Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

[Truth200]

It's impossible for us to 'reset' our morals. We're too far off the ideal path. You have people like Beyonce and Nicki Minaj who make softcore porn videos and call themselves feminists. You have so many homosexuals running around and so many downlow 'brothas'. You have middle school children involved in gang bangs and losing their virginity as such a young age. Teachers raping children. You have 40 year old women making sex tapes.

Monogamy is incompatible with today's world. Our decadence is a symptom of an ailing empire losing its grip on its global dominance.

 

[Klyk21]

So you cheated but now are angry that it was done to you.
I take back what I said. You need to go to counseling.
You must have some kind of audacity to expect people to feel sorry for you after what you did.

Um, we dont even know whether or not they discussed or made up after his infidelity though. Even still, just because he cheated gives her 0 right or justification to go out and slore it up....especially with YOUNG kids involved.

 

[Truth200]

Um, we dont even know whether or they discussed or made up after his infidelity though. Even still, just because he cheated gives her 0 right or justification to go out and slore it up....especially with YOUNG kids involved.

If they both already cheated they need to just accept it and put the kids first.

.

 

[cam>]

only reason OP hasn't confronted her and left yet is bc he has nowhere to go.


lol

op, when u finally do move out, what r u going to do about your children and custody?

 

[Klyk21]

If they both already cheated they need to just accept it and put the kids first.

That is unless she cheated more times then him.

he may have admitted and already been forgiven. If he just cheated w/o telling her ( which almost seems to be implied), they should break it off and just raise the kids the best way possible. At this point, id be looking into dna test. How the fukk is he going to survive the weekend with these new revelations though? He needs faster evidence!!!!!! He needs to text that number and arrange a false meet up. Best thing i can think of. She been texting HUNDREDS of messages brehs. Sure she sexting, talking slutty and may even be bad-mouthing op. Man, i feel bad for his family. This chick needs outed tonight! fukk friends and family, this man cant sleep and will be stressed as fukk if there is no immediate confrontation

 

[Mwrex]

Do dirt then share that girl brehs

 

[thegreatwb]

So you cheated but now are angry that it was done to you.
I take back what I said. You need to go to counseling.
You must have some kind of audacity to expect people to feel sorry for you after what you did.

I'm not asking for anyone to feel sorry. Half the posts here are jokes anyway. I'm man enough to say that I stepped out on her once before and I realized that it wasn't worth it and that I had a lot more to lose than gain. so I cut the chick off since she was getting too serious. Now does she know? If I would have to guess, I would say no. Maybe it's just karma coming back to bite me in the ass.

What really pisses me off is the fact that I'm sure she's caught feelings for dude. I don't even know what has been said but just looking at the times, they been texting each other back and forth hardcore sometimes even multiple times per minute. So obviously she is emotionally attached to this dude while making up excuses for me to stay with the kids because she's working. Sometimes I text her while she's at work and I don't get a response back for hours and yet I'm looking at the phone bill and see she been texting this dude all day. Then she had the nerve to tell me that's she's sleepy because it was a long day when I know dam well she was up 2 hours before it was time to get up texting this dude.

So I'm done. I would actually respect her more if she just came out and told that they just been fukking . But this is deeper than that. She been spending time with this dude 5 days per week and probably eating lunch together while she brushing me off.

 

[Truth200]

He needs faster evidence!!!!!! He needs to text that number and arrange a false meet up. Best thing i can think of. She been texting HUNDREDS of messages brehs. Sure she sexting, talking slutty and may even be bad-mouthing op. Man, i feel bad for his family. This chick needs outed tonight! fukk friends and family, this man cant sleep and will be stressed as fukk if there is no immediate confrontation

All we can hope for right now is that it's a lesbian.

Hate to see a breh go thru this...

 

[Art Barr]

I think the two of you should call the number together. You're going to look like a creep for stalking the phone records no matter how you present it but just say I was looking on the phone records, I saw you have been texting this number a lot and I want to call it so we can see who it is. If she says no, be enraged!!

why chu setting this man up to lose his cool.
on some just boil over the pot ass emotioinal lil boi ass shyt off top.

that's some bullshyt,....



art barr

 

[MewTwo]

I'm not asking for anyone to feel sorry. Half the posts here are jokes anyway. I'm man enough to say that I stepped out on her once before and I realized that it wasn't worth it and that I had a lot more to lose than gain. so I cut the chick off since she was getting too serious. Now does she know? If I would have to guess, I would say no. Maybe it's just karma coming back to bite me in the ass.

What really pisses me off is the fact that I'm sure she's caught feelings for dude. I don't even know what has been said but just looking at the times, they been texting each other back and forth hardcore sometimes even multiple times per minute. So obviously she is emotionally attached to this dude while making up excuses for me to stay with the kids because she's working. Sometimes I text her while she's at work and I don't get a response back for hours and yet I'm looking at the phone bill and see she been texting this dude all day. Then she had the nerve to tell me that's she's sleepy because it was a long day when I know dam well she was up 2 hours before it was time to get up texting this dude.

