Dear Nice Guy, She Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But She is Now

[Elle Driver]

Women love throwing out the bitter line.

Why would any man be bitter? Its never been easier to get sex, its never been easier to string along a single mom or low self esteem girl.

You are an example of a bitter man.

 

[labrokejames]

I got a question
How come some women is more willing to leave a man who is nice and quiet with her
Then guys who beat a female, the female will stay with him

The female instinct tells them to 'use a man at all costs'. That nikka that slaps her is the same nikka that buys her clothes, jewelry, and gives her a bed to sleep in.

Women like drama, plain and simple.

 

[Jone2three45]

If this and the Lil' Mo thread doesn't steer y'all away from these types of women I don't know what else to say.

 

[MikelArteta]

You are an example of a bitter man.

please do tell how am i bitter?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

This is about to turn into another gems thread lol

 

[AquaCityBoy]

@Dooby, I'm not a two-year-old baby. Please get off my dikk, you weirdo pedophile virgin dork fakkit.

Thanks.

 

[kevm3]

yeah its never out of their system, why you hear them getting married and then "falling out of love" with their husband, just google my husband is too nice and tons of articles, questions, etc. come up, its why women initiate divorce 70% of the time in marriages. The love for the bad boy never dies,

There's a reason for that 'you can't make a ho into a housewife' statement that so many have heard growing up... and yet for some reason, old wisdom simply has disappeared in this day and age. When true wisdom is not heeded, disasters occur. You CAN make a ho into a housewife, but be prepared to raise another man's kids or prepare her to leave at the first sign of boredom.

A woman who decides to ho up is similar to a crack user. If you've never taken crack, then you probably have zero desire to do so and it has no emotional hooks in you, so therefore you are unlikely to do it if you were never curious and partook of it in the first place. However, a crack user, upon taking it, gets emotionally compelled to take crack. That drug has a hold on them because they are 'chasing the dragon' or in other words, chasing a feeling. Women who decide to ho it up start building an addiction to variety and even more extreme forms of sex. Just like how after you take that one hit of crack, subsequent hits never provide the same pleasure and you start using more and more to 'chase that feeling' and eventually start to have to take the drug just to feel normal, women who get addicted to sexing everyone up have a similar problem. One man can never satisfy them for long because they are addicted to wanting 'something new', and they are addicted to the emotional drug that is drama and uncertainty. Those hooks will eventually compel her to leave that boring stability to go chase the feeling. Just like that crackhead will tell you whatever needs to be said to get money for the next hit, the sex addict will run game so she can get her finances locked in and her life 'made' before she eventually goes back to chasing that original source of drama and pleasure. It takes an egghead with a degree to state things in scientific terms before people believe common sense, but they've said the more partners a woman has, the harder it is for her to 'pair-bond'... meaning it's hard for her to stick to just one man.

 

[THE MACHINE]

smoking inside the car and shyt, breath smelling hell naw.

I love rejecting these ho-ish demons. They think they're slick eating up 100 dikks and asking me for a relationship

 

[Malik]

It's common sense, but a lot of these women want to be deluded by neo-feminism, aka it's ok to be sex positive, aka two steps from hiv positive, meaning she can give that thang up to everybody and then some white knight sucka will come and rescue them, aka 'ladies you can have it all'. A lot of women are finding out real quick that when they hit their 30s with out of wedlock kids and there are a lot of young, sexy women getting the attention that they used to get, that they have no bargaining chip to get a man to commit to them.

Relationships and marriage require commitment and work. There's zero reason for any man who stayed on his grind to wife up some broad who passed up on them in her prime and decided to ho it up, and now she's got 30 kids by dudes who ain't nowhere to be found and a mountain of debt. It's like going into the NBA in your prime and signing yearly contracts, jumping from team to team, and now that you are 30 and about to fall out of the league because your skills are diminished, you try to hit a team up for a long-term, max deal. The average person would say that is idiotic and not realistic, but somehow this logic escapes feminists and their cosigners. Funny thing is I never see these male feminists married up with one of these females that ho'd it up that they are always defending. You listen to them and they talk about how they ain't ready for commitment. They want to keep these females with that feminist, 'sex-positive' mentality so they can have easy access to that thang. If they were really down with the stuff they were spouting, there would be very few single mothers, because these male feminists would rush in to wife them up and pay for another man's child.

