Could you date a person that's slightly slow or not smart?

[Fani Willis fan]

This.
I had to explain so much to this woman, I felt more like her father than her boyfriend.

 

[Lo-Co]

like the difference between the DMV area and the place you go for a drivers handbook.
idk some stupid shyt

Ohh.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I am there right now.

She is not highly educated but she is working a miracle holding down her square on not that much salary.

She is willing to learn so I don't hold it against her when she doesn't know something.

I actually like it compared to a bish that think she smart but isn't all that smart. The admittedly slow woman is humble when you need to teach her something.

They key is they gotta know where they fit in on the scale. A slow bish that think she smart would be a nightmare.

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

I miss my old chick she was dope even tho she wasn't formally educated she was a ride or die plus she made me feel on top of the world

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I had to explain to my wife that "nuke" is short for nuclear bomb yesterday

Sometimes I think she asks me these types of questions just to get under my skin

You are brown, did you cuff her by choice or was it arranged?

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

I am there right now.

She is not highly educated but she is working a miracle holding down her square on not that much salary.

She is willing to learn so I don't hold it against her when she doesn't know something.

I actually like it compared to a bish that think she smart but isn't all that smart. The admittedly slow woman is humble when you need to teach her something.

They key is they gotta know where they fit in on the scale. A slow bish that think she smart would be a nightmare.

Dunning-Krueger effect. I witness it all the time on this forum as well. The dumbest nikkas are so dumb they can't even assess how dumb they are. Couple that with arrogance propagated by american society and you interact with some really unappealing personalities.

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

To answer the question raised by OP - NO!!!
I respect intelligence. Highly. I remember I'd seen this cute chick on my homie's Snapchat, and I was like ... nikka, who's that!? He called her up and set up a meeting with her while I was there and I was disappointed to discover that this chick was a ditzy bimboo - it was so disappointing brehs - I was just never into her like that after that.

 

[Dirty D]

You are brown, did you cuff her by choice or was it arranged?

It wasn't an arranged marriage in the traditional sense but we were introduced by family. I had met a bunch of girls that way, as well as dating out on my own before we got engaged. She's educated but is prone to doing/saying mind-bogglingly stupid shyt at times. She knows it too. Sometimes she realizes she just said something dumb from my reaction and we laugh about it.

Everyone has bouts of thinking they are smarter than they actually are though.

 

[Cynic]

Yes but it's best to keep an eye on her....some women will purposely play stupid to lower your defenses

First of all, u not making best use of analogies. I'm talking about people skills and that's not gender specific. U brought up example of a female martial artist/wrestler and how she may tap out some men but if a man with the normal strength of a man works out...he can body her. That doesn't have anything to do with social skills.

Good social skills come from ur natural personality along with social conditioning and environment. This doesn't have anything to do with being a male or female. There are extroverted males and females as well as males and females who are introverted or in between (ambiverts). There are some women out here who have excellent interpersonal skills along with confidence but their femininity isn't in question. U trying to make social skills a man's trait when it isn't only applicable to males and folks with high testosterone.

There are women out here who are funny, creative and interesting. Those characteristics aren't gender specific either. I could understand if u meant a more dominant aggressive persona being tied to masculinity but being social, funny, interesting, creative and gregarious??? U reaching far with this one bruh.

Both male and female energies are necessary and generally aren't the same but social skills, being funny, creative and interesting doesn't correspond to a person's gender. For example, there are queens of comedy just like there are kings of comedy. All the males and females are funny in their own ways...but we humans and have preferences so we may favor one comedian over another...but they all are entertaining.

Except women are much more advanced at social manipulation and covert tactics.
Playing with dolls and re-enacting real life scenarios from toddler stage has a profound effect.
Just like men love competition, solving obstacles...women love the social aspects

Women lack agency and this gynocentric society which coddles women like children
means they can never be truely funny, creative or interesting as a collective because when
critiqued they cry foul or scream sexism.


Yes, there are individual females who are funny but by in large comedy is dark
and requires a lot of trial and error. Bombing is death so many never take that step
due to self confidence or being looked down upon by other women.
This is what happens when your self esteem is dependent on the approval of others

You are either funny or not. Comedy is the ultimate equalizer

 

[Gold]

Hell no

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Going thru it now.

Grown ass woman misspelling simple words.

Broad diction was so fukk up, had to ask her was she from the south when I first met her.

She wonder why she cant get a job, I told her to go back and take some refresher courses, she said she dont need to..

Im like.... I see why your baby daddy didnt stick around.

She thick ass fukk tho

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Going thru it now.

Grown ass woman misspelling simple words.

Broad diction was so fukk up, had to ask her was she from the south when I first met her.

She wonder why she cant get a job, I told her to go back and take some refresher courses, she said she dont need to..

Im like.... I see why your baby daddy didnt stick around.

She thick ass fukk tho

so all south nikkas are retarded huh? you about to start a flame war fam

 

[goatnole]

So I'm not saying full retard. I'm saying you can tell they're a little slow by things they say. Or can't articulate themselves very well. Let's say you get along real well with them but they have this one flaw. Not saying sex. I mean an actual relationship

Nah, I can't do it. I have no patience with dumb shyt.

 

[MarloStanTrill]

I prefer my women on the dumb side- that way I can enjoy silence, and I can see 100 steps ahead when they try to manipulate me...plus dumb bytches got tha best puzy

I dont want an intellectual sista-- they are SO ASEXUAL- always want to talk about shyt and barely know how to give head proper

 

[MarloStanTrill]

no, i dont want my kids to be half dumb

oh you plan on having kids with these thots??

I would NEVER bring a kid into THIS world- your son will be a tranny, your daughter will be a stud- they will get killed by police, and unless you are rich when they are born you are pretty much putting them in a mediocre/poor life to run the rat race

Im smashin and dashin- let one of these simps take care of the kids after tha bytch is OLD (See: Over 29 yrs)