Idk about all this overdone topic but do yall actually talk to married women about how they honestly feel about their marriages? Or how most husband's and father's behave day in and day out?
Most women end up middle aged, slightly overweight, bogged down with kids that they are primarily responsible for and live with for 20 years or more (unlike a looooot of men who are able to return to lives very similar to what they had before marriage following a divorce like dating and living alone),
Usually they're the one that wanted the kid/kids in the first place...they keep em when the split happens.
...and are often cheated on or flat out neglected for golf/work/sports or any other variety of things that become waayyyyy more interesting than "the wife".
Sorry, women are at fault for this too. I can vouch for it happening in marriage because I experience it.
Women act all adventurous when you're dating...but after marriage, all they want to do is stay home and be homebodies. Men aren't like that, we want to keep living...not stop and only live for marriage. Women need to know their role and keep being their husbands PARTNER and participating in the things that HE LIKES. Because if you don't...there's damn sure a female THAT WILL!!
That is the primary reason that women get neglected, cheated on and forgotten about. Women seem to forget that what got the guy's attention is what you need to do to keep his attention...and visa-versa.
Women often feel misunderstood, ignored, and emotionally drained or starved.... (that's why everybody old head female relatives usually spend tons of time at church....but that's another topic for another day).
Can confirm. I attend a church full of those types. Old lonely females, some married, some in their 20s, but all lonely and in church without a spouse or their significant other.
Men ain't about being bored...either get with the program or get left behind.
Feminism taught us that once achieved financial equality......we needed to take a harder look at what men where actually bringing to our lives romantically.
And how is that high-standard feminism treating you all?
Bet it ain't working out as smoothly as you all thought it would huh?
I tell ya, I see more miserable single lonely females in my daily course than I see happily married or coupled females. That tells me something. All of yall shooting for the stars and ignoring the quality earth right underneath you isn't helping yall.
But please...keep on being stuck on stupid.
The only thing hung over our pretty little heads is a fear of ending up "old, bitter and alone" but that's exactly the life of many married or committed women anyway. ...so....
And that's because women cause men to grow apart from them by not being flexible!
Everyone winds up with goals and things that are different than when they first met the person they love. If they each can't be flexible and learn the things that the other likes or loves now...as opposed to then...they won't stand a chance of staying together and will LITERALLY....GROW APART!
Better question, why are men mad that women supposedly played themselves out of your male greatness?
Not sure I quite understand this question...can you please reformat and resubmit?
But I'll take a shot anyway...
By women not adhering to their traditional roles, it confuses men. It confused me, that's why I married a church girl. Mainly because she held to the traditional roles of a good upstanding woman and that's something that I understood from how my mom raised me.
When women try to be men or take on men roles, most real men don't know how to parse that data.
It slightly emasculates them and makes them even more aggressive, non-caring and non-committal.
There's a female I know like that...well, I knew her...refuse to tolerate her foolishness any longer and she's in the bushes/dead to me. But like I was saying, She has all these high unachievable standards for anyone courting her, a horrible attitude, plays impossible to get with everyone she meets, is full of attitude all the time and is so self-obsessed it's laughable. If you closed your eyes and heard a description of her, you'd think the person was talking about an aggressive alpha male...but no, it's a female...and it's sickening.
It ain't harming anyone but her. She can't keep friends, she's registered on every online dating site but still can't keep a date once the guy meets her, constantly flipping between sad/lonely & angry, she's a train wreck.
Doesn't harm us for long...we just find a female that's trying to be a FEMALE and marry her.
Even dying "bitter and alone" is a personal choice.....but it's actually less bitter and less lonely for women who understand who they were created to be, keep themselves in shape, that know God is the focus, that looking fly and making boss level decisions career wise feels awesome and there's a whole world to see..
Whatever works for them.
I know I don't wanna die alone...I'll be damned if imma be a bytch all the way to the grave and try to fool myself into thinking that I'm happy.
These fools are just dumb.
but think somebody supposed to care he prefers slim thick girls with natural hair....
ok
i might just get one of my well to do naija brehs to cop you
(yeah right)
just try to live your life the best you can.
