Dating outside your race: Prepare for the ENVY and HATE.

LezJepzin

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Didn't read. lol. thread title said all i need to know :ld:

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Very diverse so you get just general race clique-ishness.

Lots of high paying jobs so many are status oriented or materialistic.

Govt. And military connected deeply so most can be structured and dull.

I've heard from people who recently moved to DMV that they've never been asked "what do you do?" so often
Takes notes since I'm moving out there :intradesting:
 

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You nikkas imagine the hate because deep down you feel like shyt for even being with a woman who isn't black. Nobody give a fukk about y'all like that

You ever been out with a woman who's not black but a dime piece reguardless....:usure: the hate is real no imagining shyt...
 

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You nikkas imagine the hate because deep down you feel like shyt for even being with a woman who isn't black. Nobody give a fukk about y'all like that

I'm with an Asian and have mostly dated non-black women. My black female family and friends give me no issue....I never bash black women and make excuses why I don't always date black women. Always these insecure ugly nikkas who date out and are not used to attention from other people that seek to play the victim or that they are special. :mjlol:
 

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Wait a sec, aren't you @Stuntone in your mid to late 30s? Correct me if I'm wrong. So, that means you were in your mid 20s, at community college, scoping out 18 year olds? And you proud of being able to pull some 18 year old who just turned legal a few weeks/months before you met her? Some chick who probably didn't even know how to pay bills yet?

It's funny that you seem to make threads about bad dating experiences with grown black women yet have such a great young Asian chick who, by your account, seems to be a great catch. Yet you don't wife her....after 10 years. Nor does that stop you from trying to get at black chicks. Only to face constant disappointment.

Have you ever thought that maybe, just maybe, your own thoughts about black women vs non-black women may be trolling the sh#t outta you? :jbhmm:

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When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. :yes: Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru. :birdman:


DMV...:blessed:
 

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I highly doubt it's hate or envy, at least on the part of black people.

Now what the hell white people or Asian people are thinking I have no idea. You would have to ask them.

My first thought is that likely she's very attractive and you're well, not.
That would get ya stares for sure.
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