Dating outside your race: Prepare for the ENVY and HATE.

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So can I tell y'all about this lovely white man I just met or nah?

He's such a manly man. Treats me like a goddess. I feel so safe with him. I think I'm a changed woman.

Should I keep in touch or nah?

Should a Black goddess surrender to a handsome white man who's a real man?

Should a Black goddess allow this white man to show me the goodness of the white man and his ways?
 

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I used to live in the DMV...no one there gives a damn about interracial dating lol. Sometimes I swear people WANT to feel that others are hating on them when no one even cares. Before i lived in DC I never dated anyone but black men, when I moved there I had an ex that was Korean /white and another that was black/Filipino, also went on dates with several white men, never an issue. Definitely one of the best cities for interracial dating in my opinion....also one of the most diverse metropolitan areas in the country :blessed:
 

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When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. :yes: Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru. :birdman:
bcuz I’m pro-black"

oh rly, what are u building bro?
 

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So can I tell y'all about this lovely white man I just met or nah?

He's such a manly man. Treats me like a goddess. I feel so safe with him. I think I'm a changed woman.

Should I keep in touch or nah?

Should a Black goddess surrender to a handsome white man who's a real man?

Should a Black goddess allow this white man to show me the goodness of the white man and his ways?
:manny: Do you.
Lol ya'll must be imagining these stares because no one in real life gives a fukk.

Act like you know everyone in the planet brehs. Trust, people do stare and make their comments. I've experienced it, and have witnessed it externally
 

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I used to live in the DMV...no one there gives a damn about interracial dating lol. Sometimes I swear people WANT to feel that others are hating on them when no one even cares. Before i lived in DC I never dated anyone but black men, when I moved there I had an ex that was Korean /white and another that was black/Filipino, also went on dates with several white men, never an issue. Definitely one of the best cities for interracial dating in my opinion....also one of the most diverse metropolitan areas in the country :blessed:

I've never witnessed hate on IR relationships either (I live in VA).

Both black women & black men date out here.
 
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Date people just to spite strangers you're projecting feelings onto, brehs...


Yall nikkas can't be adults doing this silly shyt :mjlol:
 

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When I first moved to DC, I was going to Northern Virginia Community College (Alexandria and Woodbridge campuses) Lawd have mercy, the perfect place to meet women. I use to tell my boys to take a class or two. They wonder how I kept a bad chick. Them fools aint listen tho smdh. Anyway, there was this Asian (Laos) chicks in my class that was so bad. She sounded like a Cali girl but she rocked Jordan 1s with nice jeans, so I was very intrigued so was this married CAC man. Anyway, I was getting As and Bcs easily, she was struggling. She found out and asked if I would study with her. She start coming over to my house every day but we never studied, not for one minute. Actually the first time she came over, we end up at the DC zoo. It must have been some type of Asian reunion there, we got so many looks. Asians looking envious and hating. Lol. I was somewhat uncomfortable, but she didn’t trip at all. So I was like fukk it too. We would leave school together on our breaks and every time we got back this CAC always starring and had some cornball shyt to say. “where yall go, he he he” Smh. The last day of school CAC comes up to me grinning and asks, “ you better try and get her number. “ I said, “maybe when she sleeps over again tonight I’ll get it.” CAC almost threw up. Lol.



Ive been kicking with this girl for 10 years now, she’s 28 now. I always joke with her about giving her the R.kelly loving. :yes: Over the years we’ve experience a lot of hate. Some of my female friends get jealous, wonder why I wasn’t dating a good black women. I tell them she’s a good Asian woman that love me, do I suppose to throw her in the bushes for no reason? Called me a hypocrite, bcuz I’m pro-black. I need went seeking to date out my race. The girls has been down for me for 10 years. Cooking for me, rides to and from the Airport. Trips to NYC. Whatever I need she’s been there. We aren’t together, but she always hits me up to see how I’m doing. I don’t have any other ex’s like that. She’s coming down here to Louisiana to visit me, I wish someone would say something crazy to her. I’ll ride for her any day, cuz that’s my rider.


People see brothers with another race and hate, but they don’t know what the chick has done for the man. You know how many white women be waiting for dudes outside those prison gates for when I brother gets out? Helping to get him on his feet.



So Shut The Fukk Up when you see em !!! Cuz you don’t know what’s they've been thru. :birdman:

No black woman wants your corny ass. Stop lying.
 
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This is beautiful OP. Do what makes you happy. I love black women and most likely I will marry one, but I would never turn down a woman that's not black who's down and truly loves me because of what some tryhard pro-black nikkas think. Personality matters. I have preferences, but I don't hate on a race of women. You're a c00n if you date outside of your race and trash black women. You're not a c00n if you're dating outside of your race and you love the person she is. I hope yall make it and get married someday.

And people clearly have a problem with interracial dating by the responses in this thread and past threads on it. Don't know why people care so much lol
 

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I've never witnessed hate on IR relationships either (I live in VA).

Both black women & black men date out here.

NOVA and southern Va/hampton roads is so military dense
that you are guaranteed to see all sorts of race mixing, not just your basic white/black
ive never seen anyone bat an eyelash.

im sure there may be some but its hardly "omg those poor IR couples! everyone is so mean to them!"
:yeshrug:
 
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