If you want that long-term marriage and commitment as a woman, you better get at a dude while he's on the rise. If you ain't checking for a man when he's in his 20s and ready to do the long-term commitment thing, then don't expect him to be checking for you in his 30s when that hard work paid off and your looks start falling off.

Women can be deluded if they want to and listen to the lies their male simpathizers are spouting to them.. But if you want to know the real... in the mind of a man, hoes are to play with, not to stay with. You want commitment, you better be commit worthy and get a long-term man in your prime.

 

[Blackout]

Nice guys finish last because they chasing lowlife whores, much like they say woman chase no good thugs. And yes there are educated well to do women who are triflin whores

Ive seen even nice and nerdy chicks chase bad boys.

Dont forget that while many immature women dislike nice guys and male nerds many men on the other hand like female nerds and nice chicks.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

I have a good guy. Actually I have a great guy

I've always liked good guys. I'm a bad girl so I need a good guy to even things out

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

@kevm3 in here spitting that hard hitting truth

 

[Malik]

Ive seen even nice and nerdy chicks chase bad boys.

Dont forget that while many immature women dislike nice guys and male nerds many men on the other hand like female nerds and nice chicks.

Girls chase bad boys, boys chase bad girls. Difference is, no guy wants to be wifed up with a slut. You can find all the exceptions you want but, that rule is etched in stone for the most part.

We will fukk those girls though


We'll fukk "Rihanna" but, we want to wife "Sanna Lathan". Women on the other hand, want to turn "Chris Brown" into a husband and only after they've failed miserably, that's when they try to find a nice guy. A comparison for that would be like us trying to turn "Rihanna" into a wife.....we wouldn't

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

let me explain a little something to you. What the writer of the article is doing is running game. Women of this mind that like the bad guy don't ever really get sick of the bad guy. Isn't it funny how these women 'discover' they want that nice guy right around their 30s?They just start getting old, wrinkles start forming and the players that were knocking them down are looking at the newer, younger models. She also probably has a ton of student loan and credit card debt lingering around. She may or may not have a kid or two in tow, but if she has kids, obviously the father isn't around.

Since her original attention supply from the 'top notch' dudes in her mind is drying up and she hasn't checked off 'get married' and 'have kids' on her list and she sees a lot of her homegirls getting married, she decides she needs to do that too. She realizes that those bad boys won't ever stick around, so now she's looking for a 'nice guy provider' to hit those check-marks off and help pay her bills off. Still, her attraction to the bad boy never wanes and she is never really that attracted to the nice guy. She'll just marry Sammy the sucker, get a couple of kids from him, get him financially locked in and then mess with bad boys on the side or take Sammy for the shirt off of his back and then be a 'single cougar' who is still chasing these bad boys.

From a man's perspective, if you hear a woman has a history of 'bad boy chasing', it'd behoove you to steer clear because you are just a pit-stop/resthaven, and there's a very high probability she will do a smash and grab before ending up with the bad boy again. That's why I tell dudes over and over, if you have a decent woman that likes the stability thing and knows how to respect a relationship, don't lose her, especially not over no 'baddd ho'. Hoes come a dime a dozen, but in this day and age, a woman that you can have a real relationship with who isn't ready to jet as soon as she's bored? Very hard to find.

to the goat poster on this site.

I have a good guy. Actually I have a great guy

I've always liked good guys. I'm a bad girl so I need a good guy to even things out

Hope that isn't you in your avatar, if so @ you looking like a piece of shyt with clothes on. No wonder you got a p*ssy as a significant other, you got no other options

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Said no woman ever


Which one of you scorned "nice guys" wrote this