dealing with modern women is unbearable

[Elle Driver]

there are some amazing women out chea

esp black women


black women are the highest rising group when it comes to education




i wish i cared about marriage like that
i wish i had a heart and shyt

i coulda been married right out of high school
i was with a chick and she wanted to get married while we were in college
and i was like

i havent even lived life yet



-i was proposed to by this chick back in 2010
-i broke up with a chick when i lived in boston and she got on the suicide shyt

all of those women are successful right now




--- my parents have been married almost 50 years
but somehow marriage just never appealed to me






i love seeing other black marriages work tho

A woman proposed to you? Damn Chaucer got it like that.

 

[Elle Driver]

Lack of sex from a woman who chooses tends to cause this.

To that end...its pretty much the same for women who aren't getting any either.

This goes to @Malta too

What if you don't have the means and like being miserable?

 

[Couth]

Plenty of down females who will do everything you mentioned. if you can't find them you're not looking hard enough.


i'm done taking females serious cuz they're all flighty. Only loyal as long as you're around to manage them. You take a vacation for too long and they'll switch teams like its nothing.

 

[PikaDaDon]

Yup all black men should to Brazil

Well Brazil isn't the answer: http://www.thecoli.com/threads/brazil-isnt-such-a-haven-for-black-people.325789/

Anyway, third wave feminism has profoundly crippled the male-female dynamic. It's the very thing which accounts for all of the complaints you've made in your original post. Fortunately half the planet isn't greatly influenced by western culture. It's just a matter of stepping outside your comfort zone and learning a new language.

Look at how Mexicans dealt with feminist activists: Feminists In Mexico Are Being Warned To Be Quiet Or Be Killed | Marie Claire

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

A woman proposed to you? Damn Chaucer got it like that.

yeah this chick in New Orleans

we werent even in a relationship

she was one of the sweetest people i ever met


she taught at the LSU campus in NO

she just wanted a fam and kids so bad


she introduced me to her best friend and she was sexy as fukk


it fukked me up



she was so nice man
i left her alone
i didnt want to keep smashing and have her hopes up

 

[Elle Driver]

yeah this chick in New Orleans

we werent even in a relationship

she was one of the sweetest people i ever met


she taught at the LSU campus in NO

she just wanted a fam and kids so bad


she introduced me to her best friend and she was sexy as fukk


it fukked me up



she was so nice man
i left her alone
i didnt want to keep smashing and have her hopes up

Why are you so against kids and marriage?? You gave up the thot life what's the difference?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

THIS is what they don't understand!

To men, equality means them doing less while the woman does more.

This ain't it! If your woman works a 9-5, splits the rent, and cares for the kids...


WHY is she expected to do all the cooking and cleaning too?




Black men and their entitlement is out of control.

If i have to go out in the blazing sun cut the lawn every weekend. Go out in the freezing cold shovel the driveway, salt the steps. Etc. clean her car, lift all the heavy stuff. And pay for date night even though we both work, then yeah shes cooking and cleaning

My ex girlfriend wanted to save all her money while I paid for everything. She thought that was a man's role.

In her mind a husband should pay all the mortgage and utilities, cable internet, car notes insurance etc. And the woman should only have to pay for groceries and other household items like appliances and furniture.

Many of the black women I encounter have some variation of the same thinking

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Exactly!! No one is gunning for half of your $3,000 401k. That's the least of your concerns. These dudes just want maids that contribute financially and they can boss them around.

Yes and double yes.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

[QUOTE="Dwayne Taylor, post: 14929114, member: 26181"]If i have to go out in the blazing sun cut the lawn every weekend. Go out in the freezing cold shovel the driveway, salt the steps. Etc. clean her car, lift all the heavy stuff. And pay for date night even though we both work, then yeah shes cooking and cleaning

My ex girlfriend wanted to save all her money while I paid for everything. She thought that was a man's role.

In her mind a husband should pay all the mortgage and utilities, cable internet, car notes insurance etc. And the woman should only have to pay for groceries and other household items like appliances and furniture.

Many of the black women I encounter have some variation of the same thinking[/QUOTE]




Pay a crack head to

 

[Action Mike]

Topic is just

Doesn't mean OP doesnt have truth to it (which brehettes will never admit and deflect), but just adapt and navigate through the bullshyt. Thats it, nothing is static. Stop trying to be irrational with the irrational.
Which brehs are actually happily married here, tell us whats what.

 

[Diondon]

[QUOTE="Dwayne Taylor, post: 14929114, member: 26181"]If i have to go out in the blazing sun cut the lawn every weekend. Go out in the freezing cold shovel the driveway, salt the steps. Etc. clean her car, lift all the heavy stuff. And pay for date night even though we both work, then yeah shes cooking and cleaning

My ex girlfriend wanted to save all her money while I paid for everything. She thought that was a man's role.

In her mind a husband should pay all the mortgage and utilities, cable internet, car notes insurance etc. And the woman should only have to pay for groceries and other household items like appliances and furniture.

Many of the black women I encounter have some variation of the same thinking

Pay a crack head to[/QUOTE]

Bring a crackhead around your home, brehettes

 

[newworldafro]

IN. ​

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Why are you so against kids and marriage?? You gave up the thot life what's the difference?

even as a child i thought the ideal of marriage was just dumb

from what i saw
the husband went from being this lively guy before
to being the bearer of all the stress financially
stress about the kids
stress about keeping the wife happy

men normally die earlier due to that stress

married men normally have a lower testosterone level than single men

i see no value to it



-i do think it is a beautiful for everyone else

-im glad my father married my mom


but as for me

i cant just do it





being single is so stress free
and peaceful




dont even get me started on children

 

[Malta]

This goes to @Malta too

What if you don't have the means and like being miserable?

I've never walked in those shoes, so I can't really relate, but there's someone out there for everybody.


I will say this though, I sure as fukk wouldn't want to be single today and stuck in the US. The vast majority of women I meet leave me like yeah there are good ones out there, but the bad outweigh the good by a significant margin and if you miss on a woman in College you may be shyt out of luck. It's easy to find sex today, it's hard to find someone of substance you want to be around for more than a nut.

 

[iBrowse]

This goes to @Malta too

What if you don't have the means and like being miserable?

Lol yall keep conflating going to Brazil as codespeak for "I'm not getting any play in America" @Malta been said that if you have issues in the US..you're going to have them even worse in Brazil.

Then just stay miserable?