so by calculation , the op and wife are sleeping next to each other right now?
so by calculation , the op and wife are sleeping next to each other right now?
I know this shyt is going to be jokes to most you yall but I need to vent because this shyt hurts so bad . I been with this woman for 9 years and we have 2 kids together. Neither me or her keep locks on our phones because neither of us have anything to hide (at least I thought). Occasionally, I look through her messages just to make sure she not stepping out and I never seen anything that raised alarms. I have noticed that sometimes her call logs have been erased but I never thought much of it.
Anyway, I was going though our phone bill online trying to find a number that I lost and I happened to stumble upon her messaging log Apparently, she has been texting another number hundred of times per day either when she is at work or when I'm not around. I even see where this person texted her at 440am this morning while I was at work and they text back and forth up until I got home. I'm 100% sure that she has to be cheating because I've never seen this number before on her phone. This bytch has really been playing me. She has a decent job but supposedly, some days they make her go in an hour early and other days (like today for example), she texts me to tell me that she has to stay an hour late. I'm thinking she been using this time to step out with this other dude while I'm at home with the kids.
Anyway, I've made up my mind that I'm out. I will not sit around and let anyone use me while I'm paying the bills and watching the kids. I'm going to try to play it cool and not let her know that I know right now. I know that if I flip out when she comes home, she's going to deny the whole thing and I'll never get the truth. What app can I install on her phone so I can get the messages that she's sending and receiving? She has icloud on her phone so I can see her location. I just want to see the messages so when I let her know that I'm out, I can hit her with proof that I know she's been a slut.
my nikkaif that dude is using whatsapp it will show up but he wont know that you see him.
when your ready and done...pm me dudes number and the name of the company. i can ENSURE ill ruin dude
We riding for the coli brehwhen your ready and done...pm me dudes number and the name of the company. i can ENSURE ill ruin dude
The only way I see myself coming out on top is if I get custody of the kids and I honestly don't see that happening.
Also, I did manage to find his facebook and I can confirm that he is married with 2 boys. I was ready to throw down with her later this morning but I think I'm gonna just follow the consensus and gather more evidence. The most damning evidence I have is the time stamps of the texts and that's not going to be enough evidence to convince his wife what type of dude he is. As far as I'm concerned, my house is already fukked up so I'm going to make sure I have something more concrete before they try to make me look stupid and accuse me of imagining things.
I sincerely felt bad for you until you said you did dirt 1st
9 years and 2 kids, I would be extremely emotional too.You can't play it cool, you emotional about this. You minus well go head and confront her about it.
Look her dead in her eye and ask her, so you want to tell me who you be texting at 4 am? "Go head call the number"
Stop this passive behavior, that's Probably why you sharing her now.
Some of ya'll posts are horrible. It's like ya'll don't understand what a marriage is and the length and what not. This shyt is tragic.Just let it go breh. Trying to ruin dude will not trn back the clock and may make things worse. I wish this didnt happen to u but it happens to the best of us. Just take care of your seeds and move on to bigger and better things or you will go mad!