Dealing with a Clingy Older Cougar......

[DPresidential]

She's a milf fam looks far badder than most 20 something yr olds I been with. But to dude above my honesty with these hoes is earned not given. The main reason why she sweatin me so hard is I played the never available too busy for her role had her calling and texting me more than I do her cause she so used to being chased since she redbone long natty hair & phat ass.

Bruh... I'm 28 and I wish I learned this when I was 21...

Be brutally honest.

Women have the same desire as men do.

Just think about a woman who you were feening to pipe... She gives you the most condescending brutally honest statement that still breaks down to "I want the dikk"...

It wouldn't stop you right?

You already have her... now is the time to break it down on some grown man shyt...

Let her know you enjoy the p*ssy, but all of the hanging out afterwards needs to be cut down. Tell her you understand that it may be a problem for her so you understand that she may not want to continue the casual thing anymore.

If it is by phone you'll get a " *Pause...oh I see. Okay, well yea that might change things. Have a good day" She won't contact you for a little while, depending on how hurt her pride is... but she will come right back if the pipe game is right.

If it is by text you'll get an "hmmm...." next text "Yea, I think i'll let this one absorb a little" next text "Yea... it's been fun. I understand."

Then give it some time... She hit you with the "let's start up again" but it'll be on the new terms.

 

[spliz]

Sounds to me like u afraid of the possibility of her sayin she wants to stop fukkin wit u all around..so u tryna make up excuses so u can keep her around but on ur terms...bottom line..ur afraid to lose her...

 

[Isaiah Bradley]

Nikkas in here listening to too much Steve Harvey b
Let this nikka eat b, save all that "man suppose to do" shyt for a woman he planning on marrying

Don't be an azzhole and say, "bytch get out." Even though you not trying to marry, don't fawk up the good vibe between yall and fawk with her emotions

All you have to do is be consistent with what you want

My tactics for a clingy bytch is to not be available all the time
She calls > straight to voice mail, don't call later that day
She want to see you > nah, I got some running around to do [don't be specific]
after a fawk [at her crib] > don't sleep over
after a fawk [your crib] > I always use the "My nikkas come over, so no women allowed" in a half joking manner

 

[Poitier]

Nikkaz in here really hating on cougars

More for me

 

[Deaf2twothirds]

Nikkas in here listening to too much Steve Harvey b
Let this nikka eat b, save all that "man suppose to do" shyt for a woman he planning on marrying

Don't be an azzhole and say, "bytch get out." Even though you not trying to marry, don't fawk up the good vibe between yall and fawk with her emotions

All you have to do is be consistent with what you want

My tactics for a clingy bytch is to not be available all the time
She calls > straight to voice mail, don't call later that day
She want to see you > nah, I got some running around to do [don't be specific]
after a fawk [at her crib] > don't sleep over
after a fawk [your crib] > I always use the "My nikkas come over, so no women allowed" in a half joking manner

nikkaz mad im fukkin a hoe their momma age. I aint taking them seriously cause at the end of the day I got the p*ssy to my disposal for the moment. In conclusion these sensitive cater to a woman nikkas must try to save/wife every hoe they meet!

 

[Rawtid]

My nig aint nobody controlling shyt just using her for da gush and other slight benefits without da the strings until something else comes along. She already has an idea I just want to fukk cause she told me most dudes be want her to spend the night and I tell her I got shyt to do & leave. I came here for excuses not relationship advice.

You do realize you're putting time into finding an excuse i.e collecting opinions from the internet than if you were just honest. Time is something you can't get back and you're wasting yours by lying, but do you "playa".

 

[iMajor]

Sounds like the op either wanted to show off to the coli or is lying.

First off there is no reason to lie.

Breaking it off with an older chick is the same way you do with younger girls.

All girls are clingy b. You find me a girl that's not clingy and you most likely aren't in a relationship with her

You also playing yourself if you don't think she knows all you're around for is the p*ssy. She knows how old she is and women are insecure by nature so to her 46 really is probably 50 and she knows she's way past her prime. Plus her actions tell her everything she needs to know and it's pretty obvious you don't provide her with anything. She's not only in control she's using your ass as a boy toy.

She been in the game longer than you you should learn from her you need that as we can all see. You're the flavor of the week.

She ain't worried about breaking bread cause she knows what's it about she 1 up on you. And you are failing to realize that jack.

 

[RAX 010]

Just keep it 100