look man, i understand all the self hatred involved. but we can't even touch on that when the overwelming majority of BW are on some:
more importantly, i feel like y'all argument involves a lot of confirmation bias. momma or grandmomma fukks up ya head, puts perm in it, hair extentions, fukks up ya scalp.. so now you spend adult hood wearing wigs and weaves. then when BM are when they see y'all without it,. we justify all your beliefs that BM hate natural hair on BW.
look man, i understand all the self hatred involved. but we can't even touch on that when the overwelming majority of BW are on some:
more importantly, i feel like y'all argument involves a lot of confirmation bias. momma or grandmomma fukks up ya head, puts perm in it, hair extentions, fukks up ya scalp.. so now you spend adult hood wearing wigs and weaves. then when BM are when they see y'all without it,. we justify all your beliefs that BM hate natural hair on BW.
Natural hair can get damaged if you manipulate it a lot. When you wear a weave your hair underneath is braided up and is protected. Go to youtube or Google and look up "weave protective style". Their are women that swears by it and says weave saved their hair from becoming damaged.
How can you be mad when you don't even wear your natural hair though (not you personally, women who don't wear their natural hair) hell most non natural women make fun of natural hair texture and suchI don't agree with you on this one...
Black women have been bamboozled all of their lives and are still being hoodwinked.... Everyone (wig wearers, naturals, processed ladies) has a right to feel vexed when they realized that they have been bamboozled.... no matter what level of liberation they are in...
im more upset that women wont acknowledge the diseaseSo what I am hearing is that you are more upset with the symptom than the disease....
you are more upset at the person for having gotten the disease than the actual damage that the disease is causing....
got it...
so maybe WW rocking black hairstyles will wake y'all up.
edit: and y'all should feel vexed, realizing that y'all been sold the strong and independent lie
Black Women had weaveless hair for millenia. I don't get where this 'damaged' bit comes from. Like black women's hair needs to put imitation White hair on top of it to not be damaged.
no one forced the BW to accept welfare in replace of men. no one forced BW to buy into feminism either.here you go conflating issues... this is entirely different.... and were weren't convinced of strong and independent.... we were forced...
The point still remains that when black men on this site have made it a point to bring up exactly what you have said...women have responded to it by suggesting its just a preference soSee above
No one forced black males to abandon 70% of their black offspring, and a huge portion of your mulatto offspring, but you all still do.no one forced the BW to accept welfare in replace of men. no one forced BW to buy into feminism either.
but you're right, i'm conflating issues that have nothing to do with eachother
Do people by and large really call you nappy headed hoe like that...like is it really a common occurrence?When I wear my afro people call me a "nappy headed hoe" but this white chick gets praised.
And black women aren't wearing weaves to look like white women. That's one thing that yall gotta stop saying for real. Believe me when I say I don't know one black woman that wears weave that wants to be white or look like a white woman.
Do people by and large really call you nappy headed hoe like that...like is it really a common occurrence?