deal breakers with single parents..

[mamba]

I'm saying that I don't judge people or deem them as less desirable if they have had a divorce or have a child. I know people who married their "top option" in their early 20s and now that they're 30, they are divorced. We all aim to "get it right" the first time, but if we're talking about "real life" and not "Disney stuff" then that is the reality: it's not uncommon for people who marry at a young age to grow apart once they reach their 30s.

I'd argue that those people were on some Disney stuff, married for superficial reasons, were not good judges of character and the result is what should be expected.

Marriage based on "love" is a dumb reason to marry in the first place. It's a relatively new phenomenon in human history.

If "love" or the "lifetime of tingles" is what you mean by "get it right", those marriages were doomed to fail from the jump. Marriage is a process, not a feeling.

 

[Malik]

nikka wut a 22 23 24 yr old gon do for me?? Ibgot a good job..own my crib fuc dat! Lmaoo si.omma work hard to let a young bytch eat off the fruit of my labor?

You 27 right? Dating a 24 year old is too young for you? Jeez.

 

[Desirous]

Ill pass n she canadian...based on my trips there, canadian chicks are either whores or fronters no in between.

okay...indirect diss towards me there.

 

[MikelArteta]

There's a big difference from 23 to 30...if you look back at how you were 7 years ago, you probably have matured a lot during that span...and your views on different subject matters have changed...people don't always grow in the same direction. That's not to say that you don't continue to mature and grow after 30, because you do, but I don't think it's as drastic as in your early 20s when you're really starting to come into your own.

it's true, im 28 and at 23 i was breaking up with my ex fiance, i was a totally differnet person than i am now. Now im 28 i'm wise in relationships and pretty much anchored in my thoughts on stuff, while when i was 22/23 i was still learning.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

The thing with dating a single mom is you cant make her your top option
cause you def not her's

so you know her child comes before you

so i put the gym, gta 5 and etc. before her ass



but right now im not dealing with any single moms on my roster me and the last one fell out in August

 

[MikelArteta]

You 27 right? Dating a 24 year old is too young for you? Jeez.

im 28, lowest ill go now is 24


nothing wrong with young girls, but they into bars, clubbing, partying, riding the cock carousel etc.

 

[Desirous]

I'd argue that those people were on some Disney stuff, married for superficial reasons, were not good judges of character and the result is what should be expected.

Marriage based on "love" is a dumb reason to marry in the first place. It's a relatively new phenomenon in human history.

If "love" or the "lifetime of tingles" is what you mean by "get it right", those marriages were doomed to fail from the jump. Marriage is a process, not a feeling.

Marriage is a lot of work. I didn't mean "lifetime of tingles" - I explained that people grow in different directions, especially from early 20s to 30.

 

[MikelArteta]

The thing with dating a single mom is you cant make her you top option
cause you def not her's

so you know her child come before her

so i put the gym, gta 5 and etc. before her ass



but right now im not dealing with any single moms on my roster me and the last one fell out in August

even baby dad comes before you
if you at her spot and baby dad texts im coming over your ass will be kicked out

 

[Desirous]

it's true, im 28 and at 23 i was breaking up with my ex fiance, i was a totally differnet person than i am now. Now im 28 i'm wise in relationships and pretty much anchored in my thoughts on stuff, while when i was 22/23 i was still learning.

Imagine if you did marry her back then...you'd be going through that divorce now, most likely. And, if you marry someone 23/24 now...she'll be going through that learning curve that you already went through....not saying it COULDN'T work, but just something to think about.

 

[Malik]

im 28, lowest ill go now is 24


nothing wrong with young girls, but they into bars, clubbing, partying, riding the cock carousel etc.

Cool. That's all I'm saying. If you complaining that the girls in their late 20s have kids, then date girls a bit younger. Its alot of 24 yo girls that don't have kids.

 

[mamba]

Marriage is a lot of work. I didn't mean "lifetime of tingles" - I explained that people grow in different directions, especially from early 20s to 30.

Yes. There's no reason for a person to marry before 25. The brain is not even fully developed before 25.

Marriage should happen around 28-30 for most women and 32-35 for most men.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

even baby dad comes before you
if you at her spot and baby dad texts im coming over your ass will be kicked out

some of them are smart and will front like they hate the babyfather

but if that nikka paying support she know she cant act up

so she will go see that nikka on the low
and all the while, bad mouthing him to you to make it seem like she would never see that nikka and it's all business

 

[supanegro]

okay...indirect diss towards me there.

Diss?? Noooo no... ill never diss coli fem, real coli females are rare, I repect u...but I aint backpeddli.g though, 2 trips there n 1 visitors from there it was the same story, maybe we can meet up n u can change my opinion.

 

[MikelArteta]

Cool. That's all I'm saying. If you complaining that the girls in their late 20s have kids, then date girls a bit younger. Its alot of 24 yo girls that don't have kids.

honestly maybe its just me but i rarely see women with children unless im in a ghetto area or on social media

 

[Desirous]

Yes. There's no reason for a person to marry before 25. The brain is not even fully developed before 25.

Marriage should happen around 30 for most women and 35 for most men.

I prefer older men...I don't exclusively date older, but I'm more old fashioned than not, so I find that older guys appreciate that more. Around 30 is good...I'm ready for marriage, but it just has to be with the right person...someone who will work just as hard for our relationship etc.