Dear ‘Broke’ Men: Don’t Punish A Woman for Not Wanting to Date You (EBONY)

[Exlurkernegro]

Some posters in here are like "ha ha ha y'all mad cause y'all broke" it's not about that it's about women's hypocrisy.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Why do you care who a woman dates or chose not to date lol?

Actually you should be thankful, that means more sound cloud rappers for you!

Lol! As much shyt as I give men for accountability, I'm not suprised at being called a pick me for going in on women.

At some point people have to get this about me. I don't care about this gender bullshyt. Wrong is wrong.

I care b/c people keep lying on blk men and women and the shyt is irritating and divisive. It's too much that we as blk women need to work on before we sit here and act snobbish about finances like we got it like that. shyt is unreal. People need a reality check.

Edit: I had to re-read what you wrote...SOUND CLOUD RAPPERS! Lmao! I hate ya'll sometimes.

 

[SAINT]

Dear Broke bytches: We aren’t obligated to pay for you on the first date

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yall always blaming cacs for everything lol.

Theres no excuse why a black men in this day and age cant get a job and support himself.

Hell I even know black dudes with records and they still got jobs.

The article isn’t just talking about black men who can’t get a job and support himself, it’s talking about black men who are broke...

She’s also being a hypocrite while writing a pointless article. “Broke men” aren’t writing articles about females being obligated to fukk them or “date” them.

Women like this want you to accept every single fault of theirs but not wanting to accept any black mans fault, basically..

Seems like a pointless article.

Brehs don't struggle to find women. Plenty of broke bois getting puzzy. Brehs that have their ducks lined up? They have access to most average/above average brehettes and a surprisingly high number of pawgs.

Brehettes just gotta choose better and earlier. Can't just wait for dude to be a finished product and THEN jump on the train if Becky is cooking him ramen noodles in the dorm room in college. Brehettes gotta realize that it's a competition. EVERY OTHER GROUP OF WOMEN understands this but our women only get competitive for the top 5% of brehs. You can't play hardball if you don't have the ball.

 

[Taadow]

BINGO!!!!

They expect us to accept any and everything just because a dude is black.

You can't "accept" anything nobody offers you.





Get used to not being offered anything.

 

[Taadow]

The article isn’t just talking about black men who can’t get a job and support himself, it’s talking about black men who are broke...

Yep.
And, it's folks out here (men and women) with jobs that are homeless.

Working full time but homeless anyway

Working Homeless Population Grows in Cities Across the U.S.

...so I'm willing to bet that the problem for these folks isn't their lack of "confidence".

It's really going down out here, and some muthafuccas are realizing that this dating and advice about it from PEOPLE WHO DON'T EVEN HAVE ANYBODY THEMSELVES (re-read the article: this chick was doing the same thing her "broke" friend was doing - talking about qualities of someone she wished she had) is something that can either wait or else can go out the back door totally.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yep.
And, it's folks out here (men and women) with jobs that are homeless.

Working full time but homeless anyway

Working Homeless Population Grows in Cities Across the U.S.

...so I'm willing to bet that the problem for these folks isn't their lack of "confidence".

It's really going down out here, and some muthafuccas are realizing that this dating and advice about it from PEOPLE WHO DON'T EVEN HAVE ANYBODY THEMSELVES (re-read the article: this chick was doing the same thing her "broke" friend was doing - talking about qualities of someone she wished she had) is something that can either wait or else can go out the back door totally.

Broke for a “woman” like this isn’t even a nikka that pays for all his shyt...

It’s for a man that can’t help her pay for all her shyt...


FOH this chick isn’t slick, I see this all the time. No man out here asking any female to help them pay their bills, give them money, squatting, etc., and if they do it’s rare. That’s what REAL broke nikkas are doing.

Men they consider “broke” just aren’t making enough for their standards.. Or Not helping these irresponsible chicks keep they lights on because the baby father hasn’t gave them child support or whatever excuse.... which they feel if they’re giving you p*ssy you’re obligated to do.

But like I said, females always trying to go above their pay grade.. basically what she’s saying if you’re not above her paygrade she’s not obligated to date you... well no shyt then don’t and stfu.

Just like men aren’t obligated to date you with 2 kids that aren’t his, debt (which is inherited in marriage), fat, etc. everyone got preferences what’s the REAL point of the article

 

[ill_will82]

It's true. Unless that woman can truly see the potential in you and is willing to build with you then you need to be on your shyt already.

Same goes for these hoes. You can have a fat ass and a pretty face but a nikka with his ducks in a row ain't looking to settle with you if you ain't bringing shyt else to the table.

This ^^^ really needs to be said b/c a lot of women think the tables can't be turned on them because their looks. Some women (especially younger ones) don't understand looks don't last forever.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

This forum is really going to shyt

Yall are becoming the bitter women you complain about

I just want the fukkery

 

[ill_will82]

This forum is really going to shyt

Yall are becoming the bitter women you complain about

I just want the fukkery

This forum is DEAD...

 

[Gyasi85]

Broke *unattractive men. I know plenty of women taking care of Bum MFs

 

[Street Knowledge]

If you’re a woman past college and you’re still dating broke men you lost

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

Dear Broke Women: I'm not obligated to date your bad credit having, no domestic skill having, high student loans having, daddy AND mommy issue having, not knowing your own body while claiming nikkas can't sexually please you, egotistical, single mother asses.

 

[MikeOck]

i love these articles like black women are all successful multimillionaires or some shyt

FACTS. In my life, most of the hottest girls were broke as a joke, looking for some simp to save them. Women have really finessed perceptions to make it look like they're running shyt, but it's still a man's world at the end of the day.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

What I don’t understand about these articles is the term “we”. So it’s ok for women as a whole to label broke men but broke women get to be part of a whole women gender and call shots on broke men?

FOH. Both broke men and broke women shouldn’t be dating anybody if that’s the case smh.