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It's a wrap. I pretty much got confirmation that she told him she loves him. I got these two texts out the blue on 7/22:

Her to me @ 3:33pm: I just realized that now
Her to me @ 3:334pm: How much I love you!

Those are the first 2 texts that I received from her that day so naturally I responded like what's going on because that just didn't sound right. She went on to say that it was slow at work and she was sitting there thinking about me. Now that I'm comparing the times on my phont to the phone bill, I see that she got an incoming text from him at 3:31pm. Obviously that text was meant for him and she sent it to me by mistake. I don't see any reason to wait around for any more evidence if she telling him she loves him so I'm call her out when I get home later this morning.
 

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I don't know much about divorce proceedings (never been married), but wouldn't it be better monetary wise to NOT inform her workplace about it until after the paperwork has been filed or something? If she got fired, I would think she would be able to claim some type of big loss of income and he end up having to pay her more money than he would have.
 

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op, when u finally do move out, what r u going to do about your children and custody?
 
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op, when u finally do move out, what r u going to do about your children and custody?

Well unless I can prove she's on drugs then it's pretty much a given that she's getting custody by default. I'm just guessing though and I won't know for sure until I see a lawyer.
 

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:snoop: nikka no be patient and follow the gameplan we gave u, get lots of hard evidence, financial stability, lawyer. This will take a week to do dnt be a woman and let your emotions get the best of u, think about how much better its gonna feel when u confront her with proof and the divorce papers. Think about the kids, whenever u get mad and want to say sum just picture them. Also dnt listen to these nikkas tlkn bout "oh u cheated already, its karma, chalk it up to the game" naw fukk dat cuz u actually broke it off and she didnt know, its different becuz in this situation u know and she dnt wanna stop, plus if she had found out she would have divorced u and got the kids. nikka give it at least a week.


it's going to take more than a week to follow through and get it going.
he has to basically servce her papers and have his entire story chronicled to help him out as the victor.
in what is pretty much an infidelity based pissing contest.
between the cheating threadstarter, and his cheating wife.
only thing i can say about this is.
this worked out for him.
like most females who play the declining intimacy to ransoming the coochie.
forcing their male spouse to infidelity angle.
that the wife uses a pi to catch and divorce said blue balled husband, in the act.

so, he has timing on his side and a circumstance of events to help him.
i have to admit...
i am curious, to find out.
in this situation and his evidence.
that if he does it right...will he be able to come out the victor in divorce preceedings.


art barr
 
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it's going to take more than a week to follow through and get it going.
he has to basically servce her papers and have his entire story chronicled to help him out as the victor.
in what is pretty much an infidelity based pissing contest.
between the cheating threadstarter, and his cheating wife.
only thing i can say about this is.
this worked out for him.
like most females who play the declining intimacy to ransoming the coochie.
forcing their male spouse to infidelity angle.
that the wife uses a pi to catch and divorce said blue balled husband, in the act.

so, he has timing on his side and a circumstance of events to help him.
i have to admit...
i am curious, to find out.
in this situation and his evidence.
that if he does it right...will he be able to come out the victor in divorce preceedings.


art barr

The only way I see myself coming out on top is if I get custody of the kids and I honestly don't see that happening.

Also, I did manage to find his facebook and I can confirm that he is married with 2 boys. I was ready to throw down with her later this morning but I think I'm gonna just follow the consensus and gather more evidence. The most damning evidence I have is the time stamps of the texts and that's not going to be enough evidence to convince his wife what type of dude he is. As far as I'm concerned, my house is already fukked up so I'm going to make sure I have something more concrete before they try to make me look stupid and accuse me of imagining things.
 

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The only way I see myself coming out on top is if I get custody of the kids and I honestly don't see that happening.

Also, I did manage to find his facebook and I can confirm that he is married with 2 boys. I was ready to throw down with her later this morning but I think I'm gonna just follow the consensus and gather more evidence. The most damning evidence I have is the time stamps of the texts and that's not going to be enough evidence to convince his wife what type of dude he is. As far as I'm concerned, my house is already fukked up so I'm going to make sure I have something more concrete before they try to make me look stupid and accuse me of imagining things.

I hope it all works out my nikka...

you have my sincerest condolences
 
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