So I'm done. I would actually respect her more if she just came out and told that they just been fukking . But this is deeper than that. She been spending time with this dude 5 days per week and probably eating lunch together while she brushing me off.

Oh wow. THIS shyt PISSES ME OFF. lmao....I can relate to this. I talking to a girl via texting/emailing/IMing and you get a delayed response. But when you see her talking with other people she responds frequently. My god...my last girl was like that. shyt literally elevated my blood pressure.

Also, you ever considered an open relationship? Your divorce would break up the family and screw up the kids. Your relationship with your wife would remain a 'business relationship' like Beyonce/Jay while you're allowed to fukk other people. I posted about this before:

This might be an unpopular idea but I plan on having a multi-peer marriage. Where, in addition to having a wife, I will have a girlfriend (or two) on the side. My wife will have a boyfriend (non-white guy) on the side as well. We must both know each other's mistresses and have everyone involved take an STD test. I would only introduce such an idea when the marriage matures (10+ years into the marriage).

People have to understand that monogamy doesn't work. You will be bored with your wife and she with you. I see a marriage more like an economic union or a business relationship. Both husband and wife are obligated to co-run the household and handle family affairs. You're morally, socially, and legally obligated to care for your children (education, healthcare, etc.).

 

[Truth200]

What really pisses me off is the fact that I'm sure she's caught feelings for dude. I don't even know what has been said but just looking at the times, they been texting each other back and forth hardcore sometimes even multiple times per minute. So obviously she is emotionally attached to this dude while making up excuses for me to stay with the kids because she's working. Sometimes I text her while she's at work and I don't get a response back for hours and yet I'm looking at the phone bill and see she been texting this dude all day. Then she had the nerve to tell me that's she's sleepy because it was a long day when I know dam well she was up 2 hours before it was time to get up texting this dude.

You need to get to the bottom of this immediately.

Do you have another girl you can talk to about this?

Maybe even another girl to chill with while you stay cool and think rationally?

 

[thegreatwb]

Oh wow. THIS shyt PISSES ME OFF. lmao....I can relate to this. I talking to a girl via texting/emailing/IMing and you get a delayed response. But when you see her talking with other people she responds frequently. My god...my last girl was like that. shyt literally elevated my blood pressure.

Also, you ever considered an open relationship? Your divorce would break up the family and screw up the kids. Your relationship with your wife would remain a 'business relationship' like Beyonce/Jay while you're allowed to fukk other people. I posted about this before:

That might work for some but I wouldn't bother with an open relationship. I'll just leave so we both can move on

 

[Carter G. Hoodson]

She has a sister or best friend?

 

[Art Barr]

you fukked't up though,...
by telling me that you cheated and you were in the military.
you kinda just need to charge it to the game, breh.
y'all kinda even.
you just on here getting sympathy.
i could see if you were completely faithful.
i can't be giving you tips and shyt, and she actually paying you back, and shyt.

you just got to take what you put out.
man, you got us nine pages deep reading about you on some woe iz me type shyt,..
when, chu the original cheaters, my nikka...
fukk type of emotional soundboard you need from us.
you supposed to be built up from the ego candy when you was cheating, breh.

i got symptahy for nikkaz, who never cheated on their girl and they being a real nikka., for real.
then, just man up and say man, they old lady is stepping out on them.
man, you just seeking sympathy tryin to play us.
like your girl you cheating on who paying yo dirty ass back, nikka.

this is some bullshyt...
all you cheater swag nikkaz is the same narcissistic mess.
ol' i want sympathy to be the good guy.
when i was cheating all along face ass.
man, both you two probably been cheating on one nother since y'all was engaged, and shyt.
why you draggin us nine pages deep into your bullshyt you made, breh...



art barr

 

[Truth200]

you fukked't up though,...
by telling me that you cheated and you were in the military.
you kinda just need to charge it to the game, breh.
y'all kinda even.
you just on here getting sympathy.
i could see if you were completely faithful.
i can't be giving you tips and shyt, and she actually paying you back, and shyt.

you just got to take what you put out.
man, you got us nine pages deep reading about you on some woe iz me type shyt,..
when, chu the original cheaters, my nikka...
fukk type of emotional soundboard you need from us.
you supposed to be built up from the ego candy when you was cheating, breh.

i got symptahy for nikkaz, who never cheated on their girl and they being a real nikka., for real.
then, just man up and say man, they old lady is stepping out on them.
man, you just seeking sympathy tryin to play us.
like your girl you cheating on who paying yo dirty ass back, nikka.

this is some bullshyt...
all you cheater swag nikkaz is the same narcissistic mess.
ol' i want sympathy to be the good guy.
when i was cheating all along face ass.
man, both you two probably been cheating on one nother since y'all was engaged, and shyt.
why you draggin us nine pages deep into your bullshyt you made, breh...



art barr

I agree, now that we know he cheated the thread is ruined until he lets us know how this plays out.