Dad cuts childs hair without mother’s permission. Is he in the right

Is father wrong ?

  • Yes

    Votes: 42 58.3%
  • No

    Votes: 30 41.7%

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Wildin

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Dad's manage the sons hair. Mom's manage the daughters. That's black testament.
 

Elle Seven

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No argument from me. I’d only add that we shouldn’t assume it’s tied to white folk of conforming. I PERSONALLY don’t like young kids with braids n dreads :yeshrug:

To me it’s psychological. Why does the military mandate no hair or facial hair (for all races) :jbhmm: To me it’s about structure.

But of course, bc of the times we in, there’s gon be folk ‘that’s stupid, why can’t I do what I want’……Which is basically the point. Can you handle not being able to do whatever you want. A foreign concept to some

In a combat situation, having short to no hair prevents an enemy from being able to grab you and possibly slit your throat, among other things. Establishing that practice early likely just gets soldiers used to the standard and practice of keeping their hair cut low.
 

CrushedGroove

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I can see both sides. For me, I love my fade with a little up top, and it works for me. I ain't that attached to it.

My brother on the other hand, won't cut his hair for NOTHING. He had an opportunity making big money in oil and another in railroad.

The jobs he would have had required short hair and proper grooming because it would reduce risk of injury. He would not take either of them.

Man, at 23 years old bringing in over 6 figs with OT, I'd have my barber at the gate every payday getting chopped up.
 

Elle Seven

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I feel like we need picture references. A fade shouldn’t be the only option for a young black boy.
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Sweet babies :mjcry:
 

Braman

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You are African you are not "we"


Stop stereotyping Black Americans
Who said the kids in those pics are “black Americans” :childplease:Since we goin by ‘FBA’ rules n all…just bc they look “black ” don’t mean anything

Also why did you assume I’m talking about “black Americans” when I said ‘parents are hood or single mothers’ :jbhmm: As if all sorts of non-FBA folk don’t fit that profile.

Your insecurities jumped out your shirt. How bout YOU dont stereotype black Americans
 

Mowgli

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Cut them plats out that boys head. Good job pops. Of course moms wants the boy looking pretty.
 

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Dad's manage the sons hair. Mom's manage the daughters. That's black testament.
if he wanted the boy's hair off, he at minimum could've taken him to a professional. the kid is probably getting roasted as i type

he's been a boy before. he knows how boys roast one another. why would he set his son up like that with that jacked up cut?

mom needs to let the boy stay home until they can get him a haircut.
 

Wildin

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if he wanted the boy's hair off, he at minimum could've taken him to a professional. the kid is probably getting roasted as i type

he's been a boy before. he knows how boys roast one another. why would he set his son up like that with that jacked up cut?

mom needs to let the boy stay home until they can get him a haircut.
Being roasted ain't a bad thing. You develop coping skills. How to ignore, how to fire back. Might even have to fight.

We gotta whole generations of punks who can't even handle being trash talked to or roasted online. Grown ass males reporting people and banning people. If that's the world you want to live in cool. Not me.

In the real world there's nothing or no one to shield you. You think he should stay home and miss school? When he's working at bk at 15 and someone says he has a big ass head you think he should get the day and rest of the week off? Transfer stores? Quit?

That shyt don't fly.

You really want to piss kids off teach them not to make fun of clothes haircut and shoes but grades. Test scores. See what effect that has. Miss me with that skip school shyt.
 
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