Dam I'm pretty sure I've been sharing my girl

KOohbt

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I know this shyt is going to be jokes to most you yall but I need to vent because this shyt hurts so bad . I been with this woman for 9 years and we have 2 kids together. Neither me or her keep locks on our phones because neither of us have anything to hide (at least I thought). Occasionally, I look through her messages just to make sure she not stepping out and I never seen anything that raised alarms. I have noticed that sometimes her call logs have been erased but I never thought much of it.

Anyway, I was going though our phone bill online trying to find a number that I lost and I happened to stumble upon her messaging log :sadcam: Apparently, she has been texting another number hundred of times per day either when she is at work or when I'm not around. I even see where this person texted her at 440am this morning while I was at work and they text back and forth up until I got home. I'm 100% sure that she has to be cheating because I've never seen this number before on her phone. This bytch has really been playing me. She has a decent job but supposedly, some days they make her go in an hour early and other days (like today for example), she texts me to tell me that she has to stay an hour late. I'm thinking she been using this time to step out with this other dude while I'm at home with the kids.

Anyway, I've made up my mind that I'm out. I will not sit around and let anyone use me while I'm paying the bills and watching the kids. I'm going to try to play it cool and not let her know that I know right now. I know that if I flip out when she comes home, she's going to deny the whole thing and I'll never get the truth. What app can I install on her phone so I can get the messages that she's sending and receiving? She has icloud on her phone so I can see her location. I just want to see the messages so when I let her know that I'm out, I can hit her with proof that I know she's been a slut.

:russ::russ: Hurt lol
 

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Also don't listen to any advice from ANY females whatsoever:
Family
Friends
Co-workers
Coli females (:umad:)

Even The Virgin Mary

Everything they say will not benefit you, it will benefit her.
"follow your heart"

"i know that when i cheated in the past, i still loved my bf, i was just going through a patch in my life"

"if you love her it can work"
:blessed: the reaaaaaaaaal
 

Klyk21

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Shes texting the breh at 430AM.

The conversation is going on for hours.


Stop being naive.

Its like your trying to squeeze out any possible excuse that nothing is going on.

Be real.

The supervisor is long stroke slamming that bytch from the back, over his desk, raw.

Why you had to say that? Can we just let this all...."play itself out". The breh is going through a lot
 

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dont confront without evidence cuz she will deny and hide/destroy evidence. dont tell her where you got your evidence too or she will go underground ( like using whatsapp instead of texts).

if you want things to work out between you two:
dont blow up or cry in front of her, she already dont respect you enough to stay loyal, so dont show no emotions that will further lessen her respect for you. just drop her, act like you dont care. move out/kick her out. tell her you got plenty female friends that been tryin to hang out with you but you denied them for your family, and although you are dissapointed with her, this unloyal shyt aint nothin but your way out and thank her. file for divorce(it can be cancled at any time, but you need to protect your financials). all this will surprise her and get her questioning herself while she is gone or even begging to stay (dont let her).

she will have nowhere to go but the other nikka; nothing you can do cuz she in that fog anyways. but without you, she gone be extra emotional, needy and want too much from him (like kick it/ texting with him all day everyday) and i would bet they wont last more than a few months at most. then she gone come runnin back to you asking for forgiveness and sorry n all that bullshyt. deny her and give her a month or two to marinate in her regrets and learn from her mistakes. while shes gone, work on yourself (she lost her attraction cuz you been simpin in some way), get back in touch with friends and make new ones (especially females), work out etc. then link up for lunch and start fresh if you still want to, but hopefully by then you got a better bytch.
 

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op, you a pimp/playa and don't even know it . your woman may be having an affair with her boss but she's bringing you home the paycheck. in some worldly circles that's called pimping. i know the feelings you're going thru with that square template set of rules in your mind but it is what it is. if she is just doing quickies here and there then i chalk this up to being a business/friendship arrangement. i used to keep married chicks out late or all night and sit there and watch them make up excuses as to why they there weren't coming home on time. props to you and all the posters that told you to keep a cool head and get more evidence if needed and if you wanna go that route. think twice about your young kids and possible alimony and child support payments.



coli brehs, i had to read all twenty something pages to see who was gonna drop this og chit.



Oran "Juice" Jones - The Rain

'don't touch that coat' :myman:



 

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dont confront without evidence cuz she will deny and hide/destroy evidence. dont tell her where you got your evidence too or she will go underground ( like using whatsapp instead of texts).
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This is the key. If you approach her with no hard evidence and start accusing her best believe she's going to spin some bullshyt story up. You'll want to take a hard stance but you'll be stuck doubting if you should believe her or not and if it's worth breaking up the "happy home" over something you don't know for sure if it's true or not. Also wants she knows you are on her trail even if you don't tell her how you know she'll clean up her act. I went through the same shyt with my ex fiance where I called her out on some shyt and she immediately changed her phone and email passwords to all her accounts. Luckily I had hard evidence and was out regardless. Considering your married though, definitely get that hard evidence first and then make a firm decision if you're out. Even if you do consider staying, see if she comes clean about what she's done. If she completely lies to you that means she has no respect for you at all even beyond cheating and it ain't worth trying to work out.
 

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op, you a pimp/playa and don't even know it . your woman may be having an affair with her boss but she's bringing you home the paycheck. in some worldly circles that's called pimping. i know the feelings you're going thru with that square template set of rules in your mind but it is what it is. if she is just doing quickies here and there then i chalk this up to being a business/friendship arrangement. i used to keep married chicks out late or all night and sit there and watch them make up excuses as to why they there weren't coming home on time. props to you and all the posters that told you to keep a cool head and get more evidence if needed and if you wanna go that route. think twice about your young kids and possible alimony and child support payments.



coli brehs, i had to read all twenty something pages to see who was gonna drop this og chit.



Oran "Juice" Jones - The Rain

'don't touch that coat' :myman:







Respect + Dap & Rep for keeping it real and honest at the same time.

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Android? Need text proof
1. Acquire her unlocked phone
2. Download SMSBackup from playstore to her phone (remove from homescreen)
3. Create a gmail called - IShareThatGirlColi@gmail.com
4. Setup accounts to backup all texts to email you just created
5. After 2 -3 days login to that email and read
6. :ohhh::sadcam::to:

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