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one of the most profound posts ive ever read on this site

I am type 3a

never was lucky in love
never got girls in hs, rare in colelge as well
i thoguht i was ugly, turns out i just wanst aggessive enough, once i learned out to take risks and put myself out there, i started experiencing female succes. but i think its too late for me tbh.

im wired to be alone, and the only thing i care about is getting my money right and traveling the world. i dont ever wake up (today im 26, 27 in a few months) and think to myself "i need a woman in this bed next to me every morning"

I never really experienced it in my formative years, so why would I need it now?

this is somthing i dont understand about arranged marriages in other parts of the world, men and women basically going 0 to 100 real quick. from never having a bf/ gf, to getting engaged and married in a few months.




you really nailed with w/ this part
Funny thing is those relationships last longer.
 

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so good women can't have nice bodies??:patrice:

Why are only bland looking women potential wife material? :comeon:
Why are tiities and booties a thot thing?
Are you saying women don't bother being decent if their attractive??
Are you saying below average and average looking women are good because they learn they aren't good enough to thot??:whoo:

That's a fake good girl, which seems to be most good girls

No one is saying that... what at least I am saying the search for the baddest/hottest chick will leave many men lonely and full of regret when the times come for them to settle down. That sense of always getting better and never being satisfied have many men (case in point with the many threads that posters create) having regrets on the "good women" they have passed up because they had one foot in and one foot out. But hey it happens to the best of us....
 

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First off, women shouldn't be allowed to contribute in these types of threads because the only thing they bring to the table is confusion and destruction which is why this thread went way side...Alot of you young guys are going to suffer this generation when it comes to marriage like no other generation before us...Women are for the most part, ruined...Their mentalities are that of absolute foolishness. The government knew who to target when they wanted to destroy the black community just like in the garden, satan tempted eve, not adam..and that was for a reason..

If your woman is not committed to keeping the home and raising the children, forget about marriage...it won't work, trust me. The saddest part of all of this is it's the women, especially black women who suffer the most from their own foolishness...

If your man impregnates a chick and brings her in under your matrimonial roof...it doesnt matter that he is your husband he has disrespected you in more ways than one. Some man are not worth having for the sake of having them if they dont honour you as a woman.

A lot of bw suffer for many reasons and its not limited to not playing the role of dutiful wife. I see ww/aw have expectations of their men that a bw would not dare expect for fear of being told that they expect too much.

Truth be told you cant compare bw siuations to non black women anymore than bw can compare the situations of bm with non black men.
 
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Funny thing is those relationships last longer.
Because the people involved understand marriage is a business arrangement first, matter of practicality in having a family second, and the romance aspect is not a huge priority.

People in arrange marriages have a logical view and don't have unrealistic fairytale standards
 

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Stay chasing money and the women will always be there :patrice:



Keep chasing women and watch that money dry up :sas2:

In female words: Take of your priorities/responsisbilities as a man, cultivate yourself as person and the right woman will come along with whom you can build a solid foundation.


I agree:smugfavre:
 

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No one is saying that... what at least I am saying the search for the baddest/hottest chick will leave many men lonely and full of regret when the times come for them to settle down. That sense of always getting better and never being satisfied have many men (case in point with the many threads that posters create) having regrets on the "good women" they have passed up because they had one foot in and one foot out. But hey it happens to the best of us....
This is one of them things that both sides have problems with. Hell the post you quoted could be easily turned around and flipped to say similar things about the men because its the same no accountability stuff going on in both cases.
 

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Because the people involved understand marriage is a business arrangement first, matter of practicality in having a family second, and the romance aspect is not a huge priority.

People in arrange marriages have a logical view and don't have unrealistic fairytale standards

I disagree...people are not robots, love eventually can and does blossom. It is just the western definition of love is very flighty.

Second; people in these arrangements on average do their part in the relationship. A man does not sneer at his woman for being the breadwinner, he expects that.

Likewise, woman do not sneer at their husbands for taking care of home, she expects that. That being said, in the modern age even these unions have to adapt because woman's ability to work and financially assist the household has become essential with the increasing cost of living.

Men and women have to adapt.
 

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This is one of them things that both sides have problems with. Hell the post you quoted could be easily turned around and flipped to say similar things about the men because its the same no accountability stuff going on in both cases.
I agree.
 

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Almost all these "feminists" give it up by 35. Feminism can't keep your hairy legs warm at night :mjcry: :umad:

Feminism in principle is not the enemy of relationships. Many feminist that still hold a lot of old fashioned values.

The movement for womans rights was and is essential for women. I sure do not want to go back to my parents or grandparents time.
 

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Bruh, don't give up. You are correct many women are just attention whores but there are still some good ones out there. Maybe not be a lot but they are still out there. You are just going to have to put in the work to find them and be up to par yourself so you actually have something to offer a quality woman.

THIS, Does he even talk about what he brings that makes him a viable candidate for relationship?
 

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If your man impregnates a chick and brings her in under your matrimonial roof...it doesnt matter that he is your husband he has disrespected you in more ways than one. Some man are not worth having for the sake of having them if they dont honour as a woman.

dont quote me anymore, put me on ignore......
 
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