear a woman has a history of 'bad boy chasing', it'd behoove you to steer clear because you are just a pit-stop/resthaven, and there's a very high probability she will do a smash and grab before ending up with the bad boy again. That's why I tell dudes over and over, if you have a decent woman that likes the stability thing and knows how to respect a relationship, don't lose her, especially not over no 'baddd ho'. Hoes come a dime a dozen, but in this day and age, a woman that you can have a real relationship with who isn't ready to jet as soon as she's bored? Very hard to find.

Gospel.
 

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let me explain a little something to you. What the writer of the article is doing is running game. Women of this mind that like the bad guy don't ever really get sick of the bad guy. Isn't it funny how these women 'discover' they want that nice guy right around their 30s?They just start getting old, wrinkles start forming and the players that were knocking them down are looking at the newer, younger models. She also probably has a ton of student loan and credit card debt lingering around. She may or may not have a kid or two in tow, but if she has kids, obviously the father isn't around.

Since her original attention supply from the 'top notch' dudes in her mind is drying up and she hasn't checked off 'get married' and 'have kids' on her list and she sees a lot of her homegirls getting married, she decides she needs to do that too. She realizes that those bad boys won't ever stick around, so now she's looking for a 'nice guy provider' to hit those check-marks off and help pay her bills off. Still, her attraction to the bad boy never wanes and she is never really that attracted to the nice guy. She'll just marry Sammy the sucker, get a couple of kids from him, get him financially locked in and then mess with bad boys on the side or take Sammy for the shirt off of his back and then be a 'single cougar' who is still chasing these bad boys.

From a man's perspective, if you hear a woman has a history of 'bad boy chasing', it'd behoove you to steer clear because you are just a pit-stop/resthaven, and there's a very high probability she will do a smash and grab before ending up with the bad boy again. That's why I tell dudes over and over, if you have a decent woman that likes the stability thing and knows how to respect a relationship, don't lose her, especially not over no 'baddd ho'. Hoes come a dime a dozen, but in this day and age, a woman that you can have a real relationship with who isn't ready to jet as soon as she's bored? Very hard to find.

yeah its never out of their system, why you hear them getting married and then "falling out of love" with their husband, just google my husband is too nice and tons of articles, questions, etc. come up, its why women initiate divorce 70% of the time in marriages. The love for the bad boy never dies,
 
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