Dating single moms and the unavoidable requirement to save them...

[Marco Zen]

Right. Dudes like OP are willingly putting themselves in position to be somebody’s step daddy. And then they be complaining about the things that come with it

Man... When she bad AF, fine and pretty, fat ass.. Suck your fukk you when you want, cooking dinners, do your laundry, submit to your stupid demands and all she ask is that you be her man and pretend to be daddy to that bad ass child for a lil while .... I mean

 

[Standing on business]

Maybe y'all should stop dating women that make significantly less than you

The issue in the OP is the women being broke, he’ said he’s experienced it several times so apparently he’s dating low income women.

 

[Neuromancer]

Because as you elevate in age your female peers will have kids. Date is an umbrella term but if you're bending a woman over strictly after a week of texting in 2021 count your blessings (in that area of life).

Again, I'm usually dating or seeing women ages 27 to 30. It is what it is. And I don't like cleaning up messes.

 

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[Neuromancer]

Right. Dudes like OP are willingly putting themselves in position to be somebody’s step daddy. And then they be complaining about the things that come with it

If he likes it more power to him. But to say it's inevitable is a lie. I don't like cleaning up messes I didn't make. My father wouldn't allow me to date a single mother, my brothers nor my sister would allow me to. I'm also fairly picky so a glaring thing like a child turns me off.

 

[ZEupTWN]

I don't understand why cats can't find non mothers? I've never had to date a single mother. Sure I've smashed a few but they know what it is.

Facts but it really does depend where you live…On top of that from what I see/hear very few people are actually willing to step outside there comfort zone or social circle….which is understandable the unknown of it all can be very intimidating….but if the situations your coming across are not working out you either take initiative or be happy with what you got…

 

[Shadow King]

Again, I'm usually dating or seeing women ages 27 to 30. It is what it is. And I don't like cleaning up messes.

For every 30 year old woman with no kids there's probably 2 that have them.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

majority of the single men at 35+ will probably resort to dating single moms

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

I'm 35. I also live in New York City and tend to deal with women in their late 20's. Even my ex who was 33 didn't have kids. Just depends on what circles you travel in.

Also why you sound so salty?

what's salty about my post? my assessment of TLR is what it is...TLR has always been funny to me cuz in one thread posters will let out the truth (social anxiety, poor career prospects, balding, sexless, mid 20's and older having never had a LTR in their life, etc), then flex in others. dudes in here who struggle with their social and love lives then turn around and think because high income earning men pull bad youngins, they'll be doing the same...

there are some highly educated circles where child bearing is much later (30's onward), but that's not most of america. so yes, a lot of people who are single/divorced/widowed and dating past their mid 30's are going to run into more people with kids than not

 

[HARLEM AL]

how old are you? at some point the dating pool starts having people with kids - whether divorced or never married. i know this is TLR where social anxiety having, dead end career, short men who can't pull women at 25 think they'll be pulling thin, childless 27 yrs olds when they're 40 and balding with the same shytty career and never had a real adult relationship in their life, but for most men, still dating after 35, you're going to meet women with kids. all of them aint broke headcases that need saving like OP is talking about.

False

If you out dating women with kids and you don’t have any you are a got damn fool. Now with that said it’s your choice.

 

[Neuromancer]

For every 30 year old woman with no kids there's probably 2 that have them.

And I avoid those two and look for the one. Not really hard. Maybe I just have other things going on that don't allow me to jump at any woman. Not saying Op doesn't If I don't like something I can pass on it until someone I like comes along.

 

[Originalman]

So you saying that they perfect for.

Real talk though its one reason some older kats mess with single moms and younger women. There is always a time they gonna be hard up for cash.

Even a homie of mines messes with nothing but strippers and weed head girls (many of which don't have kids). Cause he knows eventually they gonna be in a bind for money and will need to do something strange for some change.

 

[Neuromancer]

what's salty about my post? my assessment of TLR is what it is...TLR has always been funny to me cuz in one thread posters will let out the truth (social anxiety, poor career prospects, balding, sexless, mid 20's and older having never had a LTR in their life, etc), then flex in others. dudes in here who struggle with their social and love lives then turn around and think because high income earning men pull bad youngins, they'll be doing the same...

there are some highly educated circles where child bearing is much later (30's onward), but that's not most of america

Idk. I can name a number of men who not only don't struggle with women but are doing pretty well on here. I've met some of them.

With that said. I'm a published author, I'm an editor and I do MMA. I also play guitar. I travel in circles where a lot of folks don't seem to have time for kids.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Then why date single moms if you know what they require?

They are all looking for a step dad for their kids, if you can't be or are not willing to do that, you are wasting everyone's time breh.

 

[360dagod]

The issue in the OP is the women being broke, he’ said he’s experienced it several times so apparently he’s dating low income women.

Low income and broke are not mutually exclusive...

Most women have fukked up spending habits