deal breakers with single parents..

[mamba]

It's always been crazy to me. I think a lot of women are obsessed with the idea of having a label...and having a boyfriend. I'd rather not have a title or be single, than be with someone who isn't a good fit. I don't want a "relationship" or "marriage" but rather I just want to find the right person for me and then the rest will naturally lead to the next steps.

Yeah. A lot of men prey on that, too. We'll dangle the "idea" of a relationship out there like a carrot. A lot of women will grab at that carrot from one man for months...years, in some cases!

 

[Desirous]

Yeah. A lot of men prey on that, too. We'll dangle the "idea" of a relationship out there like a carrot. A lot of women will grab at that carrot from one man for months...years, in some cases!

Are you a Kobe fan??

 

[MikelArteta]

haha me too omg pet peeve.

My own father has jokingly asked if I'm a lesbian or something, cause I don't talk about guys I'm dating with my parents...I always tell them that if/when something is for real for real serious, they will know. I've just become private about my life...even on Coli, I don't over-share too much information...I don't like when people who really don't give a fukk about you are all up in your business/know too much about you...that will always be used against you at some point...so I'm not sure why people set themselves up on fb with the constant relationship status changes...not everyone needs to know you've been through 4-5 women/men this year lol

yeah when my parents are back here my mom always asks how come i dont see you bring women around, when are you getting married etc.

I've learned my lesson from previous relationships, when I brought girls home only for my mom and dad to fall in love in them or ask about them etc., only if im 110% certain that she'll be my wife will i introduce a female to them.

like my mom still communicates with the last girl from my last real relationship even though its been like 3 years ago.

People do those updates for attention, and as well to rub it in their ex faces. Majority of exes will stalk their ex bf or gf on social media so why not try and crus their spirit.

I wouldn't even add a girl im dating to fb or any social media stuff I may have

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah. A lot of men prey on that, too. We'll dangle the "idea" of a relationship out there like a carrot. A lot of women will grab at that carrot from one man for months...years, in some cases!

commitment is the male vagina

in my previous days, ive done that.

"i'm still not ready for arelationship, but i promise you when i'm finally ready you will be the only girl i'll date"

 

[mamba]

I'm stealing this and altering it to make it my new BBM status. That is the truth. (And no, you don't get copyright credit lol!)

Haha. Have at it!

This is good conversation. See...men and women can chop it up without a bunch of name calling and foolishness.

 

[Desirous]

yeah when my parents are back here my mom always asks how come i dont see you bring women around, when are you getting married etc.

I've learned my lesson from previous relationships, when I brought girls home only for my mom and dad to fall in love in them or ask about them etc., only if im 110% certain that she'll be my wife will i introduce a female to them.

like my mom still communicates with the last girl from my last real relationship even though its been like 3 years ago.

People do those updates for attention, and as well to rub it in their ex faces. Majority of exes will stalk their ex bf or gf on social media so why not try and crus their spirit.

I wouldn't even add a girl im dating to fb or any social media stuff I may have

Exactly. I introduced one person to them years ago...and I wasn't even in a relationship with him, we were just talking...and they really liked him, so it was constantly "whatever happened to Chris?" - so annoying! I don't think a guy deserves to meet the most important people in my life unless I know he's gonna be "the one" *shrug* I would add my SO to social media though...I don't have anything to hide from him, but I wouldn't necessarily broadcast to everyone that he's my SO.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yeah. Never measure a person when everything is going well.

A person's true character shows up when the sh*t hits the fan. When there's struggle and tough decisions have to be made.

you will always have an array of people when your shining, life is going great.

when your in the gutter who will be there

 

[Desirous]

Haha. Have at it!

This is good conversation. See...men and women can chop it up without a bunch of name calling and foolishness.

Of course they can!

 

[mamba]

haha me too omg pet peeve.

My own father has jokingly asked if I'm a lesbian or something, cause I don't talk about guys I'm dating with my parents...I always tell them that if/when something is for real for real serious, they will know. I've just become private about my life...even on Coli, I don't over-share too much information...I don't like when people who really don't give a fukk about you are all up in your business/know too much about you...that will always be used against you at some point...so I'm not sure why people set themselves up on fb with the constant relationship status changes...not everyone needs to know you've been through 4-5 women/men this year lol

I'm the same way. My parents don't know anything about my life! They have no clue about how much money I make, the women I date, the specifics of what I do for a living, etc. I'm a bit of an enigma to my family. I like it that way.

Tossed Facebook in the bushes almost two years ago.

 

[Desirous]

I'm the same way. My parents don't know anything about my life! They have no clue about how much money I make, the women I date, the specifics of what I do for a living, etc. I'm a bit of an enigma to my family. I like it that way.

Tossed Facebook in the bushes almost two years ago.

I'm open about other aspects of my life, but not when it comes to my dating life...that's private...I don't even tell my girlfriends everything...just certain things here/there.

 

[King Poetic]

single moms usually cut me off after i make the comment of " i'm not looking for a long term/serious relationship "

 

[MikelArteta]

Exactly. I introduced one person to them years ago...and I wasn't even in a relationship with him, we were just talking...and they really liked him, so it was constantly "whatever happened to Chris?" - so annoying! I don't think a guy deserves to meet the most important people in my life unless I know he's gonna be "the one" *shrug* I would add my SO to social media though...I don't have anything to hide from him, but I wouldn't necessarily broadcast to everyone that he's my SO.

i have nothing to hide, just that if i break up with them, they are going to get removed.

The whole adding a bunch of pictures, changing statuses, writing lovey dovey messages for everyone to see is yawn.

id rather keep most relationships like how women keep their early pregnancies after a bunch of miscarriage, don't get excited, don't tell alot of people don't broadcast it to the world, then after awhile when you are sure of it no complications you can tell a few more people

 

[Desirous]

i have nothing to hide, just that if i break up with them, they are going to get removed.

The whole adding a bunch of pictures, changing statuses, writing lovey dovey messages for everyone to see is yawn.

id rather keep most relationships like how women keep their early pregnancies after a bunch of miscarriage, don't get excited, don't tell alot of people don't broadcast it to the world, then after awhile when you are sure of it no complications you can tell a few more people

Oh, for sure...you don't need to add all the pics etc right away...agreed...but no harm in adding them as a friend. I've done that, but I don't post pics of us together and so forth.

 

[mamba]

i have nothing to hide, just that if i break up with them, they are going to get removed.

The whole adding a bunch of pictures, changing statuses, writing lovey dovey messages for everyone to see is yawn.

id rather keep most relationships like how women keep their early pregnancies after a bunch of miscarriage, don't get excited, don't tell alot of people don't broadcast it to the world, then after awhile when you are sure of it no complications you can tell a few more people

 

[mamba]

you will always have an array of people when your shining, life is going great.

when your in the gutter who will be there

Tony Romo is a Pro Bowl QB when he's not in crunch time.