Point is he kept her around because it was CONVENIENT. If it was that deep he would’ve married her well before 2021. Yes, he probably married her out of obligation, but he shouldn’t have. They already had multiple kids OOW and he married her that late? Red flags GALORE. She was convenient, comfy, reminded him of home. He would’ve made an honest women out of her before there were multiple kids OOW if he truly loved her.
THAT’S the point. From a woman’s perspective, it was clear he wasn’t going to ride off into the sunset with her. And it’s also clear she was too blind to realize that she didn’t have enough boundaries.
I've given this some thought, and I don't necessarily see a problem with it. It seems that he genuinely cares for her, but there isn't necessarily romantic love or attraction involved. Sometimes, women may not fully understand how men approach or handle relationships. Some men stay in or maintain relationships with women not solely because of desire, attraction, or shared interests, but rather out of a sense of obligation. In some cases, men may feel they are needed to guide or support the woman who might not make the best decisions on her own. Eventually that gets tiring and draining.Without knowing all the details, we can only speculate.
It's important to note that women can also pursue relationships with men they aren't genuinely attracted to and still come out looking positively. In such situations, the signs that it might not work out are often present.
In the future, we might even hear about Russell Wilson and Ciara divorcing, and no one should be surprised. The signs might be there too. This could simply be a case of them growing apart, and Russell realizing he's not happy. No one is obligated to stay in a relationship with someone they've grown to resent, regardless of past history or chemistry. Staying in such situations can lead to toxic relationships and situations. It's crucial to remember that advocating against domestic violence doesn't mean one has to stay in an unhappy relationship, even if it seems like they've been together for a while.
