Dear Nice Guy, She Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But She is Now
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That's why I'm getting a mail order bride, I provide and she cooks
It's all subjective. What makes you think these girls are "nice" because they are "nerdy"? A lot of men like "nerdy" and "nice" chicks because they want to use them. People are people. People generally don't want anything easily attained or easily accessed. People have a fridge fool of food and buy takeouts.
Nothing wrong with being a bad girl if you are a bad girl if you aren't hoeing. If you are hoeingI have a good guy. Actually I have a great guy
I've always liked good guys. I'm a bad girl so I need a good guy to even things out
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
Nothing wrong with being a bad girl if you are a bad girl if you aren't hoeing. If you are hoeing
Nah I mean BAD. I wasn't infatuated with bad boys, cuz I was the one that was out there wildin, fightin, and getting arrested as a youngin.
I've changed my ways tho.
Just don't let the necessary occur
Breh, this is a bit ridiculous.
This is a tough one. Christ teaches us to not look at a persons past as a measure of who they are today. In particular if they have truely turned over a new leaf. I wouldnt hold a womans past against if i felt she had truly changed. In particular if i was in my 30's looking for love but for me, id need some years to be between her and that demonic filth so it can be better washed out of her system. If a woman is hopping from demon to demon and then to me in a short span of time, i dont think i could trust it. But if shes done some soul searching and spent some time to herself and has allowed years to go by to reflect on her mistakes and has made the choice to be a woman of good. A woman who cooks cleans and obeys and what not? Yes i could give her a chance but i wouldnt reccomend these women to the youth unless they are no longer young.
If you look at the demonic red flags though, you should be able to understand which women should be avoided more then an unattractive woman with herpes.
Its so demonic, friends.
Trollin'/In-character or not, that's a great point for cats like @Emperor_ReinScarf, who claim to be on a righteous path, but, judge and also have a past of their own (I won't call you bitter).
But, my issue with that; I'm a virgin. Yes, I am.
By choice, but, mostly circumstance (I can admit that I haven't be truely tested, yet
). So, in my mind; it makes no sense for me to build something with a woman with even a minuscule sexual history (only her boyfriends and can count her sexual episodes with her hands), then expect (keyword) her to be able to deal with me; waiting until marriage, then progressing throughout our marriage.
No, I don't think all women-who've-had-sex are harlots. But, gettin' with a woman who've had history may very well cause problems in the future--she more sexually advanced than I.
I probably need to find a "square" woman and build off the same standards and have a LTR from that. She may not be the "baddest," in the sense of my vainest standards. And we'll have to have more in common than being virgins.
But, it's about not trying to have your cake and eat it, too.
I can't get with a Smooth Magazine cover model and be surprised when she finds it hard to be abstinent.
That's regardless of it I'm trying to judge her or not. Some things just don't work out, together.
But, I will not disrespect her, because I still have my own sins and things she may not vibe with.
Now, for these "nice guys" need to stop actin' as if every woman owes them to be "virtuous" (which is subjective), when they themselves play by their own rules.
I can demand my wife be a virgin, the "honest playa'" can't.
Dude's up, in here, talmbout; "I'll hit, but, won't wife." As if that makes them better.
Friend.
And that's just it. We keep trying to create to these lies about women being loose and men being virtous, they make no sense and it's hard to have a real convo about it.
We run into circles, get nowhere, because, it's not a her or him issue, it's an us issue.
goddamnto the goat poster on this site.
Hope that isn't you in your avatar, if so@ you looking like a piece of shyt with clothes on. No wonder you got a p*ssy as a significant other, you got no other options
You have to keep her inside. You can't let her mingle. Don't americanize her.
much of what's said in this topic does not match my reality
there is no good boy or bad boy
if they are really so bad, they'd be locked up or dead by now
i find a woman who is projecting a life image/vision compatible to mine
i ask her for a date - if that goes well, then we get to know each other
next we try it out- physically, mentally, socially, etc.
- that's a risk we both take. we are risking our bodies, our hearts, our reputations
then at 3 months time to evaluate longterm compatability (if things have gone well)
there's no point in this courtship where a woman is supposed to ask you for money
i give small thoughtful yet inexpensive gift here or there for birthday valentines christmas,etc
but at no point do i start paying her bills or serve as her career counselor
for me to date a woman, she already needs to have a life of her own
that's all pre-screened from the jump
there is no good boy or bad boy
if they are really so bad, they'd be locked up or dead by now
i find a woman who is projecting a life image/vision compatible to mine
i ask her for a date - if that goes well, then we get to know each other
next we try it out- physically, mentally, socially, etc.
- that's a risk we both take. we are risking our bodies, our hearts, our reputations
then at 3 months time to evaluate longterm compatability (if things have gone well)
there's no point in this courtship where a woman is supposed to ask you for money
i give small thoughtful yet inexpensive gift here or there for birthday valentines christmas,etc
but at no point do i start paying her bills or serve as her career counselor
for me to date a woman, she already needs to have a life of her own
that's all pre-screened from the jump
this lady told me her life story and work complaints when I was doing community service hours last weekend
I think I saw this at the right time. It's a trap. All hail Lord Gucci.
StickStickly
Superstar
What if I were to tell you that most men who think they're a nice guy aren't at all what they think they are 
Being nerdy, quiet, shy, educated, monogamous or secure does not a nice guy make. Heck a lot these under dog types have pent up anger from whatever childhood or adolescent experience that they think determines the rest of their lives and treat the women who try to love them very poorly, to the point of violence at times. But they'd swear up and down that they're nice because they don't fit the "thug" or "player" description.
You all would probably think they're "nice" too, but you're not in the relationship with them so you can't see their manipulative ways.
Being nerdy, quiet, shy, educated, monogamous or secure does not a nice guy make. Heck a lot these under dog types have pent up anger from whatever childhood or adolescent experience that they think determines the rest of their lives and treat the women who try to love them very poorly, to the point of violence at times. But they'd swear up and down that they're nice because they don't fit the "thug" or "player" description.
You all would probably think they're "nice" too, but you're not in the relationship with them so you can't see their manipulative ways.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
These mail order brides are just as bad, they got ulterior motives, trying to stack their money and get a passport.
That was unadulterated ether served on polished fine silver. Funny thing is, if that article was to be written honestly sans the irony, the takeaway would still probably be the same regardless.
Dirty_Jerz
Ethiop
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What if I were to tell you that most men who think they're a nice guy aren't at all what they think they are
Being nerdy, quiet, shy, educated, monogamous or secure does not a nice guy make. Heck a lot these under dog types have pent up anger from whatever childhood or adolescent experience that they think determines the rest of their lives and treat the women who try to love them very poorly, to the point of violence at times. But they'd swear up and down that they're nice because they don't fit the "thug" or "player" description.
