dealing with modern women is unbearable

[Dwayne_Taylor]

It's refreshing to see a man post some of the manly responsibilities in a traditional relationship.

No shade inferred here. I'm a traditional wife.

Thanks. Now imagine dating woman who is also a home owner and having to mow two lawns lol.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

I do all of this. Probably more that might sicken some of yall.
But my husband also does every single traditional husband function in the house.

In a traditional marriage each party may feel as though they are giving something up or
at the risk of being taken advantage of. The man may feel "why do I have all of this or the lions share
of the financial responsibility? This doesn't seem fair
the woman may feel "wwhy do I have all of the responsibility for the house and kids?" This doesn't seem fair

to submit yourself to your partner in this way requires not only love but TRUST
if you don't truly trust your partner to have your best and your family's best interest at heart
then you will never be able to put your all in.

These threads worry me because it seems like each sex is so un trusting and suspicious of the other sex
that ofcourse you can't find happiness.

my parents damm near have a 50/50 relationship

my father cooks just as much as my mom
my father mows the lawn
but my mom rakes
when we had a garden they both worked in it

my pops makes more money but my mom has always worked

both handled the discipline of me and my sister

 

[wickedsm]

Thanks. Now imagine dating woman who is also a home owner and having to mow two lawns lol.

Lol. I would not want to be a man. I would much rather cook dinner at 2 houses tha n mow 2 lawns.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

Yes and double yes.

Why do females get pregnant by broke dudes then ask/get child support, when they dont want that little chump change?

I know someone (a female ironically) going through a divorce and they are both either middle class or below. Her lawyer told her it dont matter what she got he can get half of everything(retirement, pension, any savings etc.)

If they both broke you full of shyt if you think shes nit tonna ask for something.

I know.

OP didnt even mention race (because it applies to all races really), but a brehette brought it up

The only women taking what he said personally are those where it hits home...for others they'd and move forward with their man they acquired being a decent woman and human being.

When the subject of black men, being jobless, in jail, baby moms all over the place, no assets, fatherless etc etc. The first in my mind aint defending them its even pity and to an extent helping them, advice etc.

But flip it the other way round and its...

But But But men do it too...Some childish shyt.

Everyone look at your faults in the mirror honestly and fix them.

This. And theres not gonna be a female thats sympathetic to the male point of view but watch dudes come out the wood work to defend trifling heffas.

 

[LadySimone]

and where would that be?.......please don't say "a church" because that is where some of the sluttiest girls come from because they've been sheltered. As soon as they get an inch of freedom (college/moving out of the house with bf/fiance) they suddenly become hypersexual animals.

and I sure as hell know its not "overseas" because that is a bigger gamble than dating a "church girl". If you get some foreign chick they most likely want to get married to get US citizenship, then leave you "high and dry" as she brings over all of her kin from the shyt-hole she came from........ If they're truly are loyal, then once they come to the states they'll be influenced by her new American "girlfriends" and our media to be a slut and abandon the roles of a traditional wife......and i'm speaking from experience when it involves "importing" a wife. My dad told me of his friend that married a Vietnamese chick after the Vietnam war and she took him to the bank only a few months of living in the US.

Then, there's my cousin (who was in the Navy) that married a south African (white) girl that was as timid and quiet as a mouse that was quickly corrupted by her new found American girlfriends. Now she's ballooned out to balaenoptra status and has a "i'm a strong independent woman that don't need no man" mentality about life. They're still together, but she basically runs the household. I rarely go over his house because she frowns upon him having his friends over because she thinks they're looking at her "seductively" and that includes me, but she gets to bring over all of her slutty friends so they can watch their shytty reality singing shows and movies like Magic Mike. Occasionally he'll joke about sleeping on the couch or in the dog-house if he stays out too late, but I think he really has slept in those places on several occasions based on how bytchy she has become.

You sound like you been through some things. You don't need a woman right now.

