Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

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why chu setting this man up to lose his cool.
on some just boil over the pot ass emotioinal lil boi ass shyt off top.

that's some bullshyt,....



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He's already mad. Why not get to the bottom of it with her instead of assuming? :manny:
 

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I'm not asking for anyone to feel sorry. Half the posts here are jokes anyway. I'm man enough to say that I stepped out on her once before and I realized that it wasn't worth it and that I had a lot more to lose than gain. so I cut the chick off since she was getting too serious. Now does she know? If I would have to guess, I would say no. Maybe it's just karma coming back to bite me in the ass.

What really pisses me off is the fact that I'm sure she's caught feelings for dude. I don't even know what has been said but just looking at the times, they been texting each other back and forth hardcore sometimes even multiple times per minute. So obviously she is emotionally attached to this dude while making up excuses for me to stay with the kids because she's working. Sometimes I text her while she's at work and I don't get a response back for hours and yet I'm looking at the phone bill and see she been texting this dude all day. Then she had the nerve to tell me that's she's sleepy because it was a long day when I know dam well she was up 2 hours before it was time to get up texting this dude.

So I'm done. I would actually respect her more if she just came out and told that they just been fukking . But this is deeper than that. She been spending time with this dude 5 days per week and probably eating lunch together while she brushing me off.
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Exactly why you either wife rachets with no aspirations or fat loyal bytches, that work shyt is the avenue for these woman to cheat, you are at work more time you are at home(excluding sleep of course), it's easy as fukk for woman to become emotionally attached to others:wow:
 
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The only way I see myself coming out on top is if I get custody of the kids and I honestly don't see that happening.

Also, I did manage to find his facebook and I can confirm that he is married with 2 boys. I was ready to throw down with her later this morning but I think I'm gonna just follow the consensus and gather more evidence. The most damning evidence I have is the time stamps of the texts and that's not going to be enough evidence to convince his wife what type of dude he is. As far as I'm concerned, my house is already fukked up so I'm going to make sure I have something more concrete before they try to make me look stupid and accuse me of imagining things.


This.

\What you have so far is not enough to convince a wife in love, and depending on how good of a liar your wife is she can try to wiggle out of this too.

You need to find out if they had sex. Im willing to say youre in love, so if you rush out and approach her now she can easily say she was just talking to him about some drama at work, or she can even say she was just talking to him but decided to not go down that road cause she loves you and that they never fukked, and she can insist that lie until the day she dies and you cant do anything about it. Youre giving her room to bullshyt out of the corner and depending on how emotional you are you just might buy it.

Youre in a marriage, with children, this whole thing is going down in flames, in the heat of that possibility you might let it slide and make excuses for believing her.

No, you need damning evidence that they actually fukked and/or doing it on a regular basis. You need some evidence that shes getting open with this nikka.

Forget all that ego shyt about approaching her directly these other posters talmbout, this is bigger than that. You need to set your foundation in order so you can step to her and do what you need to do in full confidence.
 
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if you cheated first, then just call it an eye for an eye and move on for the sake of the children. have her stop the affair and go to counseling.

i agree that "i love you text" was a coverup. it doesn't even sound natural after the first text. she might love him. might not.


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yo thats a good idea you should post that fools number on this site and let us eat breh. i bet he wont text your girl again :russ:

This is actually an excellent idea. We could low key ruin that nikka's life, ensuring he would leave the OP's wife alone! We could rid the OP of this clown and nikka and enjoy some fukkery at that home wrecker's expense.

OP would have to sanction his wife getting put up on the summer jam screen though.
 

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I'm not asking for anyone to feel sorry. Half the posts here are jokes anyway. I'm man enough to say that I stepped out on her once before and I realized that it wasn't worth it and that I had a lot more to lose than gain. so I cut the chick off since she was getting too serious. Now does she know? If I would have to guess, I would say no. Maybe it's just karma coming back to bite me in the ass.

What really pisses me off is the fact that I'm sure she's caught feelings for dude. I don't even know what has been said but just looking at the times, they been texting each other back and forth hardcore sometimes even multiple times per minute. So obviously she is emotionally attached to this dude while making up excuses for me to stay with the kids because she's working. Sometimes I text her while she's at work and I don't get a response back for hours and yet I'm looking at the phone bill and see she been texting this dude all day. Then she had the nerve to tell me that's she's sleepy because it was a long day when I know dam well she was up 2 hours before it was time to get up texting this dude.

So I'm done. I would actually respect her more if she just came out and told that they just been fukking . But this is deeper than that. She been spending time with this dude 5 days per week and probably eating lunch together while she brushing me off.
this... along with the op and another post...

are the worst things I read on here. Cuz at this point, it's beyond her getting some dikk.
 
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