If i have to go out in the blazing sun cut the lawn every weekend. Go out in the freezing cold shovel the driveway, salt the steps. Etc. clean her car, lift all the heavy stuff. And pay for date night even though we both work, then yeah shes cooking and cleaning
My ex girlfriend wanted to save all her money while I paid for everything. She thought that was a man's role.
In her mind a husband should pay all the mortgage and utilities, cable internet, car notes insurance etc. And the woman should only have to pay for groceries and other household items like appliances and furniture.
Many of the black women I encounter have some variation of the same thinking