 

[Prodigital]

The problem is you nighas dont know how to accept a girl who isnt competing with instagram thots on the physical tip. Yall have no idea what the normal or average female looks like.

Think of it this way, an suv will get you the most use, but you cant get an suv ferrari, but nighas will get a ferrari anyways and complain they cant take it off road.

Theres good girls out here straight lonesome cause of the ridiculous standards these thots are putting up. Im not saying ppl shid settle but to recognize what a good thing is in the first place.

 

[Action Mike]

Living a fulfilling life isn't depended on sharing it with someone else. My uncle is in his 50s, never got married or had kids and his life was/is still worth living. He travels around the globe doing what he loves, which is being a musician.

People being loners isn't some new shyt there have always been people who have spurned either society or relationships with others. Stop thinking everyone has to live life according to your views, most married people are unhappy as fukk, sharing a miserable existence with someone they can't stand anymore.

In other words, its all good being Batman but having Robin makes fighting crime better...

Of course you have the unhappy, but i've also seen happy families and what they have for me is enough to convenience me

Yes, this proud loner shyt is new mayn

 

[Easy-E]

Idk about all this overdone topic but do yall actually talk to married women about how they honestly feel about their marriages? Or how most husband's and father's behave day in and day out?

Most women end up middle aged, slightly overweight, bogged down with kids that they are primarily responsible for and live with for 20 years or more (unlike a looooot of men who are able to return to lives very similar to what they had before marriage following a divorce like dating and living alone), and are often cheated on or flat out neglected for golf/work/sports or any other variety of things that become waayyyyy more interesting than "the wife". Women often feel misunderstood, ignored, and emotionally drained or starved.... (that's why everybody old head female relatives usually spend tons of time at church....but that's another topic for another day).

Feminism taught us that once achieved financial equality......we needed to take a harder look at what men where actually bringing to our lives romantically.

The only thing hung over our pretty little heads is a fear of ending up "old, bitter and alone" but that's exactly the life of many married or committed women anyway. ...so....

Better question, why are men mad that women supposedly played themselves out of your male greatness? How does this harm you?

Even dying "bitter and alone" is a personal choice.....but it's actually less bitter and less lonely for women who understand who they were created to be, keep themselves in shape, that know God is the focus, that looking fly and making boss level decisions career wise feels awesome and there's a whole world to see..

I appreciate this response from a brehette.

We do look at marriage like we're the only ones who suffer.

 

[Strawberry]

@DrX I feel sorry for you. You definitely need to switch up the girls you are meeting/fukking with. Sounds like you're only meeting IG thots

Anyway there are good women out here, you're just not meeting them. Go to new places, meet new girls. Maybe avoid dating Americans for a while, I dunno.


And I've never raised a baby yet but I can cook, clean, give fantastic blow jobs, carry a conversation, and generally keep things fun & exciting

 

[DrX]

@DrX I feel sorry for you. You definitely need to switch up the girls you are meeting/fukking with. Sounds like you're only meeting IG thots

Anyway there are good women out here, you're just not meeting them. Go to new places, meet new girls. Maybe avoid dating Americans for a while, I dunno.


And I've never raised a baby yet but I can cook, clean, give fantastic blow jobs, carry a conversation, and generally keep things fun & exciting

where are these great women at ? where do i look?

 

[Strawberry]

where are these great women at ? where do i look?

I dunno man, we out here floatin around, you just gotta catch us.

 

[BlackSuperman]

Why are you making this into a race thing? Nobody said nothing about black women so

Amen

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

gross kids are ok from 2 to about 5 then from 6-11 they get ugly after that they cause all the stress in life have sex the wanna kiss you on the cheek with other people juices on their mouf when they leave the house eat up your food spend your money make your life boring and just be overall a$$holes

Wow this sounds like something I would say.

 

[DrX]

I dunno man, we out here floatin around, you just gotta catch us.

exactly, u cant even answer the question
'

maybe im right?

i know good women exist....its just a small %

 

[QueenSheba]

Get Money bytch!